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Where did teenagers come from?

Thinking back over the years I don't recall there being such a title to describe us once we reached 15/16 years old. We left school and if we didn't go to university we started work. No one thought we were 'special' or 'delicate'. Were you a teenager?


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15th Nov 2016 22:58:16 (Last activity: 16th Nov 2016 17:49:50)
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Response from jeanymay made on 16th Nov 2016 07:24:32
Oh I was definitely a teenager, and quite rebellious and sulky at times...then like a fool I married at 17 years old so I didn't have much time to enjoy any freedom.

I remember having several jobs lined up for when I left school at 15 ...there was no shortage of work. I think that because like others I was brought up with very little in the way of luxuries I appreciated how going out to work afforded me nice things and I still appreciate everything I have.

Lionel your post describes very well how things were.

As to my grandchildren well my daughters 2 children are encouraged to do jobs for the extras they want and do have paper rounds or Saturday jobs and they have 2 parents who teach them a strong work ethic, but they do also have a large amount spent on them at Christmas and birthdays. My son is separated from his daughters mother and unfortunately she gets everything handed on a plate and does not know how to do basic chores.

It's difficult to get the balance when raising children as you don't want them to stand out and be the ones with no fashionable clothes or the latest gadgets, but on the other hand you want to teach them that money for such things has to be worked hard for.

I feel sorry for the young ones of today though, because I think you have to go through hard times to fully enjoy the good. Also how on earth are they going to get onto the property ladder if their families can't give them a helping hand ?
Response from jeanmark Original Poster made on 16th Nov 2016 14:44:29
Lionel, I think I was meaning why do we think teenagers are special? I'm getting tired of people saying "they are only 18" as an excuse for them not being able to do things. We managed so what has changed?

Jeanymay, I did't get a chance to be rebellious teenager as I started nursing as a cadet nurse at 16. I think I was a rebellious young nurse hitting out at ridiculous rules and regulations that had no reflection on caring for patients - well not in my opinion at that time!
Response from jeanmark Original Poster made on 16th Nov 2016 15:48:01
Well said Lionel and I have to agree. I am fortunate in having sensible nieces who have brought up children well able to cope with what life throws at them and with no fear of working hard or getting their hands dirty.
Response from Tomtwodogs made on 16th Nov 2016 17:39:29
I just added another thumbs up Lionel a well deserved post, and no my grandchild is nothing like me. , but like you commented we were .....of our time !
Response from Tomtwodogs made on 16th Nov 2016 17:49:50
Aye and as Dylan said.... The times,.. they are a changing !
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16th Nov 2016 17:14:53 (Last activity: 16th Nov 2016 17:31:34)
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Response from jeanymay made on 16th Nov 2016 17:31:34
Well deserved and enjoyable
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16th Nov 2016 09:04:14 (Last activity: 16th Nov 2016 16:37:55)
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Response from jeanymay made on 16th Nov 2016 09:33:41
So beautifully described Littleminx. Oh and good morning to you.
Response from jeanmark Original Poster made on 16th Nov 2016 09:51:20
My thoughts exactly LittleMinx, we were not treated as special and just 'got on with it'.
Response from jeanymay made on 16th Nov 2016 10:07:52
Ah yes I thought I would revert to adding pics via my laptop, as you must all be fed up of laying down to view my recent ones. I can't keep up with your changing photo's however, as to silliness I find it more entertaining than silly, so please continue to be yourself.

Absolutely lashing it down here, but I agree the autumn colours are very beautiful.
Response from jeanymay made on 16th Nov 2016 10:10:57
You are very observant Littleminx I never noticed a thumbs down for Lionel, and wonder how someone could take offence regarding anything he said. I will give him a thumbs up !!
Response from jeanmark Original Poster made on 16th Nov 2016 13:43:56
I have to agree, who could take offence at what Lionel writes. I've also given a things up!
Response from jeanmark Original Poster made on 16th Nov 2016 14:36:51
Observant jeanymay, I hadn't noticed I written that instead of thumbs. I must admit to using the word 'thingy' more and more often and get irritated when my husband doesn't know what I mean! I then start saying 'whojamaflip', 'thingamabob' or 'whatchamacallit' as if that will make him understand better!
Response from jeanymay made on 16th Nov 2016 14:57:57
No I never noticed what you had put either Jean until Littleminx pointed it out..eyes like an hawk she has which was probably why she was a reporter
Response from jeanymay made on 16th Nov 2016 16:37:55
Ha ha

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