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4th Jun 2021waterbaby commented on:
Feeling aloneLyndab I totally empathize with you. I have been married 49 years. It is amazing how one can feel so lonely and have their spouse in the same room with them. He has gotten incredibly unavailable after his prostrate operation. Other than this problem, he is a great guy but it hurts so much when you go to cuddle and he is like a stiff. His reply to my need for physical touch is what do you want we've been married for 50 years. I feel like the actors in the movie "Ghost" I long for your touch. I cannot sleep in the same room with him because he sleeps on the edge of our king sized bed with his back to me. I do not understand. My friends think i am so lucky that my husband and i are good health and still together but have no idea of what is like to live with the "untouchable" person I know our days are numbered and i want to spend quality time with him. He encourages me to go out with my friends . When I go out with my friends I feel either a tinge of guilt or rather stay with my friends and have a feeling of anxiety when I come home. I am blessed with our dog Vinny. If I could wave my magic wand life would be perfect. Vinny is quite a character ,so many stories to tell.. And to countryrowe our chidadults have a lot of demands on them. I don't think they realize what they are giving up to achieve success. But someday they will. I really believe there is some one out there for you. It is in His time not ours.