Should we be trying to look younger than we are?
‘Getting old’ has long been held up as something that’s best avoided by mainstream media.
We’re bombarded with advertising that shows a single standard of beauty – but who says grey hair and wrinkles aren’t beautiful? And faced with the alternative, growing old is a privilege.
All over the world actors, singers and public figures all work hard to maintain a youthful appearance even into their 50s, 60s and 70s.
They aren’t alone; as plastic surgery becomes more affordable and treatments like Botox readily available in hair salons, it’s never been easier to try and look younger than our years.
While there’s nothing wrong with taking pride in your appearance and looking your best, many argue that the emphasis on youth has made growing old taboo.
Others view staying young as a necessity – when ageism exists looking old can result in discrimination in the workplace and feeling forgotten on the high street.
What are your views? Should we try and cheat our age to look younger than our years? Or is it better to embrace physical ageing and celebrate grey hair and wrinkles?
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It helps with your wellbeing
you will look a lot worse. Plastic surgery was intended for people with burns, disfigurements etc.
The fashion industry seem to have forgotten about the older generation,so when you are looking for clothes on the high St there's very little choice.
Reg plastic surgery,it's fine if you don't have a smooth wrinkle free face like some celebs and an old body, doesn't work....
I have a weekly visit to hairdresser, who keeps my hair looking good. A monthly pedicure, keeping my feet and nails in excellent condition. Apart from the joy of "pampering" sessions, I believe they add to my social contact with people, and more importantly, my mental wellbeing.
I vote YES,
Jim
My facial skin is like leather, permanently tanned and tough as old boots. I sincerely doubt a jar of slap is going to make any difference to me. And, as I think of it, do I want to change anything?
Well, no!
Why would I want to deceive anyone into thinking I had less years than I have? It would be a lie!
In local towns I see so much mutton dressed as lamb, yet their faces look like a world weary ox! Disgusting. And so expensive.
Part of the sweetness of my wife is she doesn't hide her age, and neither does she use makeup. If she may accept me as I am then I'll love her for just being herself.
There is nothing wrong with wrinkles and lines, they add interest and character. And hair colour is a matter of choice.
When we look good we often feel better. Well at least I do!