My husband watches porn
Watch this postMy husband watches porn, he thinks in secret but I often find out.
I know it’s normal but what hurts is that he doesn’t come near me, not even for a cuddle or a hug. When he does hug me he tends to pat me on the back.
A couple of years ago I found he’d been trawling dating sites but offering sex not relationships. I don’t think he actually ‘signed up’ but he was looking at lots of them, including one showing only woman over 50. I’m 56!
I feel so worthless and unimportant.
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as a man I would tell you to encourage your husband, make sure he knows that he is loved. are you into oral sex? try slipping into the shower and stroking him.
At 56, Wobbles, you are still young and have 30 or more years left to live an enjoyable life. Is it time to sit down with your husband and have an honest discussion as to what you both want for the future and then work out a way in which you can both make this happen?
Pornograph is like the soaps ,a escape from reality but should it be a one way street?