Is the balance right between toddlers social interaction and technology engagement?
Watch this postHaving just returned from a holiday abroad, it struck me how many parents provide technology in the form of iPads and Tablets, to entertain their toddlers.
Whilst there is a time and a place for this, such as on a flight or journey, I was surprised to see toddlers sitting at the breakfast table watching a screen whilst munching on their Rice Crispies! I also witnessed twin 3 year old boys, leaving the dinner table wearing padded earphones, walking through the restaurant still engaged with their iPads, not looking where they were going, totally oblivious to other people and their surroundings.
The world has changed and technology now plays a huge part in all of our day to day lives. There is a balance for us all between actual social interaction and technology engagement.
Do you have a concern that the younger generation of today, particularly toddlers, are in danger of missing out on actual development of relationships and world awareness due to the distractions of technology? Daydreaming is your brain at its most productive … are young children given enough time to daydream or are they becoming overloaded with technology? If you are a grandparent, do you have to hold back your views or are you able to express what you think to your offspring? Is technology in danger of damaging our toddlers social development or enhancing their learning?
What do you think?
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No gadgets in the bedroom, and only access after dinner and homework done, for a limited time 🙂
I see too many children not getting enough sleep, and too many parents giving in to their children. And yes, they need to get out and do other activities too.
Proper parenting requires you pay attention to your childs behavior at all times...when you are at home and out and about... Nowdays... people take their screaming whining busybody sugared up brats out to restraunts, grocery stores, public events, ect and let them ruin the ambiance and experience of every one else around them...its like the parents have no RESPECT whatsoever for
anyone ... they just let their screaming brats do what they want...and to heck with anyone else around them...
So its no surprise that they find something that is the equavilent of shinney... and pacifiy their ill raised misbehaved ill parented brats with it.... Ive learned that you cant fix the world... and god knows its broken right now.... so if giving them technology keeps them quiet...im all for it...LOL
So I would say, toddlers are not in danger of missing out on "actual development of relationships or world awareness" because of technology; quite the opposite is the truth!
Our grandchildren have the added advantage of developing personal relationships and interaction with people from around the world, and our grandchildren learn how to adapt themselves to different methods of communication which can only broaden their horizons and teach them to handle new situations easier.
If you feel left out, and you are finding it difficult to interact with your grandkids because of the tablets and smartphones, I recommend you join them, find out what they are interested in, find apps that you can use together with your grandchild! There are many apps for reading stories together, drawing, playing games, you can even help your grandchild practice their spelling or math!
I highly recommend the following;
Kids Academy apps
Numbie apps
Cubic Frog apps
Enjoy the time you share with your grandkids, they appreciate it and will remember it always!