Speakers Corner Comments

Yes please and body rings. I have seen these and they look great on both genders. Tattoos on particular parts of the body are fabulous. No need to be shy.

I feel that I am missing the point. Why are people stocking-up with toilet rolls ?

when are you going to give one ?????????

NOT WHEN YOU GET SLAMMED WITH PEOPLE THAT DON'T LIKE YOUR OPINION 7 get cused out for it.

Freshly baked oven bread !!!!!

They only had one board..

Its great to see both sexes having tattoos, studs and rings. I've seen guys with tattoos and rings on intimate bits and this does look fabulous.

can't stand them!! i think they are ugly!!

Some can be risky though I find most tattoos when you see the tattoo on the whole body and rings attractive.

It`s in my DNA to look at women. I don`t letch, but they do attract me. However, the tiniest tattoo puts me off. The same with studs. I like a woman with adornments but not jewellery attached to their bodies other than earrings.

As for men with tattoos, rings and studs; they have psychological issues.

I think it may be due to the epidemic we are suffering !

No Rayot ,the reason was ,that I had no one to stay with me overnight, to make sure I didn't stop breathing ,Sorry this is a tad late ,but I
haven't passed my test on finding my way around this site ..

And a very Happy Christmas to you too 🙂

So, Billy----- how did it go ???? did you remain vertical ? Stuff and snooze, and, take the print from the T,V mag ,trying to find
a film you had seen umpteen times before..?

Fine, thanks for asking; and you?
More food left than we had planned, it was meant for six for a few days. Never mind, we have frozen lots of two portion meals, turkey soup, veg soup and even bubble and squeak. Not much goes to waste in our house, use it, freeze it or give it away. I'd pushed the boat out on good wine and now we will be able to enjoy it for weeks instead of days.
As you say, TV was rubbish, even the so called block-busters. Treated ourselves to a DVD that may not be to everyones taste, the recording of the Andre Rieux concert at Mastricht. Three hours of sheer entertainment. Not what you might expect and all the better for that.
The future is looking better. Vaccinations continue apace, the new Oxford Vaccine is set to join the others. Even Brexit has a result. It can only get better from here.
I was pleased and touched by your enquiry, it was almost like a letter from a family member. Please stay safe and well along with your family and friends.

Only one bummer. Won't be dusting off the DJ to spend a night or two at a hotel for New Year.

Hello, I am just doing a bit of "Green Goddess " stuff, boring but necessary. My freezer is full of interesting parcels ,because
I never write on the bags what's inside. .Sometimes good ,other times ,a bin job !! It will be another surprise dinner tonight .Since we are obliged to not eat out ,and cooking is of no interest at the moment ,and ,there is only me, .I tend to lean towice of you to ards sandwiches.The only blessing of this second...I don't know why they insist it's the Second , we hadn't really got over the first one. I Digress !!! my favourite chippy was not closed, this time ,He makes fish cakes to die for,, Might make a good New Year's resolution ,to have a fishcake everyday,.at least it would get me out of the house, get some slap on and non sloppy gear,.Stretch the car's legs as well. Used to walk on the beach every new years day , edge of the Atlantic
Need to stop now ,before you "drop off " nice of you to talk back ,not many people do ,Tell me more ,and I will drown you in words
Read my poems ,and give me your opinion . This is NOT compulsory .,

Hi Ariadne, love the name. Bill is the preferred way, Billythequiche refers to when I was a manager in a food manufacturers that made quiche. If you will pardon the question, do you ever have Chinese take aways? We have found that the containers with lids, make ideal storage solutions for the freezer. You can write on the lids with a "Sharpie"
Personally, I don't have a problem talking to people, but you have to admit that social media and chat sites are ideal for those who are uncomfortable with face to face with strangers and like the anonymity.
You indicated that you miss eating out. Really miss it, along with theatre, cinema and gazing at the sea from the Cornish coast. We were supposed to see Madame Butterfly in April, it has been rebooked for April 2021 so we live in hopes.
My car complained this morning at the lack of mileage and needed two turns of the key to start. Poor thing does not get run as it used to. At first lockdown I registered for online shopping for the first time. In the brief respite at the start of September, we managed to get to St. Ives. As it had taken us 13 hours to get home last year we took the train; all in all a pleasant experience but reducing the car mileage.
Nice to hear that your intellect is in top gear as it is difficult to exercise the body fully especially today as it is snowing.
Keep well,
Bill

You should treat your car ,as you would treat a woman .with care and kindness, and ,take it out regularly ..
Go shopping , ! On line will be the death of communicating with each other. I found it quite interesting watching supermarket
assistants throwing products into boxes for the On Lline shoppers , everything was just put into the boxes without being checked over
for faults..

Had decided to take the car for a run and use some loud pedal to charge the battery and clean out the exhaust ; then it snowed.
I dare say that my car is less able in the snow than your horse.
During the first lockdown, shielding meant arranging online shopping for the first time. Sainsbury serves us well. Have been shopping since but hoards of people, ignoring mask rules and social distancing is off-putting.

Metal horse ,like yours at the moment , only one prob ,it is front wheel drive I don't do on line shopping ,and I did not queue, If there was a queue ,i just left..
I am a Lidl girl,, .have been since it was a dirty word. . Sainsbury's has never been my cup of tea ,or anything else they sell.
Snow gone ,sunshine ,abounds ,Tomorrow is the start of my ,"get more oxygen " era, but fresh type only. I don't know which bit of the U K
you live in ,but there is none of that nonsense here.Even the mall was loosely filled with humans. all keeping to the Boris rules.
Keep safe

Back in March, when we were told to shield. none of our usual places would offer us delivery slots. We were left with three options: risk it, rely on the goodwill of family and friends risking it or finding a delivery solution. I found out that Sainsbury offered a solution for this situation. I completed an online confirmation and they committed to a weekly delivery. To be fair, they have been totally reliable and you can't knock the quality. It's strange how quickly you develop the feeling that you owe something to someone who has treated you favourably.
You say you don't joke but some of the things you say really amuse me. Describing yourself as a "Lidl Girl" had me laughing out loud.

Hi , My jokes are just normal everyday conversations which does make people laugh, hope you didn't fall out of your chair !!!!
So you feel beholden to Sainsbury's ,,suppose they are on your Xmas list now ? a T.V documentary I was on ,.the crew were falling about with
my "one liners ",which needless to say,,did not make the show .. A chunk of this "note ", has just done a runner. I said, twice now ,,,,,that I could do with someone making me laugh ,,or even smile at this point . Are you , or anyone else up for it ? Daily job until the 9th.. Probable explanation , on the 9th., and you will all be treated favourably ---------------By the way ,Lidl cannot be faulted on anything . Meat fish and fresh Produce in particular. ,, German people will NOT eat rubbish.. Don't suppose you have ever been inside one ?

Actually, went into a Lidl in 2001 while in Portugal. Never had one close enough to try locally. I meant no disrespect to Lidl, it was only funny in a different context; you saying you are a "Lidl girl" as opposed to a "Big girl" Silly and not politically correct I know but I find good puns amusing.
I don't think I feel beholden to Sainsbury, just feel more satisfied with their service than with the usual companies who chose to ignore online orders, emails, phone calls and messages. This was despite having all my details on a loyalty card, strange that as soon as things last eased, they sent an email coupon offering money off a large shop.

AAAGGHH,, I sometimes get behind a person who has a yard of cards . I'm also a wine gum girl,,and a speed girl . and one or two more,
There must be a Lidl near you now.!!! As it's your anniversary of your visit to Lidl, Save you lot of money ... Was going to do them today, but
been busy on the phone ,and emails , can't be asked. now Is there a particular reason why you don't answer questions???? I have a friend who does it to me ,purely because she knows it winds me up . I had a laugh at myself prior to finding you ,why is it sooooooooooooo
difficult I scrolled through my bits,, on here ,,so many ,i didn't realise how many times I have been ignored I am probably regarded . .as a
boring old fart .. The word OLD ...... is to be ignored ..One day I did go into Sainsbury's .i just wanted some eggs ..and could n't find them , I always dress ""Exceedingly Well " when I go out ....A shop assistant was obviously watching me going up and down every aisle ,and asked if she could help .. Big smile from me and i said "Yes ,where are your F eggs , her face was a picture ,and she said ."I never expected you to say that "" then we both laughed. ,you look such a lady ,

I suppose that there must be one (Lidl) fairly close but have made the decision to stay with online until I have had the vaccination.
The quote that you dress "Exceedingly Well", makes you sound like a "Kipling Girl".

THOUGHT I'D GIVE YOU A HEADS UP ABOUT YOUR CAR NOT KNOWING WHAT YEAR IT IS OR WHAT SHAPE IT'S IN BUT ANY WAY HERES WHAT I DID IN MICHIGAN & AM STILL DOING IN OKLAHOMA I BOUGHT A CAR COVER ONLINE CAN'T REMEMBER HOW MUCH I PAYED FOR IT BUT I ALSO BOUGHT 2 HEAVY MOVING BLANKETS & AFTER DRIVING MY CAR TO GET IT ALL WARMED UP I TAKE IT HOME PARK IT & PUT BOTH BLANKETS ON THE HOOD THEN PUT THE CAR COVER ON THE CAR SO TO PROTECT IT SOMEWHAT FROM THE COLD. IT'S WORKING JUST A HASSEL TO UNDO & REDO WHEN I HAVE TO GO OUT. THESE DAY IS SHOULD SAY NIGHTS IT HAS BEE IN THE 20'S HERE IN TAHLEQUAH OKLAHOMA. ANOTHER THING YOU CAN DO IS TO DISCONNECT THE BATTERY AFTER RETURNING HOME FROM YOUR OUTINGS THIS WILL PROLONG THE LIFE OF THE BATTERY BUT IT'S ALSO A REAL HASSEL. JUST TO LET YOU KNOW THAT I AM 67 SOON TO BE 68 & I STILL COVER UP MY CAR & WILL DO SO UNTIL I'M JUST TO OLD TO DO OTHERWISE. I'M A STRONG OLD BROAD WEATHER CAN'T PUT THIS WOMEN DOWN VERY EASY.

THEY GET PAID BY THE HOUR WHY DO YOU THINK THEY CARE ABOUT WHAT EVER IS IN THE BOXES FOR OTHER PEOPLE A LOT OF THEM ARE YOUNG KIDS THAT HAVE TO WORK AS MANY DON'T WANT TO WORK. A LOT OF THEM HAVE NO RESPECT FOR OTHERS THEY JUST WANT TO GET THE DAY OVER WITH SO THEY CAN GO DO WHAT EVER. ONE OF THESE TIMES MAYBE THESE YOUNGENS WILL WIZE UP A GAIN RESPECT FOR OTHERS.

I STLL SAY THAT CARS WERE ONE OF THE WORST INVENTIONS TO EVER BE CREATED. PEOPLE DRIVE AS IDIOTS THE SLICKER THE ROADS THE FASTER THEY GO & THEY DRIVE IN HEAVY FOG WITH THEIR BRIGHTS ON & TRAVEL 49-60 MPH THEN OOPS!! THEY JUST HIT SOMEONE & WONDER HOW IT HAPPENED. A LOT OF THEM SEEM TO NO LONGER HAVE COMMON SINCE THESE DAYS. IF WE WERE TO GO BACK TO HORSE'S IT WOULD JUST TAKE A BIT LONGER TO GET TO WHERE WE WANT TO GO & WOULD BE MUCH SAFER NOT TO MENTION THAT IT WOULD PUT ALL THE INSURANCE COMPANIES OUT OF BUSINESS WHICH I THINK WOULD BE GREAT & THERE WOULN'T BE AIR POLUTION AS THERE IS NOW ALL DUE TO CARS. & FACTORIES

I appreciate your suggestions for the car, you obviously take a pride in your car and think sensibly about its upkeep. I have no weather issues now as I have a brick built garage to keep the car in. I say now as at the end of last year I had to replace the garage roof to main the weather tightness.
I had thought of buying a battery charger to keep it topped up. Unfortunately, though not new, my car is a modern design and has "stop/start" technology. This means that chargers are very expensive, as are batteries; so I will see how it goes.

I hear what you say, there is not a lot of joy in driving these days. There are a lot of loonies about who should never have a licence. I must admit that age takes its toll and I am sure that I am not as good a driver as I once was, reaction time etc must be less. I am more careful and thoughtful though, hazard awareness and road perception mean I have a clean licence and haven't had an accident in many years.
However, having had a nightmare drive back from Cornwall in 2019, when we got an opportunity to revisit in September last year, we went by rail. Catching a lucky break between lockdowns, it was a very enjoyable and stress-free experience. The rules were strict for face coverings and social distancing but that made you feel safe. It was much less expensive than I thought, the fuel cost alone would be more than the rail fare.
I suspect that if I tried to throw my leg over a horse, I would split in two; the nearest I got to a horse was shovelling the droppings to put on dads rhubarb when I was a child. It was bad enough splitting the backside of my jeans getting on my motorbike as a teenager.

...And I say this because I SHOP AHEAD!
I save a really significant amount of money by keeping at least one spare item of every day items, such as bleach and other cleaners, tea, coffee, sugar cooking oil, and so much other stuff.
When I run out of an item I get the spare out of the cupboard (which I got for a bargain price at the time of purchase), and put in my 'Shop Ahead' list which I keep with me when I go out.
It can be quite fun trawling around the shops looking for items on my list, and quite a lifting experience when bargains are snapped up, to be placed in my reserved cupboard.
It is not an exageration to say that I reckon I save around 25% on all relevant items with my 'Shop Ahead' strategy.
Shooping around is for when we NEED something, then we have to pay the piper's price.
Get listing all the stuff you have not much of and go on the hunt!

Much more fun if you forget to take your shopping list . Keeps your brain in gear ,trying to remember what was on it.

Imagine what it must be like to have only dirty water to drink like so many people.

Hi Mari50 I did not catch that programme would have liked to seen it. I come from Camborne lived there for a good while till I married, now live in London outskirts,. I also worked in factories in 60s first one aged 15 as sewing machinist.

There has been a massive increase in the grant over the past ten years, while public services are cut and jobs lost. The monarchy should be funded on the basis of need and budgets should be scrutinised and set annually, as they are for other institutions.

Would you vote for a fairer set annual budget for them?

The stats show that the monarchy brings in more to the U.K. coffers than it costs, well maybe not in the case of Charlie and his lot of hangers on, say no names...

Terrytop There is no evidence for this the RF does not bring in more tourists Do not work hard in fact they hardly work at all.

Is this Corruption?

There is plenty of evidence that the royals deliberately and routinely abuse their positions for personal gain.

They spend taxpayers’ money like it’s going out of fashion, on private travel, palatial homes, round- the-clock security and personal staff. Their misuse of public funds is a bigger scandal than the £345m annual bill

We do know that secret deals have been done between the palace and the government, to allow them to avoid as much tax as they can. The Duchy of Cornwall, a large business enterprise run by Prince Charles, refuses to pay its taxes, despite MPs saying they should.

The royals have extensive access to public money, government ministers and every opportunity to interfere – all covered up by Freedom of Information laws and Royal Archive secrecy.

It’s highly likely that the secrecy is there for one good reason: if we could also see what the royals were up to we wouldn’t like what we see. Is the monarchy corrupt? How can we say it isn’t?

Republic has a brand new website where you can find lots of information about the RF and get a more balanced view ok https://www.republic.org.uk

Hi, I actually know quite a lot about:
"The Duchy of Cornwall, a large business enterprise run by Prince Charles, refuses to pay its taxes"
I used to live close to area for some years, and their stuff was supposed and purported to be 'the finest, all green, free range and all that sort of stuff. I think Mrs Bouchet from the TV series used to shop with them, if you get my drift...
The estates were grand and pompous, all mouth and trousers, prices for goods exhorbitant, and at the time I reckond all quite a rip off and a farce.
Well, after Diana Charlie must have spent a FORTUNE on the awful person, and ugly C.
What on earth did, does he see in her when Diana was so beautiful, inside as well as out.
Now C has a royal title, all an inside job and all so totally disgusting!!!
Charlie is a fraud, he may resemble his uncle Lord Mountbatten, but in character he is the opposite.
Lazy, pompous, vain, over spoilt, naive, and not much more than a taker...Oh and a real wimp.
Hope the MIBS don't read this ;-((

Terrytop I agree don't think Charles will have respect that queen has had. Time for the outdated monarchy to go.

You know, there is something wonderful about the British monarchy: while we have a king or a queen no one else can occupy the top job. We don`t want a president, thank you.

.................and who would we replace our monarchy with ? (Donald Trump will be looking for a job soon !!!)

It's simple: Hereditary public office goes against every democratic principle.

And because we can’t hold the Queen and her family to account at the ballot box, there’s nothing to stop them abusing their privilege, misusing their influence or simply wasting our money.

Meanwhile, the monarchy gives vast arbitrary power to the government, shutting voters out from major decisions affecting the national interest. The Queen can only ever act in the interests of the government of the day and does not represent ordinary voters.

The monarchy is a broken institution. A head of state that’s chosen by us could really represent our hopes and aspirations – and help us keep politicians in check.

And this from a young Australian guy his opinion on why we should abolish the monarchy

And my opinion I hope Australia get their own Head of State after Queen goes

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=y0XH0_Eccl8#

A Democratically Elected Head of State Here is Republic YouTube channel
https://m.youtube.com/c/RepublicCampaign/videos?disable_polymer=true&itct=CBIQ8JMBGAEiEwjh29PN5NztAhX7GfEFHSsHCTQ%3D&disable_polymer=true&rootVe=3611

if Charles won't pay any taxes ,would anyone have the " bottle " to send in the bailiffs ?

No Ariadne the monarchy is above the law it seems

Shame really .The Inland Revenue ought to use the high court bailiffs on the "Can't pay ,we will take it away " They stand NO nonsense
or excuses from anyone .Can you imagine all the cars at Highgrove with wheel clamps ha ha .

If we got rid of the monarchy who would be head of the country ?

Boris? I am laughing as I write it!

See what I mean - better the dog you know (Sorry Your Majesty)

Donald Trump is a democratically-elected head of state !!!!

I think Charles is the reason the Queen is determined to live as long as she can.

A democratically Elected Head of State chosen by us. It could be a doctor for instance or any of the many good people of UK

It would not be someone like the US president style it would be similar as to what they have in Ireland a well liked, respected president

Yes I think so. People won't be as keen with him as a so called King ha.

Probably one of the foreigners that have bought up most of the U.K

What about Andy, I reckon he should be arrested for his part in the US scandel, he clearly lied and lied in his embarrasing tv interview, and the nation very easily saw through him!
He said that he did not recall the photo and of knowing the young lady in the photos, shame on you!
And as for his stupid lame of a brother, well that is another story...

Hi ,did you get any response at all to your question , ? Did or have you contacted the Pensions department ? It's an awful lot of money to be
kept back,

Because we are worth it !

Wow , did not know that. Thank you. Going to do research as would like and answer. Keep safe.

I must confess to having a sense of humour.

you could always give the Pensions Department a ring ,and ask them ,The call is free

Thank goodness for that, not many of those around !!!

Both of us do need check ups.Me for COPD and asthma and various blood tests.All these were due for me in March.My hubby is diabetic and has chronic arthritis and a blood disorder,he too has needed the tests since March.Apparently the surgery thinks you should ring for an appointment but generally it is a phone call to say carry on as you are.I am sure there must be doctors on duty and if there is not there shoud be.Where are thay all

Sadly ,I think seeing the G.P visit, is now ,a thing of the past .Receptionists ,or as I call them "Border Patrol " seem to be in charge of selecting
patients who need attention.. A powerful place to be . The route now seems to be ,you phone the surgery ,the receptionists asks why, you may then be given a Phone back ,,meaning you have to stay in all day waiting for said phone call. The doctor listens whilst you explain ,then comes one of the now standard suggestions ,,, "See how it goes " "keep your eye on it ". "I'm not too concerned that
there is anything sinister going on " ,and the best one is ,,,"If it gets any worse ,make an appointment to see me " If you have an appointment with a hospital department ,I find that ringing them ,and asking how far down the list you are.,.or ,if in fact you are on it .
I now use H&B as my G P Herbs and Vitamins , and you don't need an appointment . Apparently a good percentage of us humans
are now Taking care of ourselves. It works for me .

Thank you for that comment.I do believe we are looking after ourselves but at what cost ?.I have COPD and haven`t had a check up for over a year.Also my hubby has Diabetes and he hasn`t had his checkup or a blood test because he has something wrong with his blood.Are we making our conditions worse or better ?

No Val ,I think the more we are involved with knowing what our bodies need ,the better off we are ,I know that since I started to take care of myself ,I don't stress out for not knowing why something is hurting ,or, if I feel a new pain. Stress is responsible for a lot of our aches and pains I ask Google ,and read everything it throws at me , ,and use Vitamins and minerals rather than prescription drugs,,and some common sense, And ,,,Tiger Balm ,,, smelly but good. I have all the tackle the doctor has .thermometer, stethoscope ,the music from my intestines is awsome ,a B. P monitor,and the very useful oxometer,
Can you buy Diabetes checkers from a good chemist ?? I now work on the principle that ,,,,,, If I am vertical ,,I'm O.K
.

I agree mainly.I feel ok and have all the things as you stated so can keep a check.My hubby has a meter for diabetes but really needs his meds for that checking as he has changed it himself.He`s not worried but I still worry.Thanks for your reply

Hi ,I always think it's nice when readers bother to reply, sort of makes me feel that there is somebody
who needs a word or two ,,to give a helping hand ,,or mouth
Take care ,

Thank you for your reply.It is very heartening as you say.Keep safe

Can't pharmacist's help you ? They have been given extended usefullness ! to patients ,and are prone to talking to us with help.
and, give" time ", sadly lacking with GP's .I think my G.P has a clock placed somewhere behind the patient's back ,so he can watch for the
ten minute deadline.

Hello Val ,just thought I would ask how you are ,Safe and well I hope.

Once retired I believe it is the duty of goverment to respect all the taxes and all we have contributed throughout our working lives, and respect us by allowing 'free' public transport, and of course tv licenses, and MORE!
Means tested, maybe, coz the fat cats should not be given the same, that would be totally unfair.
Reminds me of the Poll Tax, the downfall of Mrs. T.

Hello, Terrytop, thank you for your comment, it,,s time for the silent majority to get off their bums and wake up. "Your country needs them"

Beetroot.

So,Beetroot. what is your point ?? You keep contradicting yourself .and ,not making an awful lot of sense .about anything.
Are you an alien ambassador ,or ,a sleeping human,?

Well Beetroot after ,trying to find what wavelength you are on ,I admit defeat .I would however , suggest that whatever you are taking ,,you should
reduce the dose .

Well PJ ,I have to correct you on one point .I lived abroad for quite a few years ,and did in fact , receive the standard pension increase ,.Measly though it was. The pension amount to the resident pensioners of Southern Ireland was ,and is .considerably more than in the U K
The U K government is particularly adept at relieving pensioners of their pensions by enforcing means that have to be obeyed. purely because they can ,without much opposition from them ,and accompanied by a mountain of forms that have to be filled, Laughable but seemingly true ,,when pensioners reach 80, they do receive an extra 25 pence a week.

It doesn't work

I would also add topics such as Real Estate/Business Ownership and InvestmentBusiness
Mental Health and Aging

They have just caught up with me ,, and done the THREAT thing of not renewing my licence, for which I watch just a couple of THEIR
programmes, . It's pointless chopping my nose off to spite my face , .so I very reluctantly " coughed up " and wrote a large THANK YOU
on the document. . Sad old country we live in ..The Americans use a very appropriate saying ,,,, YOU CAN' T BEAT CITY HALL ""

i have re opened TV licences ,but I suppose it will die another death . Very few contributors are interested in carrying on conversations on any subject ,. The Irish have a good way of dealing with government demands for money, . THEY DON'T pay.. Example ..... the government tried to introduce Water Charges .and failed ,NO ON PAID .and it was dropped .trouble with the "English " is ,that we are a load of "WUSSES" I'm
waiting for the day when the pension is withdrawn ,and are given Pocket money

Registered charities do have their accounts audited. I know someone who worked for a small local charity and they were closed down. I think it was because their administration costs were relatively too high. But you make a good point. If you write to you MP they will give you the name of the relevant person.

Some charities are very rich. Because blindness is so emotive, The Royal National Institute for the Blind is incredibly wealthy but blindness is not very common now. My wife was a teacher of the blind and she was very well paid. We were both volunteers for our local blind school in Harrogate. The only shortage we had was blind children !

The Donkey Sanctuary is allegedly the richest charity The one .In the Rep of Ireland has organised coach parties go to the sanctuary. The donkeys who are in the
worst state are in the first paddock at the sanctuary ,which brings out the "OH poor things " .A collecting box ,in the wall suggests that we put our donations in it. This place is obviously run as a business . with a gift shop,and a coffee shop. I support one charity ,,,The Air
Ambulance for Children . All above board .with no "executives " to run it .

Here, here

I completely agree with you, John ... in an infectious situation, such as now exists, everyone is endangered and must do their duty for country and self; in reality the very 'world in which we live. It will take a while to bring under control, but we can, must, and will do it. Ultimately, we are all vulnerable ...

I don't know who postulated this idea John, but I don't think I will be wearing any ribbon anytime soon
I see an alarming pattern emerging, a severe infringement of our rights and freedoms, brought in under the covid umbrella "helpfulness."

If it is adopted, what next, police arresting people for venturng out at the wrong time or place?
History has shown people being forced to wear yellow stars because of their ethnicity. That didn't go well now did it?
We fought for our freedom through world wars, are we going to give it away now?

Yellow Stars?

Jews throughout Nazi-occupied Europe were forced to wear a badge in the form of a Yellow Star as a means of identification.

This was not a new idea; since medieval times many other societies had forced their Jewish citizens to wear badges to identify themselves.

I vote for wearing a pink tutu instead.

Why should we are a democratic nation

YUP ! I agree with that one ,,,,or the next step will be The Bell , Bonfire anyone ????

Seven months on Yodama ,and your predictions are coming along nicely .We, The U.K are on the brink of becoming a concentration camp.
with one slight difference ,,,,, prisoners were allowed out. .

Ariadne.
This is not a pointy tin-foil hat prediction any more, it has become a reality!
Unfortunately, I have many more serious predictions that are yet to come about. Nothing you hear in the mainstream media has a grain of truth., just big brother propaganda to dumb down, herd and control the world population, they are all singing from the same song sheet by the way.
If people knew the amount of control that is going to be exerted very soon, there would be riots.

Tech giants Twitter, Google, Apple et al, are working as a team to shut down free speech and debate under the umbrella of
"hate speech." Masses of people have been banned and are not offered a reason as to why.
World leaders are banning Twitter, Facebook and other platforms for using it as a political weapon, as has been demonstrated in America, one sided story.

Children are being trained to spy on everything they deem all around them, parents and relatives included.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9122121/Spy-Kids-New-intelligence-law-allows-CHILDREN-work-secret-agents-against-parents.html

Does this look familiar?
Quote from George Orwell's book 1984-written in 1948 - prophetic!

Winston opens the door fearfully, assuming that the Thought Police have arrived to arrest him for writing in the diary. However, it is only Mrs. Parsons, a neighbor in his apartment building, needing help with the plumbing while her husband is away. In Mrs. Parsons’s apartment, Winston is tormented by the fervent Parsons children, who, being Junior Spies, accuse him of thoughtcrime. The Junior Spies is an organization of children who monitor adults for disloyalty to the Party, and frequently succeed in catching them—Mrs. Parsons herself seems afraid of her zealous children. The children are very agitated because their mother won’t let them go to a public hanging of some of the Party’s political enemies in the park that evening. Back in his apartment, Winston remembers a dream in which a man’s voice—O’Brien’s, he thinks—said to him, “We shall meet in the place where there is no darkness.” Winston writes in his diary that his thoughtcrime makes him a dead man, then he hides the book. (sic)

Are you feeling uncomfortable yet?

Cashless society coming soon, which means travel, shopping etc, will be impossible unless you have the necessary 'passport' to show you have taken a vaccination which is still being 'tweaked' because it is killing people.
All my life, I have avoided allowing any chemical into my body, but now I will be forced to in order to live.
I feel angry, scared and helpless. I would ask for boycott en masse, but nobody seems to have the heart for it.

Sorry it is depressing, but it is what it is.

Hello Yodana , There was another "King "who thought he had total power over everything ,his name was King Canute. All he did ,was to get
his feet wet ,You obviously do not live in the U.K because of your odd spellings. We , are not being forced to have the vaccine ,;we are invited to do so .
The strain changes so rapidly , the vaccines will be useless. for any of them .
it will be impossible to have a totally cash free society, far too many people rely, and need cash ,not having bank accounts or credit /debit cards .
It's on a par with all electric everything .I can see this Island becoming totally isolated .Boris J is dreaming ,if he expects the whole of Europe and
beyond to "Go Electric ." We are being distracted by Children's food parcels, a ploy to get us away from the virus disaster ,we here in the U.K
are desperately short of strong men, who are capable of sorting ALL these messes out. I won't hold my breathe !!!!!

Ariadne.
The big shock is coming very soon to the King Canutes, elites and Cabals within the next few days.
Be prepared for blackouts worldwide, or interference in communication. Stock up on food and keep supplies of water for at least 7 days. This may or may not happen to a serious degree.

Just stock up on goodies, a good book and wait for calm to restore.

Kids food parcels look dire and a disgrace. I suppose they think all the poor plebs eat baked beans morning noon and night as a choice?

After agenda 21, we have the Agenda 2030. Worth researching these government agenda's for the future.
Don't worry, the strong men coming to our rescue are already in place, to help sort out and root out the utter corrupt, peodeophilic and satanic people who have been riding high for so long.
It has started, Dutch government members resigning, Italy collapsing, 300+ Mafia and crime lords arrested in Italy, Vatican and money laundering racket has come to light. Angela Merkel doing an exit etc, etc, etc.
Director of Homeland Security resigned only after a few days.....

I am in UK, just an odd speller I suppose haha. 😀

Thankfully they've all been able to reopen now. I didn't used to be a big fan of zoos myself when they were about "gawping" at the animals kept in captivity. Now that they are more about conservation and protecting wildlife, I found it really harsh that they had to remain closed. The social distancing measures they had in place were much better than a lot of other social distancing arrangements for places that were allowed to open. However, as they've all now been able to open, I'm relieved.

British electric plugs and sockets are wonderful. I live in Portugal where the electrics are worse than France. They think that the "earth" is where we live. The Germans have better quality but slightly different dimensions. Can you imagine ? These lousily-designed plugs and sockets are now of Chinese quality. The wires come in a variety of colours.

Interesting, and I have mixed feelings. Many people around here have gardens which back onto a brook which floods easily. The brook sorely needs dredging in order to avoid the increasing flood damage around the village. Unfortunately, years ago someone claimed to have seen an otter in the brook (out in the countryside, miles from our village) so dredging has been banned ever since. Meanwhile, the flooding gets worse as the brook bed silts up, and nobody else has ever seen another otter.... Protect our wildlife by all means, but please don't make up stories. If you see one, say so. If you don't, keep your big trap shut. Thanks for listening.

I can understand your frustration and I agree that people need to give facts rather than stories. In your situation if the brook needs dredging they should do an environmental impact survey including an otter survey. Then they will find out if there really are otters presents and if so would it pose a real threat to them. Actually if someone sees an otter that isn't enough to get the area protected. There has to be the presence of an active otter holt. So if I were you I would approach your council and ask why it can't be dredged.

I work in otter conservation and so obviously I want the environment to be protected. But I don't believe that they should be used to stop things for the sake of it. We are often asked to support people campaigning against a development even though there is no threat to otters.

We all have to be balanced and protect our environment. If otters are present it means the water and land are in great condition, which is important for all species, including ourselves.

If you have access to the London Review of Books, take a look at Eliot Weinberger's account of the spread of Covid-19 in America, and Trump's reactions to it. Never has a mentally ill world leader been quite so scary -- world leaders have so much more deadly technology now with which to ruin the world, and this particular world leader seems to have no self-control, nor an ability to apply reason, knowledge or wit. I suspect that our children and successive generations have pretty much had it.

Hi Dede, how's things going for u I'm new here on silversufers ok and u can find my name on here as well but I'm looking for a friend someone to chat with ok so if u would like to chat tht would be great

We've had at least 2 generations now who were never taught how to use food properly, nor how to rein in on their gluttony. Pile it high, eat a little bit, throw the rest away. We need to start teaching kids again about kids how to use things up by cooking for ourselves. Why do so many people (especially the less well off) not realise how much they're being ripped off by the ready-meal industry? Bring back domestic science in schools, teach it to all kids (not just girls) and teach it properly!

PurpleHat, I feel so sorry for you & your horses. Surely it could be done by the vet, with you standing at a safe "social distance" (or not even in the field at all)? You're right, common sense has gone out of the window, crowded out by inflexible rules. Nobody with any sense wants to risk spreading the virus but, with a little foresight, the vet could quite easily do his/her job and be off without spreading infection. You could even pay by bank transfer, so no need for cash or cheques changing hands. Lunacy.

We have always been to Aldi and especially Lidl as that is our local. The prices are incredible and you are right it always seems a happy atmosphere...maybe because of the prices!

Hello Hazel S88
Welcome to Silversurfers interestingly I have heard quite a few people say that about Aldi and Lidl.

A good tip on how to get involved on our site is to take a look at Current Topics in our Forum and feel free to engage in anything that takes your interest. We also have a very active Speakers Corner section where you may find something that interests you. https://www.silversurfers.com/speakers-corner/ and if you would like to join the discussion on the challenges of self-isolation then here’s where to go: https://www.silversurfers.com/silversurfers-forum/topic/daily-diaries-of-those-who-are-self-isolating-due-to-coronavirus/

Keep safe
Sue

I don't use Aldi, too far away, but agree with the sentiment of your post. If people buy only what they actually need there would be plenty for everyone.

I think that the bare shelves in supermarkets is caused by the demand for home deliveries. The staff are loading boxes and boxes of products ,and there seems to be very few assistants who are responsible for re filling the shelves. As you say This is not the case with Aldi
and Lidl. And,, smiley faces from staff ,,and ,,,no empty shelves.

I have a feeling it will. I think this will change society and we will spend a lot more on the NHS in future which will be much needed after decades of politicians giving it lip service to get proper funding

I think people will just follow whichever fashion is in, er, fashion at the time. It's currently fashionable to paint rainbows, stand clapping outside our homes once a week, and make videos of ourselves dancing and dressing up. IF the virus ever goes (apparently there are some well respected scientists who think it'll be around for decades), the fashions will change as people get used to being more relaxed about where they go and what they do. Add to that the fact that the UK always adopts American trends eventually, and I wouldn't be surprised if we start to see people totally ignoring the wellbeing of society as a whole, as they chant, "Give me liberty or give me death".

I hope this will be a blip in history. There is no doubt that the last 70 years have been the best for most of mankind. Sure we have had ups and downs but a lot of poverty has been eradicated and all of us in Europe and in fact most of the world have enough to eat. I also have a lot of wonderful memories in the 60s and 70s. It seems the world after that started to go a bit crazy.

You can say that again. Maybe it will come home to more people that being the first to buy the latest phone or gadget is not so important after all, and that the people around you and the world off- screen are what really matters.

Yes there is a new world coming online now

Hello labenderpicker , (I am a lavender lover too) , I also find £40 a lot for just one person. When I had a hip operation & complications, I considered going online, but was put off by the cost. Obviously one can top up with a couple of bottles of wine, an option I didn’t have feeling too unwell even for a glass...Are you very isolated or do you have unfriendly neighbours.?

I agree, that happens in the salon I go to. Also SOME men’s hairstyles require far more work than that of some women. Another case of inequality between the sexes!

Thanks for your reply - I'm surprised more women haven't commented on this. It would be in the best interests of hairdressers to up the price for men.

Dare you to carry out a survey of the East Coast resorts which are supposed to cater for holidaymakers. Think you will be shocked at the attitude of the councils in those areas regarding the public toilets.

Try Tendring council for starters then try to obtain a sensible answer from any of the holiday resorts on the East coast.

Question to ask is how many public toilets have you closed in the last five years ???

don't come to Poole in Dorset then the council has closed every public toilet

This is an issue in Cornwall as the Council seek to close or pass on the costs of upkeep of facilities to willing partners
My suggestion is that there are Council Tax discounts for businesses that open their toilets for public use.
There could be official notices replacing the usual "customer use only" ones. I am confident that the increased footfall would offset increased cleaning & consumables costs.
In many European countries cafes etc have a duty to make their facility available to the public.

That`s a very good idea perhaps businesses should consider this as it would indeed increase footfall which is desperately needed in a lot of towns across the country.

Has there been a reduction in public toilets where you live? Which town are your referring to?

I agree with you entirely. All hypotheses, hyperbole and none of whom have the true facts.
Makes me mad when they systematically destroy a personage with nothing but an arsenal of
facts gleaned from rumour and gossip that seems to fuel their vivid imaginations.
Off with their heads I say!

Absolutely agree with you make me sick there all plastic there not real people I look at them as freaks, it’s time to roll up the red carpet. Please.

Regrettably, this was one of the outcomes of demands by the feministas for equality. The issue was not anticipated by those demanding equal rights, but inevitable. I, too, was affected, and consider the change was done too hurriedly as it gave very little time to adjust plans, However, I felt I was well-informed about the changes so, if you were not, then your company's HR department was lacking. I was lucky enough to be in a job I enjoyed even though it was low paid, but was happy to continue throughout the additional years and, in fact, deferred my retirement so that I then enhanced my pension income. Have you spoken to your company about flexible working, so that you can spend precious time with your new grandbaby and help out your family; they may have a policy?

I would rather give them away or return them. If it was a car...probably sell it.
Why, have you been given 7 toasters?

Bob Scott, I have you're loud and clear? But as with l things in life not all is as it might seam! Confusion comes in many guises, next month I will be 82. years old, plus I suffer over fifty years of spinal damage, Arthritis, Osteoarthritis and Fibromyalgia that is for starters, just over six months ago my wife had a stroke and I'm her main carer, so trying to keep the brain on a stable path is a big ask. But at the same time I need to exercise my brain as much as possible, so if you find me in the wrong box just ignore me. Bob.

I totally agree

Hello Bob,
Pleased that you have become a member, like what is often said age it is only a number it is how you feel about yourself, make an effort to keep yourself looking good , which keeps everyone guessing, I have great fun in listening to people comments about myself so the last age that is guessed is what I am so wrong but I have a giggle x

A danger and a disaster!

It certainly seems that way, but can we trust anyone

Trust never sits well with almost every high ranking politician (and the not so high), but Corbyn and his hateful crew would be an unmitigated disaster for the UK and its future. He sides with those who would do us harm and disregards our allies, treating them with contempt, his far left policies would ruin the finances of the country causing decades of hardship and discord. He would - I am convinced - allow and encourage almost unfettered immigration, the likes of which we have never experienced before. And then there's his anti-semitism...having dabbled in what might be termed 'far right' politics in the past, I can see definite echoes of anti Jewish hatred in the current far left Labour party, from the very top to the very bottom. I could go on, but must watch the blood pressure you understand.
God help blighty if he ever darkens the door of number 10.

Hi Bob,
You sound to be coping well with all that life throws. Getting old is not for wimps is it!?
Have you travelled much in the Middle East or do you enjoy it from reading?
I have a yen to go to Israel and think I should do it before too long.
Apart from a holiday in Tunisia yonks ago, I have only travelled in Europe. I too like history...I like to read about human evolution and the Middle East is important in this respect.
Write if you are of a mind,

Hi Bob,
it is hard being a carer I was in same position, I also was so grateful of Internet to help with distractions from my daily stress , Silversurfers is a good distraction such good topics..

Bob, I occasionally get a link from someone on Chat...I see their photo/details...but they write no message. I say Hello....is there anybody there? 🙂 Wait for a response and get nothing. I think many people have a problem on this site...it is not always easy to find the way back to pick up or pursue a conversation. Once a conversation is started it is ok...it seems to link back to it. But otherwise...a dead loss! Persevere!

me too. I take a size 3.5 and have a real problem getting shoes that fit and are not the rejects from other seasons.

I agree, also as I am a small lady I get regularly talked to as if I am a child. Which is not fun!

Absolutely not. It is a very dangerous thing to target small children who are growing into themselves and finding out what life is all about. All children go through a multitude of personalities and characters - I wanted to be a cowboy and spent most of my life being mistaken for a little boy simply because I was a roughty toughty and didn't want to play with soppy dolls. I wanted to race around in my toy pedal car dressed as a cowboy. My poor mother had her work cut out with me, especially as I thoroughly loved climbing up the tallest trees and dangling upside down by my legs! If the sex change brigade had got their hooks into me, I would now definitely be a bloke - boys had all the fun when I was a little girl and I was determined to join in. Until our bodies settle down and have a few years of life, I feel we cannot judge what we want to be. We need to nurture and love and follow progress and discuss these things when minds and hormones have grown and settled down and young adults can truly decide with a balanced mind if they are 'in the wrong body'. We must then fully support them with intelligent, love and in depth discussion and without making them feel 'different'. We're all different - embrace it.

I agree with you on both subjects. Our children have no childhood at all. Once at school it is tests, tests, tests. They are taught subjects they shouldn't even know about. They are regimented and any "square blocks" are forced into being round ones to fit the pattern. School should be fun not endless tests. Let them dig in the dirt and jump in puddles.

The HoL...who pop in and out to pick up their £300 a day .. on the assumption they are there all day...then sit and snooze before popping down for a subsidised lunch/drinks...before returning to snooze again in the nice warm HoL.They have no idea how difficult it is for older people to manage on a state pension which they have worked for all their lives..no idea at all. Unless they are on benefits already they have to spin out c. £600pm to cover all utility bills, Council Tax, transport to shops (if there is any!) and everything else! Food and heat has to be limited. Socialising has to be limited. The TV can be the only company many have if they are housebound or have health problems. And now they want to take that away. Meanwhile the rich get richer...they will sell their souls for money money money...the return to serfdom is well under way in UK! They are beneath contempt!

In my opinion Curley what should have happened was as soon as the referendum vote was known a coalition government should have been formed using the best(if possible)People from all parties to get us through it unfortunately what’s happened in this country you have corruption from parish councils all the way to no10 & we are run by power mad money grabbing egotistical charlatans. Other than that we are in a great place (not)

We all know the answer but the Americans won't do it. Least of all their idiot President.
Their gun laws need major reform.

I know Plum. I live and have lived in America all my life. These shootings (school and civilian terror) began gradually during the Reagan era with 4. The first Bush there was 4. Then, with Clinton and the second Bush there were 8 each. And with Obama there were More than 24 within an 8 year period. I think most of us over here didn't really start noticing until the Columbine school shooting in 1999 because it was so massive. If you ask me things began to get totally out of hand by then. Believe it or not within the last 5 weeks we have had 6 mass shootings, that's Not including 3 that were thwarted by the authorities. It's just Too much. Other than what's being done, I suppose we can't get a grasp on what else can be done. They are now starting to Red Flag potential culprits with mental illness to prevent them from purchasing guns if they show signs of being a danger to the community. That's online threats, suspicious behavior reported by family or neighbors and a general inability to control their emotions or violent tendencies. The law abiding Americans Do Not want to be disarmed as well they should not. Our Second Amendment protects those rights. And with free speech being attacked simultaneously, there are constant attempts to seize our legal weapons and silence us just as was done during the reign of Stalin of Russia, Mao Se Tung of China and Edi Amin of Uganda where hundreds of thousands to millions of people were slaughtered under those totally helpless conditions. I don't know if you are spiritual or not, but I am and I've come to realize it's one of the signs of the times we live in. Though, it would be a Great relief if there were some sure fire answer to abate such tragedies. D. Kay

You are right to a point Slave. But, it's not that cut and dry. Our so-called Safe Zones are the main areas of attack, such as schools and other appointed areas. These guys don't appear in areas where armed guards or civilians they know to be armed are. It's mainly where innocent or unsuspecting victims are because these monsters are cowards. More people are arming themselves and placing guards at our schools. This can happen anywhere over here. In addition to schools, it has occurred at the malls, movie theaters, churches, nightclubs, workplaces, concerts, military bases, etc. We need to safeguard, not put more in jeopardy by disarming everyone. We'll be at the mercy of some future dictator by then. I know you've heard of the coming New World Order (shadow governments worldwide) who seek a Complete change to everything and eventually that includes diminishing the world population down to a mere 1/2 a billion people for their extravagantly super rich Eutopia. These many extreme, moderate and small/though prevalent inconsistencies with traditional order contribute Greatly to the New World from what we once knew on Earth. Out of chaos, the Elitist are creating their own New Order and who can or will stop them? Put all of what's going on worldwide and get the Big Picture. Okay, I'm off for a while, discuss it among yourselves if you wish. Take care. D. Kay

No it's not just you. Having spent the last three years caring for my husband who was diagnosed with AML (Leukaemia) he finally lost his battle in June this year. Having cared for him at home during his remission periods, and got him to a London hospital in the hope of a Bone Marrow Transplant...then a Drug Trial specifically for older people ... every visit via trains and Underground to get there and back in a day....the disease got away from him and when I could not longer cope at home he went into the Hospice for his finally few days. They were wonderful there and I was able to stay with him on a camp bed the final night.
Now I am waiting for the half of his small pension to be allocated to me....it will take at least 8 weeks to sort out they said. I am on a state pension myself and was told it is below what the Government deems to be a livable rate....I was advised to apply for benefits. However, being children born just after the War we grew up saving for whatever we needed (not wanted!)...managed to buy our own house and have never owed any money all our lives. So there is a few bob waiting for probate in order to come to me just now...therefore I am not eligible for any assistance at all. We managed this despite my not working when bringing up 3 children...we counted our pennies...my husband worked a lot of overtime....it was all earned through a life time of hard work. Now...in the hour of need....so many people are being let down.
Poverty these days means not being able to have everything as well as the latest phone, DVD, TV Channels...new car...house...holidays abroad once or twice a year. Even their children are being fed for them some of the time! Their expectations have run amok...and the Nanny state takes more each day from those who work hard for every penny to give it to those who don't - for whatever reason....and hand out thousands each year to those coming in from abroad for a better life! The sick and disabled members of our society have to fight for everything they get....this cannot be right. Something very dark and sinister has happened over the last few decades...and it will come home to roost when the younger generation reaches retirement age and they find out everything will not be provided for them then. I would not be able to afford to rent a house to live in now....due to inflation in rents and every other monthly bill....we could have rested on our laurels and rented when young but thank goodness we didn't. I am now busy trying to keep up with the garden - just for a start! So much sorting out to do...so many things left over the last three years...other priorities having to take their place.

Our village has started a *Good Neighbour Scheme recently....with volunteers offering to help out others when in difficulties....ie doing a bit of shopping,..sitting with an elderly/disabled person for a couple of hours to let the carer have a break...picking up prescriptions from the Surgery...looking after pets if someone taken into hospital at short notice....it's bringing out the best in people again. This is going to be increasingly important over the coming years and something every village needs to consider. Fortunately we still have a shop...as no public transport into our local town...and I rely on online shopping once a fortnight...I don't know what I would have done without Tesco this last few years! Lovely delivery drivers...a credit to them,
Yes...everything is off kilter today...hopefully the next few years will see a rapid improvement.
Hang on in there...and try and take time for yourself for a couple of hours at least once a week.
Check out for Good Neighbour Schemes locally - perhaps suggest one is set up if you can.
Best Wishes to you both.
(Says she of course who never did!)

*A Good Neighbour Scheme is a voluntary initiative run by a group of local residents who want to help their people in their locality to enjoy a better quality of life by offering them support with every day tasks.
It is Lottery funded.

What is ASB? Sorry, never heard of it before.

Good afternoon CaroB4, it stands for anti social behaviour, ASB for short.

We have been very unlucky, have lived a very quiet peaceful life for 17 years here, I was also born in the village, but have had the neighbour from hell move in next door. Will keep it short, he works, is 64 ish, drinks heavy and plays what we call "teenage" music, or whatever they call it these days. The longest we have had to put up with it is 18 hours non stop, have had 2 plus years of this, called 101 who came out twice but he takes no notice of anyone.
I am registered disabled and my poor husband of 37 years who is also my carer, has had a breakdown over it, the constant noise is horrendous. You just can't tell or ask this person anything as he will just swear back.
The problem is kind of in hand but am finding it very stressful dealing with all the correspondence etc., have been fighting to get him removed for 2 years over, and am getting very tired of being told rubbish from our housing association who always appear to be on the perpetrators side.

I apologise for "going on", but this is just 1 type of ASB.

It's not the public who cause wars. It doesn't matter whether or not we are more respectful or kinder to each other, which is no bad thing. It's the politicians who cause wars. Look at Iran. Russia, Iraq. It's not the common people of those countries that cause conflict. It's the politicians, the Leaders of those countries that bring about war.

I agree with you. It is the Power mad and the Greedy who cause all the Wars.

There is a humour topic on the forum under General. Maybe you could add some jokes, new or original.
Keep the flag waving for the funny bones so to speak.

Hope this one is acceptable;

Paddy goes into a pharmacy, reaches into his pocket and takes out a small bottle and a teaspoon.
He pours from the bottle onto the teaspoon and offers it to the chemist.
"Could you taste this for me, please?"
The chemist takes the teaspoon, puts it in his mouth, swills the liquid around and swallows it.
"Does that taste sweet to you?" He asks.
"No, not at all," says the chemist.
"Oh that's a relief," Paddy says.
"The doctor told me to come here and get my urine tested for sugar!!

Yes, funny...wouldn't like to be Paddy when the Chemist gives him something for his illness!! 🙂

You can post your jokes on Humour in the General forums. more people will see it an you can see some of the really good jokes already posted.

Go to Community and /or forum
Boards and Topics will come up
Scroll down to General and you will see humour.
In your utter delight at having achieved this, you will want to post more jokes.

Goodness knows we need a laugh or two in these bizarre days.

that was so cute, made me laugh, thanks!

Have you got any suggestions, Bridget? Happy to draft something 🙂

How about 'Would you like to star in 'Silver Love Island'? 😀

Just published this for you 🙂 https://www.silversurfers.com/speakers-corner/would-you-like-to-star-in-silver-love-island/ feel free to comment 🙂

Putting my thinking cap on Sally, maybe others have some ideas too.
Thank you for the Love island subject, yes quite funny, a bunch of pensioners on a love Island. Think of the Insurance!!!

Here's another one for you today - https://www.silversurfers.com/speakers-corner/does-the-person-in-the-middle-seat-have-the-right-to-use-both-armrests/ Does the person in the middle seat on a plane have the right to use both armrests? 😀

Sorry, not a Love Island fan - this is another of the trash programmes that are offered for the enjoyment of the mindless.

Not a fan of Love Island, but a pensioners version could be hilarious. In my mindless exhilaration, I would't mind the £50,000 either.
Food and accommodation should be nice too.

Suppose there could be humorous interpretations but there may have to be an age limit. Not something for me though - I don't enjoy seeing others disappointed.

How about "Do you have a Good Neighbour Scheme in your area?" It may encourage the more active readers to set up this Lottery Funded scheme - just from a day to day living perspective.

"Good Neighbour Schemes are local voluntary groups which offer a service in their community for those in need of help and support. The people who may need support may be the elderly, disabled, single parents and young mothers, those temporarily in need through illness or anyone who may be isolated within the community."

Just a little can help such a lot in times of need.

I prefer the "Marigold Hotel" groups of people - they all appeared to have a good time and some of it was hilarious! I used to wish I was there with them...and the programme with the two crews boating down the canals in France! I would have so loved to do that!

Great idea ... is this what you wanted? - https://www.silversurfers.com/speakers-corner/do-you-have-a-good-neighbour-scheme-in-your-area/ Do we need to add anything else? Many thanks for your suggestion ... Sally 🙂

Try going to Community or Forum and you will find it a lot busier, this section seems tucked away.
Speakers corner is usually quite busy if you want to join in.
Good luck.

I do enjoy them as I was lucky enough to go to Cairo once for Christmas - and the family I stayed with took me round the Museum and we visited the Pyramids on Christmas Day. I did the tour of one where we were left in the dark for a few minutes - just to prove no chinks of light anywhere! Entombed! Absolutely fascinating...but I am very ignorant about so much of it ...I cannot pretend otherwise!

You may be right Cazza, Carl Jung said that people become mentally ill because they can't stand the abnormality of the world around them and everyone else's .madness.

Yes they are just as people with physical problems are normal.

I m living with mental health, or psychological issues such as depression low self esteem and confidence, and as far as I am concerned I am perfectly normal
I would hate to classed as anything else even as unstable . my problems are brought about, by many years of loneliness , caused by me being on my own and living with deteriorating health issues prior to and since my lovely wife passed away from cancer and also the loss of other loved ones in my family over the last few years.

I am working hard to get my life back to some kind of routine and conquer my low moods and feelings and get back to being able to be a happy and positive person

Think that the 'normal' should be replaced by ordinary people who do not necessarily show any outward signs of their illness.

I can relate to what you say. It is not easy being left alone when older...not so easy to go out and make new friends. I have my dog...she is my rock...and she has been through loss as well this last three years...first our elderly Yorkie, then our cat...then my husband.. Is it any wonder she is upset if I have to go out and leave her alone for a short time. So...I have just got another pup...we are in the training period at present...but all going well so far. Gives me something to get up for every morning.. My walks with my dog get me out and about on a daily basis...and brief chats with neighbours and villagers help get me through the day..
I am considering joining U3A in September...there are so many activities available via this route...no exams involved...so going to give it a try! Keep your chin up....and as someone said to me "Ask for help when you need it"....not something I have ever felt able to do...always told to stand on my own two feet...so am not full of confidence and find it difficult to pop in to the local Clubs on my own. If only there could be a policy of being "Welcoming" when a new face is seen - I found it to be like that up in Yorkshire many years ago...a new face was approached and welcomed immediately...it makes all the difference! Those who look at you and say "Are you local?" do nothing to encourage a return! Probably don't mean to be off-putting but somehow it is! Take care of yourself...every step is forward. Stay positive.

May I suggest you check out the topics people are talking about and put your views forward? If you are concerned about airing your views, there is a facility for private chatting but I have never used it and would not know how. I would urge you to join the discussions, nearly everyone is friendly yet animated and opinionated. There is a moderator if things get heated but usually it is a blend of very differing views given in an open and safe arena. Within the bounds of decency and legality I have found no taboos; perhaps that is something you would like discussed "what are the bounds of decency and who decides?"
Whatever, I hope you enjoy this site as much as I and others do.

Just jump in with anything you would like to chat about...it seems to be the only way to get conversations going! Then add your comments on to others....let's get this rolling !!! 🙂 Some of us have been wondering where everyone is!

Start with the weather if you have to ! 🙂 Heard there have been hail storms and flooding in parts of North Yorkshire today...we have wind here! Dark clouds...no rain as yet...then hot sunshine bursts through!
What part of the country are you in....how is your day?

Derby shire sunshine and clouds and rain..