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I'm 62, single female , living in California. Almost 3 years ago I lost my life partner of 20 years and since then I just can't seem to find any footing, been bouncing around, not sure where I belong. Right now living at an Ex-boyfriends house taking care of him while he recovers from pneumonia. I lived in Costa Rica and Philippines before coming back to USA. Mine and his kids wanted me here but we are not close.

I'm feeling lost and unsettled.

Created By on 24/09/2020

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2nd Oct 2020 03:38:05 (Last activity: 2nd Oct 2020 07:30:23)
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Hi JustSandy, I'm new here too and thought I would drop you a quick hello. Although I can't fully relate to your situation, I hear your pain and hope things get more grounded for you soon, perhaps when Covid-19 is a distant memory and you can explore more? Anyhow, I hope you stay cheerful and optimistic. Sending hugs, Possum65
Response from Sally - Silversurfer's Editor made on 2nd Oct 2020 07:30:23
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