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15th Oct 2014Bijou commented on:
Can women still be gorgeous and sexy at over 50 years old?As a recently divorced 60 year old woman, I can say from experience, that men seem to have a preconceived idea of what someone of my age should be. This usually follows their pattern of thinking that we must all be dried up, wrinkly, sagging, and past it ! Being sexy is a state of mind ! If you allow yourself to think otherwise then your entire persona will reflect that. I had a very long marriage and in the last few years things were awful; and I became almost invisible to everyone. Since my divorce things have changed dramatically. My sense of worth and my whole outlook have changed and yes I can say that I know I am sexy and attractive because of the reactions I now get - not just from men but from my friends and family. Age has no meaning, it is your whole being that reflects who you are; and if you let yourself feel down then you will look and feel older. I am now in a happy relationship with a man of 64. We have a full sex life and, most importantly, can talk and make each other laugh.