Hello - looking for like minded friends to chat with
Watch this postHey, just new to the group, I’m 50, female, and new to a town where I know no one... just looking for people to chat to
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i have completely given up on finding new genuine lady friends to chat with and see if things developed
have other members been a victim to the same situation?
Thanks for your reply, sadly only you can decide what is the best thing to do, but you could always give it a go , and if you get replies then its a bonus, but if you don't, then nothing lost
I too have done the same as you, but I still keep trying
on another tack ,i have used many dating sites and met a couple of ladies, but sadly they have had unhappy past lives, with men and are so hurt or damaged that they believe that all men are the same,
I have also found that some dating site profiles are fake, for various reasons
which of course is not always true
Please feel free to chat with me, no strings attached, its a very lonely world out there on your own. i had been on my own over 25 years, and it does not get easier
take care Mr Chipps
want, or need a man in my life, I much prefer horses. I finally realised ,that I was either good at picking bad men ..or bad at picking good men . ,so I stopped,
It's a decider ,if you are lonely .... or alone .. Being alone is not a bad thing ,choices about
everything are all in your hands ,being lonely .is easily solved .I just go somewhere ,anywhere .and there is always someone who you can start a conversation with ..except today ,I am really in Lock down with snow ,masses of it. car was to have it's MOT but I
cancelled it when i looked out .
Don't know if you like poetry ,but there quite a few of mine on the literature bit ,,some of them should make you smile
I gather that you need a woman in your life ,probably a tad like rocking horse manure .
non existent . I enjoy talking to people . especially on here ,,I don't have to do anything ,,but talk
thanks for your message about loneliness and the cure being in a persons own hands!!!
on this i have to disagree with you, because several times, i like you have gone out and spoken to people in cafes and parks etc, sometimes it was positive, but several other times have been negative and left me feeling like a leper, wishing that i had not bothered and stopped at home
i have also gone on coach holidays and been made to feel very unwelcome, and the more it happens, the more it makes a person feel bad?
i find that things can be worse with couples, who think that i am simply on the pull, like all single men
. i was once accused of that by a doctor of Sociology at university,
(she finished up being told she was a SEXIST BITCH) by the other university students in the group i was a member of. i know from experience that single women are more readily accepted than men are, for several reasons
you and i probably have very different circumstances in our lives, that have led to us being on our own.
it does not bother me ,that you compare horses to men and prefer horses, i personally dont like horse as i am afraid of them!
yes i love poetry and have also got some of my poems on the culture section of this site
my biggest success was to have 4 poems, about !organ donation" displayed in Cape town South Africa , for over 2 years. i stopped counting when iI reached over 2000 poems.
I have hobbies, but as a person i am a social animal and love company and meeting people, but after 25 years on my own, i still feel lonely and like company, either as companions or in a meaningful relationship
Best wishes Mr Chipps1
I`m a fairly new member and a bit pathetic at finding my way around anything new. I replied to many of the posts, but have had only a few responses. I`ve also suggested several topics, but again with limited interest. Anyhow. Look. I`ve responded to you. Now it`s up to you.
i purposely didnt ask Adriana how she can live without a man in her life, because her comment made it plain that she sees men as being demeaning, inferior and less important than men?
i accept her decision and will leave it at that?
I often wonder what the creators of some sites are thinking when they design them, probably that everyone is the same and sees and thinks as they do. when i create my poetry i do what my heart and mind tells me, and do not think of future readers needs lol
I am in the UK and happy to chat.
It's very hard when you lose someone and you have to learn to carry on without them.
Anita x
I hope yo hear from you soon
Take care xx
Are you still interested in someone to chat with
I live in West Midlands,I have 3 cats but like all animals,I also like gardening and socialising and travel
I hope you had a nice Easter weekend and the weather wasn't to bad were you live
Please drop me a message if you would like to chat
Ann
It is lovely to hear from you and yes I would love to chat. I also like animals i went to the cinema to see Dune 2 over Easter it was a good film. I hope you had a good Easter too.
Hope to hear from you soon.
Take care.
I'm glad you had a good Easter break, the last film I saw at cinema was Bob Marley a couple of weeks ago, I enjoyed it.
On Saturday we went on a coach trip for the day to Southport,it bought back memories from when I was a child and we had holidays their
Do you have any pets at all
We have 3 cats and there are lots of cats around by us they all play with each other.
Whereabouts do you live,we are in bloxwich west Midlands
Just watching Corrie not much else on tonight take care from Ann
We did have a dog but we lost him a few years and I just couldn't face having another. I have tortoise it was my mom's but when she couldn't look after him anymore she asked me to have him. We live in Dudley so not far away from you. We went Southport about two months. I like to walk along the river bank.
Take care
Thanks for your reply,oh you live in Dudley,no it's not far from us,I haven't been that way for a long time,used to go to merry hill sometimes.
You don't hear much about people having tortoise now they used to be very popular when I was young,I'm 59 by the way.
We had a tortoise but it escaped under the fence.
Do you have any family,we don't have any children just 2 of us.
Where do you like to go for your holidays
We are going to Bournemouth for a few days next month,we like to go abroad out of season like February and October when it's quieter and cooler but still warmer than UK.
I don't work now,do you work,I look after my elderly mom now she doesn't have any one else.
Hope you have a nice evening, from Ann
I lost my mom 16 months ago like you I was looking after her. I lost my dad 12 years ago. I have a son and two grand children. I am still at work at the moment. We some time go abroad but the last year we have had holidays in this country. I like great Yarmouth wales and the lake district.
We do have some lovely places in this country but sometimes it's the weather. I don't mind the cold it's the rain ☔.
Good night
I'm sorry to hear you lost your mom quite recently,I don't know how my life would be when anything happens to mom as I spend a lot of time with her and I don't have any other family.
I lost my dad 27 years ago,he had to sudden fatal heart attack.
I like holidays in the UK also, I love Great Yarmouth and the Norfolk Broads and I like mid Wales and the West Wales coast it's just as you said if only we got the weather.
We are going to Bournemouth for a few days the end of next month and hoping to do some sightseeing around the new forest area.
It's lovely you have a son and 2 grandchildren,I expect they keep you occupied.
My husband works full time at a garden centre, he's 60 now.
I hope you have a nice day today and speak soon
Take care Ann x
I am finding it very hard without my mom we did everything together just like the relationship you have with your mom. My son and grandchildren they keep me very busy there always something going on .I love plants but I don't have green fingers I bet your husband loves his job and he's good with plants.
Have a list tomorrow.
Take care.
Yes I can imagine it's very hard for you missing your mom,
I speak to mom every day either in person or on the phone.
I'm taking mom out today, she doesn't go far now as she's 94 and her health and mobility are very poor,but she does like me to take her out in the wheelchair 2 or 3 times a week we only stay local, sometimes we go to Morrisons and have a snack in the cafe or we go to a garden centre.
How old was your mom when she passed away,if you don't mind me asking.
My husband does enjoy working with the plants and I love visiting garden centres and going to a few flower shows although the coach trips to flower shows are getting really expensive now so I don't do as many as we used to.
My husband doesn't drive but I do but I don't drive on motorways.
Can I ask your name please, and as you are known as pisces is your birthday in February or march,I'm a pisces also, I was 59 on the 24th February.
I joined a local friendship group recently but there are only 3 of us we try to meet up once a month for a lunch somewhere,we are meeting this Saturday,it's a bit difficult to organise sometimes as the ladies are very busy with helping family with grandchildren and work commitments but it's nice when we can meet up for a chat.
Well I hope you have a nice day today, and I hope the weather will be good this weekend.
Take care, from Ann
Just like you I saw my mom everyday we would go shopping together and go out for meals or just a coffee
My birthday is in March just like you I am a Pisces.
I do like going to garden centers the only trouble not very good with looking after the plants that I buy..
I go to a couple of keep fit classes and the girls are all lovely. I do like to keep busy.
Take care and have a lovely week.
Anita
I hope you are enjoying your weekend so far.
It's really wet and blustery here today,I'm going to mom's soon she wants to go to Morrisons in her chair, she just likes to have a bacon Sarnie in the cafe their.
I went to Lichfield yesterday,met a couple of ladies I know and we had a meal at a restaurant their,we usually meet up about once a month.
It's nice you go to keep fit class and the ladies are nice their,I wish their were more classes or social groups round by us but there's nothing only the one floral class I go to in Walsall and they close for all the school holidays.
Which garden centres do you like to visit, have you been to the ashwood centre at Kingswinford that's really nice,not to mention the lovely tea rooms and all the yummy cakes lol
I hope you have a nice day today, take care from Ann
Yes the weekend has been very blustery and wet I do hope it will calm down a bit.
It lovely to hear that you are taking your mom out for a bacon sandwich I bet she looks forward to it.
It great to meet up with friends and have a chat it's something to look forward to.
I do some time go to Ashwoods garden centre and I love their tea room. The other place I go to is Cherry Lane Bromsgove they have a nice tea room as well.
Went to Birmingham today to Ford Dunlop shopping centre it was very busy. Must say not a lover of Birmingham.
Still trying to get around this site it's not that straightforward.
Take care.
Anita
I haven't been to the garden centre at Bromsgrove.
My husband has Mondays off work and we are going to Trentham garden centre tomorrow,we like it their plenty to look at and we usually have a meal at the Toby carvery in Trentham village while we are their.
I find it hard to find my message on this site to,I have to go through a long list of other messages before I find mine,if you would like my email address anytime I can give it to you if it's easier.
I'm going to book a day trip next week with one of the ladies I met up with yesterday,a local coach company does mystery day trips twice a month for 18 pounds,they don't go to far usually within 80 miles they are good value and it saves me driving.
My parents used to have friends at brierley hill years ago and we used to visit all the little towns around the area when we went to visit them.
I like to go to bilston market, it's only a small town but the people are friendly and I usually find some bargains on the market.
We don't go to Birmingham now, I've gone off it since a lot of the shops have closed down in the bullring and I preferred the old outdoor market I think the soul has gone out of the place now and all the places we used to go for lunch have closed down since covid
Are you going away on holiday this year,we are going to Bournemouth the end of may for a few days.
Hope you have a good week,Ann x
I have never been to Trenham garden centre I might try that one.
I have heard about mystery coach trips but never been on one. I hope you both have a great day and that price is really good. It's a nice change not to drive and you be about to sit back and let someone else do the driving.
Bilston market I use to take my mom and we would pop into Morrisons not been for a while.
We are going to the Lake District and Port Isaac this year.
On this site you can do private chats and you don't have to go though a long list. Still trying to find out how to do it.I will keep looking and let you know.
Enjoy the rest of the evening and have a great week.
Anita
Oh I hope you enjoy the lakes and port Isaac, that's where they filmed doc Martin isn't it
We like to go abroad in February and October,we went to the Algarve for my birthday in February that was lovely and we are going to Cyprus in October, during the summer we usually do short breaks in UK
I always go in Morrisons at bilston I always park on their car park and do a bit of shopping in their
I sometimes go in their cafe or debs diner near the market.
If you discover the setting for private chats please let me know, I've been on this site for a few years but only started looking at it regularly recently
I write to a few penfriends from global penfriend site also
Have a good evening, just watching Paul I Grady at the elephant sanctuary on TV
Ann x
Yes that is where Doc Martin was filmed looking forward to seeing the little harbour.
I do like Paul I Grady just about to watch Passenger.
We do like going abroad but not been since COVID.
I will let you know when I have found private chat still looking.
Have a good evening Ann.
Hope you enjoyed passenger
We enjoyed watching Paul o Grady, I've only just finished washing up,we didn't have dinner until 6,30 has hubby was working today,has to work alternative weekends
I'm sure you would like Trentham garden centre there's plenty to look at and a little shopping village in the grounds.
I'm sure you will enjoy Cornwall, lovely scenery and also in the lakes,do you go self catering or do you stay in hotel
We got 2 good deals for our 2 holidaya abroad we booked early when there were discounts available
We wouldn't go abroad in summer be to hot and much more expensive.
We have 3 cats so we have a pet sitter comes in twice a day to feed them.
Have to organise extra carer's for mom also when we go away it' involves a lot of planning when we go away lol
Sleep well, goodnight Ann x
I'm a 50-something-year-old female who recently moved to Greenwich London and would love to meet for a coffee, a movie, a walk, explore events, etc, with anyone who is young at heart and interested in a genuine honest friendship.
I'm down in Cheshire. Allan
I think I drive my husband mad when he gets home from work as he is the only person I see face to face
lol. I also get what you are saying about driving your husband mad!
Keep busy trying to keep a house and gardens looking respectable and have two little mutts that love walking on different trails in the bush every day with me.
I love typing and miss working.
Our bodies keep reminding us of our age but our brains refuse to believe it.
Would very much like pen pals. Any takers?
I'm in England and would be interested in chatting with you.
I am an active 78 yr old although the winter months I find slow me down a little I hate having nothing to do and cannot wait for the spring when I can get back into the garden.
Happy New Year
Cecilia
I agree with you I cannot find a actual chat place.
I am new looking for some new friends. Female live in Chicago IL. Where are you from? Would love to hear from you.
I am a new member female, looking for new friends. I live in Chicago, IL
Would love to hear from you.
Dealers have to sell 34% electric vehicles by 2028
43% by 2029 and 60% by 2o3o
I"m wondering if any other country is doing this?
I'm also wondering how everyone will be able to afford these electric vehicles.
I personally don't know anyone who can afford electric cars right now.
The average working Joe hasn't inherited money from thier parents like most politicians. have.
Anyone care to comment on this issue?
I was beginning to wonder if anyone was interested.
I thought I would try to stimulate a bit of chat.
Where are you that most drive Electric vehicles. Here in Canada there are not that many as they are very expensive and our country is so vast that we have hundreds of miles between towns so we would be very apprehensive about traveling.
The town that I am in is about 70 miles from Vancouver. Many drive that much everyday to and from work and charging stations are few and far between,.
With the cost of housing these days most here are really struggling to get by.
I'm sure it would be very difficult for them to make high car payments as well but I guess that's the way the world is going. I think things are going to get very difficult to say the least.
I'm new to this site and am surprised that there is no chat other than everyone saying they would like to chat
I am 77 and am owned by two little mutts.
They love walking in the bush with me everyday. We have several trails near by the we can choose from where they don't have to be on a leash.
I live in Western Canada. Will that do?