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21st Feb 2019VGH26 commented on:
Washed up and washed outHi Andy. I hope you are starting to move on. I was the big bad wife that decided our marriage was over after 36 years together. I was 56 and he 58. Lack of communication, the menopause and alcohol were the main causes. The relationship sadly just stopped working. There was no one else involved, although he soon found someone else as he found it hard to be on his own. It has taken three years for me to come to terms with the end of our relationship and especially the friendship. I still loved him and have had to grieve for the loss of our relationship. I found it so very hard at our daughters wedding to see him with someone else. Although it has been hard, I especially miss being part of his family, I know it was the right decision. I have a lovely life. I have my own home, friends and family, I go to work, cinema, theatre, live music, holidays to places I always wanted to go to. I hope you are managing to embrace this freedom and the opportunity to actually find out who you are. Within a relationship it is very easy to become someone you are not. Although I have had a few relationships I have yet to find anyone special enough for me. Yes, I now value myself and so must you.