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I have been pen palling for a while now does anyone else do this and is there somewhere on the site for this? It would be nice to write to people on here if they were interested.


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Tawny
25th Oct 2020 19:20:30
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Haven’t been on for awhile. Gone through a difficult time with the sudden & unexpected loss of my dear brother in August. We were very close & I miss him so much. Then I had a couple of minor health issues and decided (& needed) to get my cataracts done privately & had the first one done last Tuesday. All gone well so far & can’t believe how bad my eyes had become. I can’t wait to get the other one done so I can fully enjoy my bird watching, walking in the countryside & riding my little horse who friends are kindly looking after my for me but I am missing him too. x
Response from Doreen2 made on 7th Nov 2020 14:28:41
Sorry to hear of the loss of your brother, loss of family is so hard, I haven’t got one member of my family left now, so know how bereft you must be feeling, and then having a cataract operation as well , but isn’t it worth having done, it’s like a whole new world out there.
Have you heard from Vicki a lately, watching t.v. there has been a lot of unrest in the south, and the American elections, we just don’t seem to be able to get away from them
How are you getting on with the lock down, you are same as me, living in an area with open country side, I count my blessings being able to still get out and about, as there are no people around
Take care of yourself Gillian I hope the world will look a happier place for you soon
Response from Tawny made on 10th Nov 2020 22:56:39 > @Doreen2
Hi Doreen. Thank you for your kind words. It’s so difficult isn’t it, even more so at the moment as we would chat every evening & now the evenings are long & dark it’s very empty. But I mustn’t let it get me down, the world seems in such chaos and like you I am thankful for where I live and the life I have with my little horse Norman. So pleased with my cataract op - what a difference & now realise how much it had been creeping up on me and affecting my sight. Looking forward to getting my other one done in 3 weeks and having both eyes working 100%.
I haven’t heard from Vicky and watching the situation in America, again I am thankful for where we live. I hope all is okay with her & we hear from her soon.
Glad you are okay too, it’s good to hear. Stay safe. Gillian x
Response from Doreen2 made on 18th Nov 2020 07:48:19 > @Tawny
Pleased you are soon going to have your next cataract operation, isn’t it a straightforward procedure now, just before I had mine done one of my neighbours had had hers done, she had four injections and her face was black and blue with bruises, and it hadn’t been a pleasant experience, but that is how it was done, I went and because of backlogs (I am talking about over ten years ago now). They opened a clinic in Boston, it was private operations done on the national health, and it was a Swedish team, I had my op on the first day it opened, and of course it was just drops in the eyes which is the normal procedure now, i think I was so fortunate
I think that is what we have to do now, count our blessings, my husband died in February I nursed him day and night for seven years, but we were able to be together when he died, and I dread to think what it would be like caring for someone now, when doctors and nurses have so much to do, as I had so much support from them all
I used to wish there were more hours in-the day, I had so much to do, as the saying goes, be careful what you wish for. The days are so long and lonely now
All good wishes for your next operation Gillian
Take care
Response from Lynnie55 made on 18th Nov 2020 23:47:22 > @Doreen2
Hello my name is Lynn been a widow 2 1/2 years days are quite long I live in Essex I hope you not too bored at the moment
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Response from Doreen2 made on 20th Nov 2020 07:38:35 > @Lynnie55
Hello Lynn
So nice of you to respond, an act of kindness makes all the difference doesn’t it, do you have family, I know Essex fairly well, where about are you, I used to live in Northampton. We moved to the coast 25 years ago when we retired, it’s ideal for walks on the beach, the waves rolling in can be very therapeutic
As you saw my letter was to Gillian, it is lovely to have someone to keep in contact with, we used to have contact with Vicki in America, but we haven’t heard from her for quite a while
Yes the days are long, I also have trouble with the nights, my body has got so used to having to get up every two hours or so, I can’t get my body clock to sleep through the night, I’ve almost given it up as a bad job, I make a cup of tea and settle down to read a good book.
Take care of yourself Lynn, it would be nice to hear from you again if you have the time
Response from Tawny made on 22nd Nov 2020 21:50:40 > @Doreen2
Thank you, just 8 days before my second cataract op! Yes, mine was all done with drops and very quick, about 12 mins for the procedure. Absolutely amazing, I must say. I decided to go private for mine, to get them done. Luckily I had a bit of redundancy money which I have used. I’m so very sorry you lost your husband last February after caring for him for so long but pleased you were together when he passed away. So very different & difficult now. With my brother gone I find it difficult - we would speak every day often in the evening and as you say, days seem so long and empty. But, only 4 weeks to the shortest day then it’s a minute a day, it starts to creep out again!!
Well, take care of yourself and be in touch again soon.
Gillian
Response from RoyalTern made on 23rd Nov 2020 07:49:17 > @Doreen2
Dear Doreen2,
I am very sorry for your great loss. I too am close to my brother and just the thought of him passing is heart breaking. How hard it is to get going again once a loved one passes. I know that with time and prayer the pain will get less painful. My prayers for you...God Bless...

I am at this time planning to move to Tenerife with my brother and we both hope to find a new and exciting life change than living here in Northern Virginia. I am hoping to sell my property and make the move once covid is controlled with a vaccine.

This is my first post since I am brand new on this site. I am sorry if my letter is not too long...

yours,

RoyalTern
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Response from Doreen2 made on 23rd Nov 2020 18:40:47 > @RoyalTern
Hi RoyalTern,
You have taken the first step to joining in a conversation, and that’s how I think it works, I converse with Tawny, who is Gillian, and Lynn joined in last week, as I mentioned to Lynn we used to write to Vicki in America but haven’t heard from her in a while, so do join in, all you have to do is reply to a conversation
Aren’t you planning a big move, we thought we were quite cavalier when we moved from Northampton to the coast to retire, but it was worth it as it is ideal here for retirement
I do appreciate your kind thoughts, it’s times like this you realise just how many nice people there are around
Was nice to hear from you
Response from Doreen2 made on 23rd Nov 2020 19:09:49 > @Tawny
You will be be pleased to get the second op over, even though it is now such an easy procedure. How sensible to go private as there must be quite a waiting list now, as so many operations have been put on hold, are you having it done at the local hospital or have you had to go further afield
Have you noticed Lynn and RoyalTern ( haven’t learned her name yet) have joined in our conversation, they had just come on to the site, and it is very hard to take the first step of contacting someone
After the shortest day it is surprising just how you notice the difference those minutes make
Will have fingers crossed for you do take care
Will look forward to hearing from you when you are seeing clearly again with both eyes
Doreen
Response from Tawny made on 27th Nov 2020 20:27:16 > @RoyalTern
Hi RoyalTern
Welcome.
As Doreen2 writes, we have been writing to each other and also to Vikki in America, but haven’t heard from her in awhile. Hope she is safe.
Letters are never too long! I hope you & your brother are successful in your plans to go to Tenerife next year, let’s hope 2021 is a much better year for everyone.
As you may of seen I tragically & unexpectedly lost my brother back in August, so important to spend time together. We had a great relationship & thankfully I have the same with his three children.
Well, hope to hear from you again, take care, Gillian
Response from Tawny made on 27th Nov 2020 20:30:45 > @Lynnie55
Hi Lynn & welcome.
I write with Doreen2 and recently introduced myself to RoyalTern.
I use to live in South London but have been on the coast in West Sussex for the last 45 years.
Hope you are keeping safe and well. Maybe hear from you in time.
Gillian
kimmy6768
15th Dec 2023 23:42:24 (Last activity: 11th Jan 2024 09:16:22)
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im just looking for senior lady penpal to communicate with
Response from Mandy18h made on 10th Jan 2024 13:22:45
Hi Kimmy, I would like to pen pal, or better still do it on computer as i have osteoarthritis in hands I am 67 & a widow. in surrey best wishes mandy
Response from PatriciaB96 made on 11th Jan 2024 09:16:22
Good morning and welcome, I hope you find lots of friends here I myself age 63 grandmother and soon great grandmother, I would like a pen pal .
Enjoy your day
Johnnybee
11th Aug 2021 15:49:18 (Last activity: 21st Jul 2023 11:53:29)
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Hello, I am very new here, it feels rather like being a new boy at school and needing to find ones way round, but being very old one finds that many old friends ar falling by the wayside and new ones are needed. I will comment further when I know my way round..
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Response from Jenann made on 13th Aug 2021 04:40:29
I am also new here trying to find my way around. Got on here looking for "pen pal" and someone to chat with. I understand you when you said that friends are falling by the wayside. Everyone needs a friend.
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Response from Suzn6 made on 25th Aug 2021 19:12:12
Hi! How's everyone doing out there? Just joined and I'm figuring out this community.. say hello if you'd like to chat.
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Response from panzer432 made on 11th Oct 2021 11:49:15 > @Jenann
Hi Jennan, I am looking for a pen pal too who will talk about anything
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Response from Fluffy111 made on 20th Jul 2022 21:16:25 > @Jenann
Hi Jenann,Im new on here too.Im a lady in my 70s i live in Norfolk England where do you live? I should like to chat with you or be a penpal to you.
Response from CarolynP3 made on 1st Apr 2023 21:57:45 > @Fluffy111
Hi Fulffy111, are you still active in penpal, I'm new here I live in Charlotte NC, 70 yr young. I enjoy walking, chatting,reading crochet, Bible study. Hope all is well with you, hope to here back from you.

CarplynP3
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Response from Aardie175 made on 21st Jul 2023 11:53:29 > @Jenann
Hello Jennan...I just joined and I am also looking for a penpal to write to. Would you like to have a nw penfriend ? I am 64 and live in England. Thank you
Aardie
mogawa40
26th Jun 2023 16:48:34
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Hi All, My name is Mark and I am looking for a pen pal for my mom who is 66 years old. She is a really sweet person and needs someone that she can connect with as a pen pal. If anyone is interested please let me know. 🙂
tom2w
3rd Jun 2023 13:16:16
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looking for some like minded people. I'm a progressive against the war. Any sane people out there?
Anna Tags
7th Apr 2022 04:34:34 (Last activity: 14th May 2023 22:32:29)
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I would enjoy having some email friends here. My email is [email protected]
Response from Easygoingfletch made on 14th May 2023 22:32:29
Good evening Anna. My name is fletch would you be interested to be a pen pal. With me ? F
RitaB10
5th May 2023 11:02:46 (Last activity: 14th May 2023 22:18:50)
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Hi Iam Rita .new to this site my interest are walking riding meeting friends for coffee .love to hear from you all x
Response from Easygoingfletch made on 14th May 2023 22:18:50
Good evening Rita.my name is fletch and nice to meet you. I have many hobbies ,swimming sunny holidays, find foods, and I am a big people watcher if that dont sound a little bit odd? F
Leila Lesser
7th Feb 2023 17:38:35 (Last activity: 1st Apr 2023 22:23:18)
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I'd love to start writing and connecting with a pen pal.
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Response from CarolynP3 made on 1st Apr 2023 22:04:25 > @Sally - Silversurfer's Editor
HI Leila, I,m new as today, I'm in my 70's, live in Charlotte NC
my interest are nature walks,reading,chatting,crocheting and several other things. Have you met many penpals?
Hope to hear back from you.
Response from Leila Lesser made on 1st Apr 2023 22:23:18
Hi Carolyn.
Thanks for getting in touch.Its lovely to hear from you.
I'm in bed at the moment. It's 10.20pm here in London in the UK.
I had a busy day so felt a bit tired so thought I'd have an early night. Too much excitement for an old girl.
If you don't mind can I get back to you tomorrow. Be nice to chat.
Hope you are well
All the best
Leila
Theodora2
26th Oct 2022 16:11:26 (Last activity: 1st Apr 2023 18:49:27)
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Hi, I am French, living in Paris, new here, trying to find my way around. Looking for friends to chat with.
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Response from Marjam4 made on 27th Oct 2022 13:47:14
Hi Theodora, I'm new too. Looking for a penpal. I live in Canberra, Australia. Am an artist and a therapist. Hobbies are folk medicine, astrology, writing articles to publish and helping others with their autobiography, gardening generally and growing my own organic produce specifically.
Cheers,
Maria
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Hello: I wanted to respond to Theodora2, but do not see an option to reply. Please advise, thanks!
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Whitakerleslie24gmailcom
18th Jan 2022 23:43:50 (Last activity: 23rd Nov 2022 10:54:49)
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I am new. Don’t know my way around. Would love to pen pal with someone male or female. I am 69 year old lady, young at heart. I quilt, crochet, wrote my first novel working on my second. Love music, animals, old cars from the late 50’s. Looking forward to hear from you. My first name is Leslie but I go by georgette.
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Response from Ruth55 made on 5th Feb 2022 16:43:54
Hi Georgette

So you want a penpal? Not sure if I will be ok for you as I am a rather boring person - but I will write a snippet and see what you think? I joined this site several years ago after someone recommended it for organised holidays for older people. As it happened the first day I logged on there was a holiday just perfect for myself and my husband. It was a coach tour around Sicily. This may sound horrible but I don't enjoy holidays with him as we have such different interests but I thought if it's organised, we may not argue about the what to do every day. So I booked it and off we went and it actually worked out ok. Sadly with Covid and other reasons I haven't really had a holiday since. Unless you count the odd times my daughter has invited me along with her for the odd weekends to help look after the children. Which I love doing.

I have visited the Silversurfers site the odd time since but never really found what I was looking for. To be honest, not sure what I was looking for! Today, I came on looking for a holiday for later in the year. Another totally organised one but sadly didn't find one. However, Penpal popped up and I thought mmmm.. give it a go. I think what caught my eye was the similarity of our hobbies (but not the old cars). My granddaughter asked for some dolly clothes and I got this odd idea of crocheting some. Well, I haven't done any since I was 14 when we all did poncho's! So my attempts were not great but she is happy and I really enjoyed doing outfits for all three of her babies. I also love dogs, and have a 13 year old working cocker who is adorable but deaf as a post and I also regularly dog sit my son's rescue Doberman. Sadly I lost mine two years ago at the sad age of 5. Again a rescue, which obviously had not been bred by decent people (this is me being very polite!).

Well, I think that is enough. How did I do?

Ruth
Response from Whitakerleslie24gmailcom made on 5th Feb 2022 22:06:11 > @Sally - Silversurfer's Editor
Hi sally this is whitakerleslie24@gmail and I wanted to respond to Ruth 55 who sent me a message
Response from JamesMichael made on 10th Apr 2022 10:15:12 > @Whitakerleslie24gmailcom
Hi Georgette,

Nice profile!

Good that you're a writer.
Well done!
(I've written some (very very short) stories for kids .....unpublished).

I live in Perth, Australia.

Please feel free to drop me a line should you feel so inclined.

Best wishes,
James
Response from Ariadne made on 23rd Nov 2022 10:54:49 > @Ruth55
Hello Ruth ,as ,I am a tad late in responding ,,, just found this site, Thought I had better check up to see if you have lost interest in pen pals, before I get involved with the verbals
The Ariadne handle is the one I use for my poetry . Proper name is Jacqui
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17th Nov 2022 12:26:54 (Last activity: 17th Nov 2022 13:02:11)
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Kincaid
2nd Nov 2022 19:12:24
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Meeka, you are a voice from the past - 2014 - you could now be head or have climber Everest - are you still there?
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21st Sep 2022 17:40:39 (Last activity: 25th Sep 2022 12:24:27)
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Response from Valla46 made on 23rd Sep 2022 10:41:56
Hi Natalie

I live in East Anglia but have family in the north. If you fancy a regular correspondence we could set up a chat line, or e-mail if you prefer.

It seems like we are now heading for the winter and the cold weather, will soon be Christmas! I hope it doesn't get too cold, with the increase in electric and gas, but not much we can do about that. I have visions of all the OAPs spending their days in the library or coffee shop, with one drink to last all day - not funny really.

Anyway, let me know if you want to set up in the chat room.

Val
Response from Valla46 made on 25th Sep 2022 12:24:27
Hi Natalie

I am pleased to get a reply from you. Yes, this is a very pretty place to be, with coast (Felixstowe, Southwold, Aldeburgh, etc.) plus inland towns such as Woodbridge, Bury St Edmunds and Lavenham. There are plenty of walks in the forest or by rivers, too.

I will set up a chat for us and all you have to do is click on the Chat icon - you should also get an e-mail notification from the SS staff. Then, if you prefer we can e-mail and we can swop e-Mail addresses. I don't want to give out my e-mail address on the open forum.

Anyway, hope to hear from you soon in the chat room!

Val
PS I have just tested positive for covid - must have caught it on our trip away.
Polgara
1st Sep 2022 19:00:30 (Last activity: 2nd Sep 2022 08:22:41)
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I am Polgara living in Scotland.As im disabled i prefer email to letters.I have 2 wee dogs.Interested in art,textiles,books,music and photography.Having just moved,im still in boxes.Looking for pen pals from ,Greece,Norway,New Zealand and Australia.
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Response from Polgara made on 2nd Sep 2022 08:22:41 > @Sally - Silversurfer's Editor
This is new to me.So i dont know my way around.thankyou
AprilG1
29th Aug 2022 19:32:04 (Last activity: 29th Aug 2022 19:58:05)
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Hello future pen friends - I am an American woman, 50, living in Texas. I am interested in art, history, gardening, parenting, and finding pen friends in England. I lived in Ireland for three years getting my Masters Degree and in Scotland for about five working on my PhD. Is anyone interested in being penfreinds the "old fashioned way" - ie with written out letters and stamps in the mail?
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AnnM22
27th Jul 2022 13:06:19 (Last activity: 27th Jul 2022 15:14:28)
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Hi there I'm called annmusoke from Uganda and I am looking for penpal from UK, USA, Germany,and Netherlands. here is my email address you can write to me.its
[email protected]
Hope to hear from you soon.
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Deniaspain66
26th May 2022 12:09:47 (Last activity: 20th Jul 2022 21:01:29)
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Hi everybody l have just joint your chat forum. my name is Linda and I’m 68 years old I’ve got 3 children and 5 grandchildren my husband has dementia he was diagnosed five years ago and he is now in a home in Tadworth I live in Surrey Wallington if there’s anybody that shares similar circumstances would be lovely to have a chat
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Response from Fluffy111 made on 20th Jul 2022 20:54:53
Hi Deniaspain,Im a lady in my 70s and i live in Norfolk England i should like to chat with you is it possible for you to give me your email address .Thankyou
Response from Fluffy111 made on 20th Jul 2022 21:01:29
Hi Deniaspain, How are you right now? Im a lady in my 70s and i live in Norfolk England .Is it possible you could send me your email address.Thankyou
YvonneT86
14th Jan 2022 09:52:00 (Last activity: 20th Jul 2022 20:42:58)
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Hi I am looking for pen pals male or female 60plus years
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Response from Fluffy111 made on 20th Jul 2022 20:42:58
Hi Yvonne,I would like to be your penpal im a lady in my 70s from Norfolk England where do you live?
Fluffy111
13th Jul 2022 20:01:48
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Hi James Michael ,Im new on here saw your add so thought id get in touch.Im from Norfolk England i had a sister who lived in Melbourne she sadly passed away a few years ago she had 2 sons (My Nephews ) who both live near Melbourne.Iv visited there a few times. My hobbies are Sun Sign Astrology im a Virgo by the way do you know your Sun Sign? Im also into Family History. I like to visit Historic places but i also enjoy trips to the seaside . Im a lady in my 70s so if you would like to get back to me would be nice to hear from you.
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27th May 2022 00:34:53
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Hi Linda

My name is Jan and I can empathize with your situation. My husband doesn’t have dementia, but lost his eyesight from diabetes and has many medical issues, so I am his caregiver. My days are very long and having to deal with his anger at his loss, gets a bit hard to deal with.

Dementia steals so much of your life. My sister was just put into a home and sometimes doesn’t recognize her children, which is horrible for them. It takes who you are and destroys it.
JanetB821
5th Mar 2022 20:31:24 (Last activity: 1st May 2022 21:24:50)
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Greetings

I just discovered this chat forum for plus 50s. I am 68, a caregiver t my blind, diabetic, kidney disease and hypertension husband. He sleeps most of the day, and I have a huge void in my life.

I used to be a person with varied interests until arthritis stole this from me. My keen interest is writing and I wrote my autobiography (not published), as part of my understanding my childhood years, which weren’t great, as I imagine that I am not alone there…lol.

I have a whacky sense of humour and would love to meet someone who had a rocky start on life too.

Jan
Response from Sally - Silversurfer's Editor made on 5th Mar 2022 22:52:15
Hi JanetB821,

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Response from JamesMichael made on 10th Apr 2022 10:04:36
Hi Janet,

I'm 73 and live in Perth, Australia.

If you'd like to say hello please drop me a line.

Best wishes,
James
Response from JanetB821 made on 10th Apr 2022 16:26:41 > @JamesMichael
Greetings James

It is a pleasure to meet you. I have several relatives in Australia that my aunt used to visit. Unfortunately she never left me any names of our relatives. Let me know if there are any Killan’s that you may notice down under.

I live in Cochrane, Alberta Canada which is at the base of the Rocky Mountains and near Banff. Alberta’s mountain and foothills carnivore wildlife includes wolves, coyotes, black bears, grizzlies and mountain lions, which show up in Cochrane every now and then. I love the deer and elk that stop on my street for a snack as the head for the river.

This week I am going to force myself to go take Qigong and yoga at our seniors centre. I really need to get out of my house for a few hours. Hard being a compassionate caregiver with an angry person who lost his eyesight to diabetes.

I have a daughter Shauna and my grandchildren includes Anthony, a personal trainer, his companion Gayle, and great granddaughter’s Isabel and Dylan. And Breanna is my granddaughter and she is graduating high school this year and is finishing her gymnastics training in June. She also works at the gym as a coach. I don’t spend much time with my family as my husband doesn’t get along with them and I can’t visit as I would like as I can’t leave a blind man alone.

I got a kitten last Wednesday and she looks Siamese, but her father is a hairless Sphinx and mother calico. She doesn’t have much fur, which is good in my books…lol.

Look forward to learning about your life in Australia.

Jan
Response from JanetB821 made on 1st May 2022 21:24:50 > @JamesMichael
Hi James

I haven’t heard from you. Hope all is well. My email address is [email protected] if you would like to chat directly.
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