View comments by: Most Recent - first / last | Most Popular - first / last | Replies - hide / show

Spelling mistakes - should these be pointed out on social media?

I know there are some people who have trouble with spellings and on another forum I saw comments on people being quite rude about this.  I was picked on for misspelling something on Facebook; I didn’t know who the lady was and felt quite surprised to have a comment made.


Am I being unreasonable?


Created By on 01/06/2018

Not a member?

You need to be a member to interact with Silversurfers. Joining is free and simple to do. Click the button below to join today!

Anonymous
Thanks for voting!
Awaiting approvalAdd a Comment Reply to
jest21
4th Jan 2019 12:44:30 (Last activity: 5th Jan 2019 14:49:17)
3
Thanks for voting!
It is absolute rudeness and arrogance to point out spelling errors, especially in public!

I was a teacher and conscious that some children really struggled with such things ad constantly pointing out errors was reducing self esteem, Our school, and many did this, adopted a policy of writing a sentence that included the misspelt word and, if it was reasonable for the child to learn it, included it on a homework list for the week. Many adults are put off communicating in writing because of these finger pointing people.
Response from jest21 made on 5th Jan 2019 14:49:17
Absolutely, Chris! Cringing is ok, correcting when it's in the best interest of the writer is also ok.. that's private... Commenting publicly is not, especially when online. 🙂
Klondike
27th Oct 2018 18:23:05
1
Thanks for voting!
I never comment on misspellings. So long as what was written makes sense it really doesn't matter. Pointing out bad spelling is unfriendly in my opinion.
David46
14th Aug 2018 21:18:47
1
Thanks for voting!
Not at all. Spelling is important to some and not to others. Whether a misspelling is accidental or the result of just not knowing the correct spelling should not result in a rude correction. What you had to say was more important than your spelling and any comment should have been only on content and then in a polite way.
[deleted]
12th Jun 2018 17:08:58 (Last activity: 13th Jul 2018 09:32:54)
0
Thanks for voting!
[deleted]
Response from RKE1861 made on 13th Jul 2018 09:32:54
Spelling is important, but so are manners. Probably more so.
backpacker
9th Jun 2018 00:49:01
2
Thanks for voting!
No you're not. There is a general assumption on the part of the finger-pointers that English is the first language of the person writing. This isn't necessarily the case. Neither do they consider the possibility of problems such as dyslexia, or arthritic hands (which I have, and it often causes my fingers to misbehave on the keyboard).

It's irritating and rude of people to behave this way, but there are those who just love to demonstrate their knowledge of such things by ridiculing others, especially when it can be done anonymously. They're bullies, plain and simple.
jeanmark
3rd Jun 2018 14:36:53 (Last activity: 4th Jun 2018 13:03:22)
1
Thanks for voting!
No, I don't think you are being unreasonable. I always feel that people who believe it is acceptable to point out spelling errors made on social media, particularly if they do not know the person, are incredibly rude. They appear to have no concern for the effect it may have on someone who may be dyslexic or have other such problems and/or the embarrassment caused to the individual.

There are times when correct spelling is important, but I do not feel that relaxed and friendly communication on social media is one of them.
Response from jess975 made on 3rd Jun 2018 18:43:48
I think that people who care about spelling are bored clearly - and also ancient old farts - these days we use chat abbreviations like u =you symbols instead of language - personally i loath these types
Response from jeanmark made on 4th Jun 2018 13:03:22
Like you I get annoyed at those people who feel the need to belittle someone for a spelling error. However, I have to admit to hating many of the abbreviations used for texting etc. although appreciate it reduces the number of characters.

The problem I do have is when young people use these same abbreviations for formal communications such as on CV's and job applications, I'm told I'm old fashioned as everyone does it. Well, not everyone because I don't, and I would have difficulty in shortlisting someone for a post if I couldn't understand what they had written, although I would excuse a spelling error if the message was clear!
ecarg
3rd Jun 2018 19:44:00
2
Thanks for voting!
Completely agree with jeanmark. I can often make mistakes ,but as long as the reader gets the general gist of the sentence my message has been conveyed. My son is dyslexic but using social media has encouraged him to write and spell there by improving his spelling skills,which is a positive for social media.

Community Terms & Conditions

Content standards

These content standards apply to any and all material which you contribute to our site (contributions), and to any interactive services associated with it.

You must comply with the spirit of the following standards as well as the letter. The standards apply to each part of any contribution as well as to its whole.

Contributions must:

be accurate (where they state facts); be genuinely held (where they state opinions); and comply with applicable law in the UK and in any country from which they are posted.

Contributions must not:

contain any material which is defamatory of any person; or contain any material which is obscene, offensive, hateful or inflammatory; or promote sexually explicit material; or promote violence; promote discrimination based on race, sex, religion, nationality, disability, sexual orientation or age; or infringe any copyright, database right or trade mark of any other person; or be likely to deceive any person; or be made in breach of any legal duty owed to a third party, such as a contractual duty or a duty of confidence; or promote any illegal activity; or be threatening, abuse or invade another’s privacy, or cause annoyance, inconvenience or needless anxiety; or be likely to harass, upset, embarrass, alarm or annoy any other person; or be used to impersonate any person, or to misrepresent your identity or affiliation with any person; or give the impression that they emanate from us, if this is not the case; or advocate, promote or assist any unlawful act such as (by way of example only) copyright infringement or computer misuse.

Nurturing a safe environment

Our Silversurfers community is designed to foster friendships, based on trust, honesty, integrity and loyalty and is underpinned by these values.

We don't tolerate swearing, and reserve the right to remove any posts which we feel may offend others... let's keep it friendly!