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12th Jan 2024Griffand0 commented on:
New MemberI've always wanted to go to Scotland. Stayed one night in Texas. We were driving from Los Angeles to Michigan. We moved back here in 2010. Why? I miss the good weather. My husband became disabled at 47, he now has to live in a nursing home. I wish I was younger and not in chronic pain so I could take care of him. M.S Took his body over. His mind is strong. I miss him at home with me. I've raised our 3 grandchildren from ages 2,4,5 I still have custody but they are older not home much. Now 16,18,20. I feel I did a good job taking care of them. Good morals, polite, independent, smart smart kids. I'm very proud of them. Their dad was a hitter belts spoons whatever he had. He was on meth. Mom our daughter was on meth also. I don't know what I hate more M.S., meth, or child abuse. You don't hit babies make one watch until his turn. I tried to reconnect with our daughter but it's hard. She took us for granted. She is sober 2 years but she isn't the same. I can't stand the dad. Obvious reasons, by his choice at a beach in Los Angeles he created an issue that caused my husband to become disabled so youg. Dr's feel the trauma caused the M.S. to wake up so to speak. Well that's all for now. I have many tales that most people find hard to believe, and have said so. I couldn't make this stuff up if I tried.ViewDate:
12th Jan 2024Griffand0 commented on:
Sisters cut offWow! You sound so much like me. My family has cut me out. They never told me why. After our mom died they had no.more interest in my life. The oldest sister said I talked about my problems to much. I guess I did. Everyone needs someone to talk to. I have huge issues in my life and now I'm alone and lonely. I'll be 64 in a week. I raised my 3 grandchildren for 14 years. I still have custody of 2 one is now 20. Mom,my daughter has a drug addiction was meth. Been clean for 2 years. Doing very well. All those years she stayed hi and gone our relationship changed. No matter what was going on I had to keep these children number one. Even over my husband. Im sad to say. M.S. took over his body. I could no longer take care of him. He has been in a nursing home for 5 years and I hate it. I want my husband back. It wasn't supposed to be this way. We were to grow old together. Sharing our lives our love and golden years. Now that our daughter is clean the 3 kids spend most of their time with her. Plus they visit their dad. So I am home alone most of the time. It gets hard to just listen to the ringing in my ears and no one else. My husband is an hour a way so twice a week is all I see him. Our daughter said put dad by me I'll make sure he is OK. Lol I need to find a better place a close place. He almost died in September I can't waste anymore time. I need to not feeling sorry for myself and take care of him. Taking care of people is all I know. I'm so upset with our daughter she is taking my grandchildren away from me. I did all the hard work. I raised them alone. I helped them become the wonderful people they are today. Now she pulls them from me. It's still our money that supports them,clothes them, pays for phones. Now I feel I have to end it. I'm not just a check in point come grab clean clothes and leave. But I blame her. My story could go on and on. Giving more insight of why ptsd came to me. You could really get a better knowledge of why I'm so hurt by her. Just isn't enough space here.