canada's bioI am married to my husband Steve and have been for 36 years .
Steve is my carer as I am registered disabled. He is also my friend, soulmate and the best husband in the world (my opinion). I do not know what else to tell you about myself really.
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31st Jul 2019canada commented on:
Speakers Corner CommentsGood afternoon CaroB4, it stands for anti social behaviour, ASB for short. We have been very unlucky, have lived a very quiet peaceful life for 17 years here, I was also born in the village, but have had the neighbour from hell move in next door. Will keep it short, he works, is 64 ish, drinks heavy and plays what we call "teenage" music, or whatever they call it these days. The longest we have had to put up with it is 18 hours non stop, have had 2 plus years of this, called 101 who came out twice but he takes no notice of anyone. I am registered disabled and my poor husband of 37 years who is also my carer, has had a breakdown over it, the constant noise is horrendous. You just can't tell or ask this person anything as he will just swear back. The problem is kind of in hand but am finding it very stressful dealing with all the correspondence etc., have been fighting to get him removed for 2 years over, and am getting very tired of being told rubbish from our housing association who always appear to be on the perpetrators side. I apologise for "going on", but this is just 1 type of ASB.ViewDate:
9th Apr 2019canada commented on:
New to chatting hereThank you so very much for replying to me Yodama, I was not sure if anybody else had been or going through this type of horror. I really know how your poor neighbour must be feeling, unfortunately the G.P we saw at the time was a locum he was very polite, done his 10 mins but when asked this question he just smiled and said "wouldn't we all like that". We just came away. Thinking about this now thanks to you, I will contact my G.P (at the same practice), and see if he will write to them but it will be when I next get my D.L.A, as know he will charge for doing this. It is a brilliant idea though will do anything to get our lives back. Hope your friend is having some help with the neighbours from hell, as it nobody should have to put up with this type of behaviour. Has she contacted Environmental Health about things or our friendly 101 blues? Not knowing what kind of problem they are causing I am just guessing, but whatever it is her neighbours are doing it has to stop. Please tell her that we know how it feels, and just hope that the people doing this do a disappearing act preferably now so she can get well again. Bless you for being so thoughtful, Take care of you and your friendViewDate:
8th Apr 2019canada commented on:
New to chatting hereNeighbour is driving my husband and I into an early grave, for 2 years and 4 months have had to put up with his alcoholism and extremely loud music, have been through all this with the housing association who about 1 month ago gave us a iphone with a noise apps. Husband being 64 and myself 55 could not work this phone thing so where unable to tape any noise, have filled in a stack of diaries and have all covered the dates, times etc., it goes on solid for 5-7 hours and all you here is thump, thump, thump through our walls, even at 02:00. It has caused my husband to have a "breakdown" but is getting a little better, I am registered disabled, we have been and still are living a nightmare. Can not eat when he is at home, stress I guess, normally have something hot about 17:30 but something just washes over us when he comes home, suppose it is wondering what to expect. He is unapproachable as he just swears at us, have been told by housing association not to have anything to do with him, no fear of that. He is 64 same age my husband, but my husband is a wonderful man, kind, gentle, help anyone always has been this way. Have been married for 38 years now and live in a 1 bed bungalow, have a wonderful well established garden as we are on a corner plot, it is all shrubs and trees just right for the birds. Why, why, why do these housing associations move in people who are quite capable into 1 bed bungalows, which were originally meant for older people who could not work, or were disabled like me. We have lived here peacefully for 17 years, and I was born just up the road from where we live now, my husband is also local, we have been good tenants and are now being treated like this. Is there something we have done wrong? All we want is a quiet, peaceful life, do not need this. Housing Ass. always appear to be on the perpratators side. Has anyone here had this kind of problem, would be pleased to have some suggestions if you have. First time on here and apologise for being so down.ViewDate:
21st Dec 2018canada commented on:
Winter fuel payments - have you had yours yet?Oh I am so very sorry have got the two confused, we get warm home discount and not the winter allowance. I am very sorry for any confusion, just my luck as it is my very first post. Feel very embarrassed.ViewDate:
21st Dec 2018canada commented on:
Winter fuel payments - have you had yours yet?Good late afternoon to you all, This is my very 1st post on here, saw this about the Winter fuel payment, and thought I would just say that ours came through yesterday 20th December, it will be taken off our next bill which is not far off. We are with e-on and live in Buckinghamshire, hope this helps although know it is a little late.
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