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29th Nov 2015Gglotusbloom commented on:
Just joined so I'm introducing myself.hi littlesnapper. I am also new here. Trying to figure this site out.ViewDate:
29th Nov 2015Gglotusbloom commented on:
Just joined so I'm introducing myself.Hi Celtwitch. I don't think they forget us.. I just think they are living their lives and we have to do the same...although it gets a bit harder. I am 61 and I am also alone. At times I like it and at times I hate it. But I am getting ''set in my ways'' so I don't think I could ever live with anyone again. I will probably never be able to retire. I will have to work till I can no longer work...oh well ..could be worse. What subject did/do you want to lecture about?ViewDate:
29th Nov 2015Gglotusbloom commented on:
Is anyone else lonely?I understand how you feel. It is really rough. I can tell you somethings that may help you meet people although they are not an option for me. Joining a book club or some other meetup club at your local library. Doing volunteer work perhaps. I work 30 hrs a week and I have Fibromyalgia..so I am super tired when I get home. I have a couple of close friends that I socialize with when I am not exhausted and or working or trying to keep up the house work. I miss having someone around all the time and yet I don't want someone around all the time. Weird huh? Happy to chat about random things anytime. I am a widow and have been since '08. Have had a couple of serious relationships since then but they ended and I don't want the drama of entering into another one. What are your interest Plank?ViewDate:
29th Nov 2015Gglotusbloom commented on:
I would like to make new friends for general conversation onlyI have lived where I live for 8 years and I still feel isolated. I am a likable person and I have some social interactions and a couple of really close friends but I lack people around who have the same philosophical and religious beliefs that I have. I am an atheist in the bible belt. So...I am guessing I won't get many responses to this post but I am very open to general conversation about a variety of subjects. I often get a bit lonely close to bedtime..when having someone around to talk with would be nice.ViewDate:
29th Nov 2015Gglotusbloom commented on:
Breaking Up Is Hard To DoTrue... only companionship of the opposite sex can fill certain voids. I have a male friend. He is a good man but a super nerd and kinda like Sheldon on Big Bang Theory but there is no one to write funny lines for him. Affection is missed very much. Don't know if I will ever have that again and I really miss it.ViewDate:
27th Nov 2015Gglotusbloom commented on:
Breaking Up Is Hard To DoHi, I am 61 and have been alone for 4yrs. My last relationship went sour..and dangerous quickly. He was bi-polar. I thought I knew him and we did have 10 great months together before it all went to heck. That experience really scared me and I shied away from getting involved with another man. It took time for me to recover from the bad experiences and emotions of that relationship. During that alone time I had my grand daughter every other weekend and spent the rest of the time, working, hanging out with friends and just being alone. I have gotten used to being alone. I recently developed a strong friendship with a man but have discovered that I really don't want someone around in the apt with me..it kinda cramps my style. I guess I have become ''set in my ways" Sometimes I want to have a relationship again but all the that goes with it and all the energy is just too much for me. I wonder how others my age feel about this stuff.