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Good men?

I lost my husband 4 years ago in a car crash. I actually wasn't pressured to get back and date again.


Lately, I feel the need to be loved and be with a man. Are there still good men out there or I should just forget about dating again, kindly advice?


Created By on 28/07/2019

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Willy02
14th Jun 2021 13:25:30
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Thanks for voting!
Not all men are bad, why not have fun looking for a good man. Just be selective and take your time.
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Response from PatriciaB96 made on 14th Jun 2021 17:16:33
Good afternoon willy02 , yes not all men are bad , just 50% is , they just have there minds in the right place
Response from Willy02 made on 15th Jun 2021 06:13:52 > @PatriciaB96
IT depends on where the right place for their mind is I suppose
Animal66
14th Nov 2019 21:25:42
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Thanks for voting!
Sorry to hear about your husband. I was unceremoniously dumped by my ex about 18 months ago. Like yourself i've recently felt the urge just to be with a Lady (Not neccessarily in the biblical sense). For men (well me at least), there's the feeling of just wanting to be close to someone, as i put on my Facebook page "I would sell a kidney AND a testicle for a cuddle right now" Get back out there, it's not easy, and there are a lot of men that are just after pictures of your chest. But there are some good ones. Trust me, i'm one of them. Good luck.
PatriciaB96
28th Jul 2019 21:10:02
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Thanks for voting!
Good evening Erinanna , getting back to dating is quite natural , companionship is highly important for everyone , if you feel you are ready then take the chance and go for it , my own mother lost my fathet a few years back , she in her early 80s now., I encourage her to feel free to enjoy life , which she does thankfully , and has one or two admirers , so I say to you , take the first step and enjoy your life .

Patricia

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