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Just joined so I'm introducing myself.

I will be 67 next month and retired from the many different jobs in my working life. I guess that I didn’t ever find my calling. I went to university at age 59 but when it was over it was too late to launch a new career. I wanted to lecture but students don’t want to listen to old fogies, so sadly I put aside that idea and settled into life as an eccentric dog owner.

I live in a beautiful Lancashire valley surrounded by hills that demand they be walked/climbed, how could I refuse?

I would like to do a bit of cycle touring but a recent diagnosis of spondylosis and some hip pain means that I may not be doing a world tour anytime soon!

I’m keen to make some friends as I have been on my own for a very long time now, my daughters don’t bother much with me and I don’t have a partner.I didn’t expect to be so isolated at this time in my life, isn’t it strange the way family and friends seem to forget us when we get past 60?

I will pop in regularly and hope to strike up some friendships.


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Heather04
26th Nov 2016 18:18:21
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Thank you for your reply now I just have to find my way around
Sandra0
21 hours ago (Last activity: 23rd Jun 2021 22:56:25)
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Hello
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Tya
4th May 2021 20:16:45 (Last activity: 23rd Jun 2021 16:15:20)
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hi lancashire valley lol sounds a lot like me however you are much more active, i seem to have gotten very lazy in my dotage. lost my best friend of 57 years a few years ago so no more sounding board. as you noted. as you noted children are great but do not compare to a good friend. i am also flying solo although husband is still alive and living in our old house. not much to do during this pandemic and i dont have a lovely valley to walk in, somehow tramping on the streets of montreal would not compare. have been following the news channels both american and canadian and they have left me in fear for the younger generation. they have also dampened my enthusiasm for life. will be on often if you want to chat. Tya
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Response from Tya made on 4th May 2021 20:44:35 > @Sally - Silversurfer's Editor
hey thanks for welcome, lol not great on this site am typing then it all disappears. i guess with time it will work out. this old brain works a bit slower than it use to . Tya
Response from sandra485 made on 8th May 2021 12:07:14 > @Tya
Hi
I am sandra retired 71 and a carer
Are you still on this site
Response from Sweetsue1953 made on 5th Jun 2021 11:13:09
Hi just read ur story . I am single age 68 . Fed up like u at times . . Lost my mum last June . Was an horrendous time . But getting there slowly . I have two brothers one I don’t speak to . The other lives next door to me . See him quite a lot . But if if I want any thing doing . Yes it’s a case of get on with it . I have a niece lives in Middlesborough . Spent two weeks with them . A few weeks ago . But heard from her once since then . If they want money there there on the phone . Straight away . . Nice talking to u . x
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Response from sandra485 made 1 days ago > @Sweetsue1953
Hi June do you still want someone to chat too
Michelle56
2 days ago (Last activity: 22nd Jun 2021 16:05:24)
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Hello I am a newbie, I live on the Gold Coast, and 64. 2 grown up children. Looking to make friends.
Response from PatriciaB96 made 2 days ago
Good afternoon Michelle 56 and welcome to the site, I hope you will make lots of new friends here
formbyflyer
3rd May 2021 22:48:06 (Last activity: 21st Jun 2021 10:31:04)
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Not long joined,my brave,beautiful wife died recently and has left a void in my life.I try to keep myself occupied but the emptiness is overbearing at times.I'm hoping that through chat and exchanging experiences this will help my feeling of isolation.I have few friends,they have either passed over or moved on,in the words of the late great Willy Pep "First your legs go.Then your reflexes and then your friends"LOL
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Response from GrahamD95 made on 4th May 2021 10:34:09
Hi Formbyflyer

I have recently retired and moved from my work area so I feel something similar. Trying to rebuild a 'social circle' is not easy as you get older not least in this time of Covid. I have been a member of The Ramblers for years but never gone along to any of their walks. Perhaps that's a way forward. Anyway, if would want, please reply and we can have a chat.
Response from formbyflyer made on 4th May 2021 11:18:33 > @GrahamD95
Hi Graham,thank you for response,I'm not one for writing long protracted letters but it is good to know that someone out there took time out to write a reply and for that I'm grateful. I have thought of joining local groups but at the moment I'm holding back as I don't want to inflict my misery onto other people.I'm constantly hearing "Times a great healer" from well meaning acquaintances,at this present time this is not happening for me.Maybe my bereavement pains will subside and I can start feeling more sociable,just to air my feelings to you,a stranger,helps so thank you for lending me your ear. Take care Formbyflyer.
Response from GrahamD95 made on 4th May 2021 11:57:28
Thanks for the reply. You must have loved each other very much and that is a great gift in itself. Time may, one day, dull the pain which of course is not what you really want. That perhaps is for another time and place. In the meantime, can I suggest you cut yourself some slack and allow others to be with you on life's journey. As the old advert says - it's good to talk; usually for talker and listener!

Take care and reply anytime, Graham
Response from Tya made on 4th May 2021 20:41:25 > @formbyflyer
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Response from Angel9uk made 3 days ago > @formbyflyer
Little by little we can let go of loss, but we never let go of love.
MickinPlymouth
15th Jun 2021 00:17:22 (Last activity: 20th Jun 2021 12:22:18)
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My family and friends keep in touch now and again, especially when they want money off me..:)
Response from PatriciaB96 made 4 days ago
Good afternoon and welcome to the site, mickinplymouth , I hope you will make lots of new friends here,
CindyRose
10th Jun 2021 03:56:11 (Last activity: 19th Jun 2021 22:30:03)
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I just joined & looking for friends. The Wa Puget Sound area. Like many, my kids don't bother & life without my job would be depressing.
How are u doing?
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Response from PatriciaB96 made on 10th Jun 2021 10:30:18
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Response from Joannahome made on 15th Jun 2021 14:23:59 > @Sally - Silversurfer's Editor
Thank you for your post. I am new to chat rooms. I am 70. walking, jigsaw puzzles, reading biographies and my children live a ways away, are very busy with their lives and I would like to have some online friends if possible. I noticed your post was 9/3/15 so I don't know if you are still posting to this website. May you have a refreshing day.
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Response from MaureenE55 made 4 days ago > @Joannahome
Hello Joannahome. Like you I’m just starting on here. Also like you I love reading and jigsaws on my iPad. Have mobility issues though so not as active as you. I would love to hear from you if you would like to be in touch, all good wishes, Maureen
MaureenB167
16th Jun 2021 01:34:26 (Last activity: 16th Jun 2021 08:03:13)
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Greetings from sunny Tucson AZ.
I have never joined a chat before, so please excuse my "newness". I find as I have passed the 70 year age mark, my longtime friends are disappearing at an alarming rate. I find myself writing Heaven in my address book much more often. Neighbors of years and years are moving to be closer to their children, so here I am, hoping to find some new friends.

I am a professional artist, a gourmet cook, and an avid gardener. The heat here in Tucson limits my summer cooking, but when our winter comes around, I'm out in that kitchen rattlin' those pots and pans.

I am originally from the Northwest suburbs of Chicago, and I'm hoping there will be some Windy City friends to chat with. I will consider all new friends a gift.
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Joannahome
15th Jun 2021 14:23:04
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Thank you for your post. I am new to chat rooms. I am 70. walking, jigsaw puzzles, reading biographies and my children live a ways away, are very busy with their lives and I would like to have some online friends if possible. I noticed your post was 9/3/15 so I don't know if you are still posting to this website. May you have a refreshing day.
JustHannah
26th May 2021 23:25:53 (Last activity: 27th May 2021 07:50:24)
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Hi, where in Lancashire are you. I to live in a beautiful valley and do lots of walking with my pooches.
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Alfred6
8th May 2021 10:34:13 (Last activity: 25th May 2021 23:41:01)
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Would love to keep company...electronically..I am in a similar position to you...company-wise..so would appreciate a "pen-friend"..as such..

regards,

Al
Response from Ariadne made on 22nd May 2021 10:19:30
Hello Alfred ,pen friend number one here , Never had much luck with finding responses either .however ,hope springs eternal .I much prefer pen and paper pals, but most succumbed to broken nails ,and major misspelling. I live in South Yorkshire ,15 minute drive from the Chatsworth estate ,so i do visit quite a lot .to see the duke's huge herd of deer. plus ,any excuse to get behind the wheel of my lively car. I will keep this short ,in case you don't reply ,or,it gets lost !!!!
Response from Alfred6 made on 25th May 2021 23:41:01 > @Ariadne
Hi there Ariadne...
Beautiful name..if I may say so..
I am down on the south coast..Dorset...was originally from London..but removed further south after retirement..Do miss the "old smoke"...well..the night life really. As I worked in the casino world,my social life was "upside down",as it were..totally opposite to "9 to 5ers"..
You sound as lively as your car..lol..I do hope we can get along electronically...If it suits..I am available(??!!) on [email protected].
..Hope to hear from you..either via here or email.
Take care,
regards
Al
sandra485
7th May 2021 18:13:07 (Last activity: 23rd May 2021 13:25:30)
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Hi I noticed that your post dated 2015 so not sure is you are still interested in chatting with anybody
My name is Sandra and I’m 71 and I live up in the Pennines in Lancashire and one of my biggest joy is walking my dog Ellie
I’m a carer for my husband who is had several strokes
Sandra
Response from Trillium made on 7th May 2021 20:43:23
Sandra
People get lost on this site and so there are many old messages that go unanswered. There should be less categories and a better way to get around the site and find your way back to the messages you responded to.
Response from Alfred6 made on 8th May 2021 10:30:54
Would like to start correspondence with you.....if agreeable..

regards,

Al
Response from sandra485 made on 8th May 2021 11:54:36 > @Trillium
I am glad I am not the only one
It is a interesting site but
Response from sandra485 made on 8th May 2021 12:01:57 > @Alfred6
Not sure if this is a forum site or one to one chat
I haven’t really got to grips with it yet
A general pen friend...as longs as there are no debates etc
I am easygoing...I think
I have just updated my profile
Response from sandra485 made on 14th May 2021 17:32:08 > @Trillium
Trillium
It confused me with the dates
Hope you have a good day
Sandra
Response from Trillium made on 15th May 2021 04:54:46 > @Alfred6
Hi There Alfred6
Not sure if you were referring to Sandra 485 or Trillium to correspond with so I thought I would just write ....
I live in the heart of downtown Toronto on the shores of Lake Ontario. I am retired and enjoy the free time that it affords me to travel, except of course during the Pandemic. We have been in lockdown as long as I can remember, but thankfully we can travel within Canada and it’s a big country. Love both the west and east coast ... each very different and each absolutely breathtaking.
Cheers,
Anna
Response from sandra485 made on 15th May 2021 21:58:47 > @Alfred6
Hi have you found somebody to chat to
I do find this site a bit confusing
Sandra
Response from Novram made on 21st May 2021 17:00:06 > @Trillium
I agree with you Trillium. The site is confusing. I'm a retired PC tech in Maryland, U.S. I use to work on computers for a living and I get lost on some of these web pages too.
Response from Codymitz made on 21st May 2021 20:49:05 > @Trillium
I totally agree. There are far too many options and so many old messages. I’ve just started here but once I write something I can’t get back to the same but the next day. Just full of folk introducing themselves
Response from Ariadne made on 22nd May 2021 10:02:06 > @Trillium
Hello fellow lost souls !!!! I have been wandering this maze for years .I find someone I could enjoy getting to know ,and they disappear, probably in the same maze .Very frustrating, and so I don't bother,for while ,Maybe if SALLY. the owner read all the posts on this subject .from LOTS of us she,might do some directions.for us ,
Or, she might enjoy seeing us all flounder .if on the off chance anyone would like to chat , I'm here !!!!!! Waiting !!!!!
Response from Ariadne made on 22nd May 2021 10:24:30 > @sandra485
Hi Sandra ,from over the border . this just might be our lucky day to start ,and keep in touch, fingers crossed
Response from sandra485 made on 22nd May 2021 17:38:10 > @Ariadne
Hi sandra here...
This is a really difficult sight to navigate
But hopefully I am responding to you.. over the border in Scotland
I am In Lancashire
I did think of contacting Sally but let’s see how this goes
It will be great chatting I could bit irregular with replies but I will reply
Sandra
Response from Codymitz made on 23rd May 2021 13:25:30 > @Ariadne
I could not agree more. It’s really disappointing because it seems so many people really do just want to chat and state they are having similar issues. Sometimes a chat is all they want. Once you say hello you can’t find the same spot again. Frustrating It’s full of folk saying exactly the same thing so you have to ask why it’s not being addressed
Charlesb
18th May 2021 21:21:19
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Hi Celtwitch and I am Charles welcome to the site. Interesting introduction you have. Hope you some friends.
Midnight cowboy
17th May 2021 23:12:40 (Last activity: 18th May 2021 16:00:59)
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Hi , hope you are remaing positive ! I am a widower , lots of health issues but do not dwell on them , my kids have flown the nest , I am happy to chat , I am a good listener ,
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Response from PatriciaB96 made on 18th May 2021 16:00:59
Good afternoon midnight cowboy welcome to the site
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14th May 2021 14:30:02 (Last activity: 14th May 2021 15:03:02)
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PatriciaB96
11th May 2021 18:15:33
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Good evening, and welcome to all new members to the site, I hope you will all make new friends here.
GrahamD95
8th May 2021 10:16:20
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Agreed - I am new to this site and would like to contribute. I have made several comments but can never find responses if any.
kate6855
5th May 2021 20:54:36 (Last activity: 7th May 2021 13:22:39)
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I have never tried this but it seemed interesting. I am a retired nurse. I find since I retired I am alone alot and sometimes it is fine, but sometimes I just want to interact with people around my age.
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Response from TopsyTurvey made on 7th May 2021 12:42:20
Hi Kate Ive just joined and Ive just retired too and to be honest Im feeling a bit lost too! My son left home in February and although he doesnt live too far away I try not to interfere! So Im rattling around on my own with a long list of jobs to do in my head but most of all am missing some friendly chat.
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Countrygirlblues
7th Apr 2021 15:18:26 (Last activity: 2nd May 2021 12:22:25)
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Good afternoon,
First time on here, I thought i would say Hi and see what follows. I'm 57 semi retired. Been at home for the last year with covid lockdown just like everyone else. Lucky to have family living with me so has been easier on me then a lot of others I know. Although we all caught Covid 19 and i had to spend 3 weeks in hospital. We have recovered thankfully. I am looking to make friends to open my circle of friends. You find that when you go out to work you leave the house early and return late so you don't really get a chance to chat with neighbours etc especially in winter you just want to get in and shut the door. Well I thought this may be the place to find like minded people, who have a little more time on their hands. It would be nice to have a chat over a coffee on here. I am happily married with 3 grown children and one lovely 8 yr old granddaughter. So please say hello next time your on and i look forward to making some new friends. I hope you all have a good week ahead of you.
Response from Caroleharper2 made on 7th Apr 2021 15:49:26
Hello there
Well I am now totally retired and have managed to stay fairly sane over the last 12 months ... I
Two super daughters, son in laws and grandchildren too.
Must have done something right!
It’s good to chat so whenever you have a few minutes.....
I don’t reply in minutes so do please bear with me..... I am usually on the run still
Response from Countrygirlblues made on 7th Apr 2021 16:05:16 > @Caroleharper2
Hi Caroleharper2,
Thank you for saying hi, I look forward to chatting .
Response from simbadog made on 8th Apr 2021 18:54:26
Hi and welcome to the site Countrygirlblues.
I'm married and semi retired living in Menorca. Been here for some 17 years and love life in the Mediterranean. Have 2 daughters living in the UK but unfortunately like so many haven't seen them for many months but hope that a light will be at the end of the tunnel soon. Keep active, love walking and volunteer at the local animal shelter a few times a week walking dogs, visiting cats etc. Have a dog and 2 stray cats that turned up on my on my doorstep. I am ex Royal Air Force so have travelled a fair amount and also lived all over the UK before moving to Spain.
Please get in touch if you fancy a chat.

Regards

Simbadog
Response from yatesy made on 9th Apr 2021 05:47:14 > @simbadog
Hi simbadog and how is Menorca coping with covid? - I live in a small township of 9000 and we have never had a hint of the damned virus!
Response from Countrygirlblues made on 11th Apr 2021 14:25:19 > @simbadog
Good afternoon Simbadog,
Menorca lucky you, We have the North sea on our doorstep which is cold. We have to have a good few months of sun to warm our sea up. We had good weather last year and i did go swimming with our granddaughter last summer but will be a while longer before we do that again. I hope you have or will have the vaccine soon so normality does return. My family are waiting on our 2nd jabs by mid May we hope. I bet you have a lot of stories adventures you can talk about all the travelling you must of done in the Air Force. One of the reality tv shows was based in Menorca and it looked stunning, I haven't been there but my husband and i said we liked the idea of visiting it someday after seeing it. Well i had better get on with sorting out the Sunday Roast. I look forward to hearing from you again soon, Have a great week as best we can now a days.

Regards
Countrygirlblues
Response from simbadog made on 11th Apr 2021 15:51:53 > @yatesy
Hi Yatesy

We have had no where near the infection rate as the Spanish Peninsula.
Went into a nationwide strict lock down March last year for a couple of months and then went through the summer with relaxed restrictions to enable something of a tourist season.
We are still on restrictions, nothing as strict as the UK are now emerging from though. The UK are definitely ahead of the game with the vaccine the roll out here and around Europe has been much slower.
Stay safe
Response from StuartEngland made on 2nd May 2021 12:22:25 > @Caroleharper2
Hi, I have been registered here for a while but havent been online much and am not the most tech savvy person 🙂 this is just to say hello and that I too am looking to find people to chat with every now and then so if anybody would like to make a good friend and maybe have a few laughs here and there let me know.
GrahamD95
2nd May 2021 09:59:01 (Last activity: 2nd May 2021 10:00:40)
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Hi Celtwitch

If you want to cycle but concerned about achieving any distance, had you thought of an electric bike? I bought one a few years back and enjoy the security of being able to start the motor in a headwind or going up hills. I also joined a local cycling club that does evening social rides - they can go faster on the flat but I am the champion on the slopes! Locally, there are a number of senior groups that go out during the day with differing routes for various levels of 'keenness'. They usually have a break at a cafe mid-way through.
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