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So - we have just heard that my MIL is critical & may not last the night.
She lives further away than we could drive there & back in a day, and there is really no point in my OH driving up tonight - my MIL has been away from reality for about 8 years - she does not know what C19 is, which in a way is rather a blessing.
With the lockdown restrictions, my OH had booked with the care home to see her next week - the earliest they would allow, but alas, probably too late now. (He had also booked to stay in a hotel overnight, because of the distance.) But - and I'm going to sound awful here - but, I really don't want to go to her funeral, because of the travelling & staying overnight. My SIL & her OH came to my mother's funeral, but that was 20 mins drive and before C19. I would say, has anyone here had a similar experience, and what did they do, but I don't think that would be the case, as the restrictions on funeral numbers have only just been lifted.
But all advice would be welcome (even/especially if it's telling me not to be such a wuss).
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