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Whitebeam 1's bio
Recently moved home to Scotland and need to make new friends. Interests include music (mainly rock and blues), eating out, sewing, meeting new people. I like people who are upfront and don't mess me about, nothing worse than a liar. Loving life although it can be a little lonely on your own. -
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14th Oct 2021Whitebeam 1 commented on:
Kinda lost - is it too late to start again at 65?Paul 53, you'd be surprised at how many ladies would like a companion/friend also but it's important to make that clear from the off. Some people do lead you on in saying they want a full blown relationship, then change their mind despite giving all signals that you're "the one" when you are probably in too deep, then the resent and upset begins when they start lying and cheating on you. Cake and eat it comes to mind. It's not great being alone, I've had many years of that, Someone to have a meal with/days out/chat with would be great but as you say, got to have hope that one day I'll find that person who wants the same things as I do.ViewDate:
13th Oct 2021Whitebeam 1 commented on:
MOVING HOME ALONE ......AND TO A NEW PART OF THE COUNTRYHi, if you want to move home, then just do it. Recently moved but do have daughter and family quite near, they moved due to work and I followed. I have my own place, can come and go as I please but don't "live" on family, they have their own lives. As you say , take that leap of faith, I love my new home but need to meet new friends now. I had a very active social life and don't know anyone here but it's taken a surprisingly long time to unpack and get sorted. I'm still in touch with old friends, some of 40 yrs and more and speak regularly with them so don't feel cut off. I'll be going back to see them just before Christmas and know they'll come and visit me here next year. I also had many unhappy years and would prefer to be alone and happy than with someone who made my life a misery, so understand perfectly how you feel. Go for it, and I really hope you'll be happy. I never thought I'd move away but so glad I did, a stones throw from the beach and a sea view, happy days indeed.ViewDate:
12th Oct 2021Whitebeam 1 commented on:
Hello - looking for like minded friends to chat withI'm new also. We all have our dreams and things we'd like in life, we've just got have the confidence to trust we have happy endings if we're lucky enough.ViewDate:
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12th Oct 2021Whitebeam 1 commented on:
Do you still send thank you cards?Don't send cards, always a phone call or a message though to say thank you.ViewDate:
12th Oct 2021Whitebeam 1 commented on:
Should over 50s be going to nightclubs?That's so true. Can't beat a good gig or festival. At 67 I never want to play bingo, cannot stand it.ViewDate:
11th Oct 2021Whitebeam 1 commented on:
Hello - looking for like minded friends to chat withHi, am in same situation as you, just moved home, don't know anyone and after getting settled in, now need to get out and meet people, am in Angus area, Scotland, a long way from "home" in NW EnglandViewDate:
11th Oct 2021Whitebeam 1 commented on:
Kinda lost - is it too late to start again at 65?That's so true, some aren't clear what they want in a relationship, but would rather be alone and happy than with the wrong person, it's then up to yourself to get out there and have a life and maybe it's better to have great friendships with people who do care about you and you can rely on, rather than a full blown relationship.ViewDate:
11th Oct 2021Whitebeam 1 commented on:
Kinda lost - is it too late to start again at 65?Agree with you, it's not too late, I don't intend to make the same mistakes but it's important to have trust, otherwise why bother. Unfortunately there are too many people who just want you when they choose with little regard for your feelings. So choose wisely. -
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