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Just joined so I'm introducing myself

Hello everyone. I'm Jen 64, I live in Essex. I have 3 adult children, who are all busy with their lives & I rarely see them.


I recently had a house fire & lost everything, I got emergency accommodation just before lockdown. So things are not too good at the moment.


I've been agorapgobic for 12 years & can only go out with someone, have a fear of going out alone. Due to health issues years back I lost touch with my friends, so am hoping to make new friends. I used to have a fun busy life, but not these days. I am creative, so can always find something to sew, make, or do in my spare time, but although keeps me busy it doesn't replace chatting to someone of similar age about every day things etc. Looking forward to joining in some of the chats.


Created By on 06/05/2020

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jenjen111 Original Poster
24th Jun 2020 17:43:52
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Just looking down 'latest posts' seems the next lot of people have joined & like myself and many more between have been ignored. If I had time, I would reply to each of them myself & say welcome & start a conversation as thats what we all joined for
MerrillB
23rd Jul 2020 13:53:01 (Last activity: 24th Jul 2020 22:47:02)
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Hi there. I have recently joined so trying to find my way around. I read your post and it was very touching. I am so sorry to hear of your situation. I hope very much it will improve once this lockdown ends. I am 68 and retired in May in the middle of the lockdown. All plans are now on hold. I would be more than happy to chat with you if you wish. My name is Merrill and my email address if you wanted to email is [email protected]
Response from Upper made on 24th Jul 2020 22:47:02
Hi MerrillB, I'm Upper, joined a couple of days ago I scratched my way around, saw a message from jenjen111 replied still waiting to here, please let me know if she replies to you and I will do the same,

Upper
jenjen111 Original Poster
24th Jun 2020 17:41:50 (Last activity: 23rd Jul 2020 21:05:18)
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Had replies, no welcomes, nothing!!!!! Not a very friendly website
Response from Upper made on 23rd Jul 2020 21:05:18
Hi jenjen, you mean there's somone to talk to in here, Like you I have tried to talk to others on this site but no replies ( I don't no if i'm doing it right lets hope you reply,

Upper.
jenjen111 Original Poster
24th Jun 2020 17:35:07 (Last activity: 26th Jun 2020 23:44:22)
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Not a very friendly site this is it? When i joined I introduced myself, hoping to chat,meet new people etc which we are all here for. Not one response, not one. I am in few Facebook groups & when someone new joins everyone welcomes them & they are instant;y part of the group community.
I thought as this was targeted at the over 50's it would be a more suitable place to join.
I was so wrong.
I have looked back through posts & see it has happened to others too. There is just a few that seem to have conversation among themselves, but thats it.
Maybe who ever runs this website could make improvements, as it could be good.
Response from Sally - Silversurfer's Editor made on 26th Jun 2020 23:44:22
Hello there ... thank you for your feedback ... I personally welcomed you back on 19th May but perhaps you missed my comment? I mentioned that we have recently launched an additional area in the Forum called Local Community - Here is the link to the new Local Community section - https://www.silversurfers.com/silversurfers-local/ You may find some like-minded members from Essex if you post here.

There are many other active threads in the general Forum, so you may want join in with one of those as well.

Best wishes, Sally 🙂
jenjen111 Original Poster
7th May 2020 18:02:23
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Thanks for voting!
Have I posted in the wrong place?

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