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Mothering Sunday or Mother's Day?

Mothering Sunday or Mother's Day is always on the fourth Sunday of Lent, exactly three weeks before Easter Sunday and usually in the second half of March or early April. But does the name of the day matter to you?


The day has long been associated with mothers and family. For centuries it was custom for people to return home to their ‘mother’ church on Laetare Sunday – the middle of Lent. Those who did so were said to have gone ‘a-mothering’. The day often turned into a family reunion and a chance for children working away from home – often young domestic servants - to spend time with their mothers. Many used to pick flowers from the verges along the way to leave in the church or hand to their mothers when they got home.


The day is now seen as a celebration of mothers and the maternal bond and traditionally children give flowers, presents and cards to their mothers, and other maternal figures such as grandmothers, stepmothers and mothers-in-law. It is increasingly being called Mother's Day, although that has always been a secular event quite different from the original Mothering Sunday. In the UK and the Republic of Ireland, Mothering Sunday is celebrated in the same way as Mother's Day is celebrated elsewhere.


The day has also become more commercialised too, and some may feel that Mother's Day has lost its sense of original meaning. Does the name matter to you? What are your views?


Created By on 26/03/2017

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Avril163
27th Mar 2017 10:18:04
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Yes my late mother in law was one of those girls.
judycowling
27th Mar 2017 07:16:18
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Mothering Sunday accurately reflects the origins of this day. And that in turn is more inclusive for those of us who are child free and feel slightly awkward when posies are being handed out in church. My deceased mother had no time for modern day commercialism and forbade us to spend money on flowers etc!
LyndaY
26th Mar 2017 21:26:36
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Mothering Sunday is a festival in the church calendar. It is about mothering not Mothers. Not everyone can be a Mother but anyone can mother another human being and you don't have to be female. Let's celebrate all the motherers whoever they are.
CherylG2
26th Mar 2017 16:13:50
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I like the idea of Mothering Sunday,
BrianT
26th Mar 2017 15:45:07
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The original Mothering Sunday did not refer to 'mothers' but to Mother Church! It like every other religious festival has been hijacked by commerce and Christmas, Easter, etc now only have any sense of celebration of the Lord to people who continue to practice the Christian faith.
HAM
26th Mar 2017 10:52:31 (Last activity: 26th Mar 2017 12:03:58)
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I prefer to call it Mothering Sunday as I think it is now to commercialised like every other Christian celebration and the true meaning of the day has been lost by people buying expensive presents rather than spending quality time with their mothers.
Response from alikins 5 M made on 26th Mar 2017 12:03:58
We used to give mum a bunch of violets & I always made a Simnel cake.....but no-one seems to like marzipan now.Perhaps I should make a pizza.
CarolM
26th Mar 2017 12:01:59
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For me (as a Christian) it's Mothering Sunday, but for my children (who are Atheists) it's Mothers Day, but it's the sentiment that matters not the words. I was fostered and I usually managed to find cards that said 'Happy Mothers Day' without saying 'To my Mother' but Mothering Sunday cards were harder to find. 🙁
MrsPat
26th Mar 2017 10:47:39
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Mothers day...Mothering Sunday..I couldn't care a less how we call it. Its the day my kids pamper me and my hubbie actually does some work around the house as well. Pity its not everyday
Marley444
26th Mar 2017 10:34:12
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Does the name really matter? What is important is that we are celebrating the wonder of motherhood and mothers - a time for thinking loving thoughts about our mothers whether they are with us or not. I personally love this day - even though I am still doing the cooking 😉

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