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Will I ever find love again at 61?

I live in France and am newly alone at 61 - will I ever find love again or am I consigned to the rubbish heap ?


Created By on 07/12/2018

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VickiB9
20th Feb 2019 20:54:02
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Yes, absolutely! In fact, we can have the deepest love (and best sex yet!) from our 60s onward. I found myself single at 62 and felt the same way you do. I took Tantra workshops and learned to open my heart to intimate connection, and the great sex came along with it, I met the love of my life at 70, and I have never been happier. So don't lose hope, and remember this last third of our lives can be the most wonderful yet. Good luck, Vicki
Jeromewj
30th Jan 2019 00:12:53
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All I can say is God I hope so!!
Kangey Original Poster
8th Dec 2018 06:48:28
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Thanks for your advice - most appreciated
JeanH37
7th Dec 2018 15:30:33
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Just start chatting privately with some people and you never know there might be a spark
JeanH37
7th Dec 2018 15:28:25
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I've been on my own for 4 years since my husband died and it is a very lonely life but I suppose if you look you'll maybe find someone
ecarg
7th Dec 2018 13:39:41
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Thanks for voting!
You may be surprised what you may find if you just keep looking on the other hand the unexpected can happen when you least expect it.
They say life is what you make it so go for it. Whatever makes you happy.
Sorry for all the cliches .I believe in fate "what's for you a'll no go by you" ,

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