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20th Oct 2023Paul40ft commented on:
Looking or frienshipHello everyone Just dipping my toes in the water….. I lost my wife to pancreatic cancer 16 months ago, so still working through that. We had been married for 49 years and were looking forward to growing older together. I’m 71 and keep myself fit in the gym, plenty of walking. Generally I keep myself busy during the daytime: gym, learning the guitar, and I do a bit of volunteering. I am enjoying developing my culinary skills, gardening and housework etc. however, when night comes, I still feel a bit lost, sat on my own. I don’t enjoy going to bed on my own and then waking up to realise I’m still alone, I find that tough. I wonder if others feel like this and it it gets any better with time? I don’t think anyone can replace my wife, but I miss female company, friendship and of course hugs. Any advice welcome. Thanks Paul