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I have just joined and am finding my way around the site I am a 70 year old widow. I have two daughters but they have their own families so I do not often see them. I am interested in gardening and walking. I have a little dog but I find life very lonely and would love to chat on line. I live in Northumberland but rarely see anyone - Dominoone


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Beany
5th Aug 2016 12:38:04
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There appears to be a number of similar ladies here who are newbies to this site and in need of new friends to chat to.I have two pen friends and love writing long chatty letters but would also enjoy being able to have quick but more frequent exchanges here.I am 77 rushing towards 78 but am young at heart,not too serious,an avid tv fan ( documentaries and reality,not soaps) and always up for a laugh.Lets join together girls and enjoy each other's company.
Response from Fflorielle made on 5th Aug 2016 19:57:40
Welcome Beany
Response from joan the moan made on 6th Aug 2016 19:55:07
Hi beany hope to hear more from you.
Response from Janewd made on 8th Aug 2016 12:17:11
Hello Beany, what a good idea and it appears all have similar interests and enjoy a chat. After saying that I haven't a very interesting post today lol. Just felt a tad bored with the usual Monday chores and too windy for gardening and so I find myself signing in to Silversurfers.Great ! 9 notifications of responses. Looking forward to chatting with you all and now I will tackle the housework. Speak soon.Have a good day everyone.
Response from emmakitty made on 13th Aug 2016 03:30:10
Hi Beany,
I am new here as well and looking to chat and make new friends. I am still figuring out how to use this site? I would love to chat with you ladies. Lisa
Res
15th Sep 2016 13:13:31
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Hi. I too have just joined silver surfer site. I have a family of 3 children who work so do not see them during the week. I have a partner (Mike) who actively supports his 91 year old mother in her home (East Devon) 3 days per week and works on 1 other day. I took early retirement 3 years ago in part to support and care for my father who had Parkinson's. I now have quite a lot of free time and miss the social interaction that I enjoyed when working. I live in North Devon and enjoy walking, good food, and reading.

Like many of the others would enjoy chatting/ meeting new friends.
Jordynhollie
15th Sep 2016 10:08:48
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I have just joined too and still finding my way around site. I am 70 and was widowed 2 years ago. Due to ill health I cannot go out by myself and only get taken out for an hour a week, therefore I find that I get very lonely. It's very difficult when you were so independent when working to now have to rely on others for outings. I have one daughter but she is very busy as she has 4 young children . She tries her best to help me but there are only so many hours in her day.

I have 4 little dogs who need walking but unfortunately they like me have become housebound. As they are elderly they do not seem to mind much. You could say we are a very geriatric household. In doggy years they are my age. I would love to chat on line as I do not see anyone for 98% of the week and am losing my ability to hold a decent conversation. I also find that my memory is getting worse as I spend so much time on my own just watching tv.
Lilaclady
16th Aug 2016 19:19:54
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I have just joined and not really sure what I am doing, but sure I shall lean as I go.
I am 72 years young have a grown up family with families of their own all spread around the country and the world, so do not see them very often.
I thought joining would help me make new friends
Brunhilde
1st Aug 2016 11:29:24 (Last activity: 13th Aug 2016 03:38:04)
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Hello, Just joined as well. I am newly married but disabled and finding a need for new friends especially as My family has all but deserted me now and friends getting thin on the ground or otherwise occupied, because of my health. I too use to love gardening and thank goodness i did as now p reaping full benefits of my past efforts when I was able. I too use to always have a dog and miss the comfort they bring and the loyal frendship. Chat to me anytime only too please to share some time with you.
Response from dominoone Original Poster made on 1st Aug 2016 19:16:04
thank you Brunhilde for replying. I have grown to love gardening since my husband died 4 years ago I am afraid I know very little about gardening and have learned by my mistakes.
I used to own a retired racing greyhound but he died shortly after my husbands death. I thought of having a dog of my own but would find losing it to traumatic so instead I joined Barking mad.This means if the owner does not want their dog to go into kennels while they are on holiday I host it.This means I get company and an excuse to go out.
Dominoone
Response from emmakitty made on 13th Aug 2016 03:38:04
Hi Brunhilde,
So sorry to hear your family has deserted you. I take care of my husband who has Parkinsons Disease. We don't go out much or socialize. It can get lonely. That is so sad you don't have a dog anymore. I have three little dogs and one elderly cat. I live in the US and not sure where you live? You can leave me messages in private chat and I will leave you messages then one day maybe we will actually talk one day! Lisa
Janewd
4th Aug 2016 08:33:58 (Last activity: 13th Aug 2016 03:33:54)
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Hello dominoone, I have also recently joined and finding my way around the site. I've just had my 69th birthday and have been widowed for 5 yrs. I also enjoy gardening and walking although only local walks. I have two cats for company and like you I don't see my family all that often. I live in North Lincolnshire and do have some good friends but still have times when I'm feeling lonely and would enjoy a chat now and again.
Response from emmakitty made on 13th Aug 2016 03:33:54
hi janewd,
I live in the US but would love to chat now and then as well. I love to garden and love my 3 dogs and one cat. I walk every nite. I am married and take care of my husband who has Parkinsons Disease. It can get lonely at times. Lisa
emmakitty
13th Aug 2016 03:27:05
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Hi Dominoone,
I am new here to. I love to garden and I am 58 years old and take care of my husband who has Parkinsons disease. I have 3 small dogs and one cat. When are you usually online. I live in the United States so I am not sure what are time difference is? Hope to hear back from you. Have you figured out how to chat on here? Lisa
Clio
8th Aug 2016 15:46:42
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Hi Dominoone, I too am fairly new to this too, having joined Silver Surfers a couple of months ago, but only now plucking up the courage to make a contribution to the conversation. I am young at heart, 65 years old and newly retired. I have 2 married daughters and 4 grandchildren. I see them quite frequently as I live only about a mile from my youngest daughter now, having moved to Staffordshire last year. My main interests are the internet, sewing and my family, although I do like to walk as much as I can. I live alone, but have 2 cats for company. I also enjoy a chat and a laugh!
dominoone Original Poster
5th Aug 2016 19:08:05 (Last activity: 5th Aug 2016 19:55:36)
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Thank you all for replying at the moment I am having computor problems my computor keeps freezing I hope to reply to you all as soon as I can
Dominoone
Response from Fflorielle made on 5th Aug 2016 19:55:36
No worries if you would prefer to email me when your computer is fixed it is [email protected].
barbara smith
5th Aug 2016 10:25:38 (Last activity: 5th Aug 2016 11:46:13)
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Hi my name is Barbara any time you would like to chat just let me know,I love gardening .have three grandchildren they live just a mile down the lane from me ,so I am lucky -Barbara
Response from joan the moan made on 5th Aug 2016 11:46:13
Hi Barbara I too love gardening though it's a bit hit and miss .I have just joined so still figuring everything out.
joan the moan
5th Aug 2016 10:34:00 (Last activity: 5th Aug 2016 11:25:37)
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Hi I am Joan and I'm 65 yrs old. I have just joined. I have 4 grandchildren and I love to potter about in the garden though not very good.
Response from joan the moan made on 5th Aug 2016 11:25:37
I have registered but it's still saying awaiting approval ?
Fflorielle
5th Aug 2016 07:38:51
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Hello, I am also an elderly widow. I love traveling and I am very fond of animals,I have a dog a Shih Tzu and a 17 year old cat, I love the countryside and know quite a bit of Northumberland living in Tyne and Wear myself.

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