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9th Jun 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipHi Jackie, Been in garden earlier moving a few slabs that I don't need at moment, but had a bit of painting to do in the house where a rad had been moved so just finished that, so just having a rest. The pond has needed a lot of work this year loads of blanketweed, next job is to pull the pump out and give it a clean. Hope your garden is looking nice for the summer. Take care ChrisViewDate:
6th Jun 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipHi hope you are well, sounds like the garden is coming on, hope the house is done soon. Me I have nearly finished the garden just spending time on the pond clearing the blanketweed daily to try and keep water clear, fish are enjoying the warm weather so that's good. Take CareViewDate:
22nd May 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipHi it's been a while just not feeling like chatting, garden is doing well, had 1.8 ton of slate delivered, potted 3 roses, and just finished repairing the decking part of my summerhouse, been outside a lot now the sun is out. Hope all is going well with you.ViewDate:
11th Mar 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipFreeno21, You are not wrong about the cold thought I would venture out in the garden but soon turned round and went back inside, most I am doing is putting the rubbish in the bins and popping to do the shopping.ViewDate:
10th Mar 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipHi Jackie, Well I hope the insurance claim goes well, I do like gardening just has to be nice to do it, will be sorting mine out this year, have already dug veg patch and covered it till I decide what to do. When I have dug the rest and finished I will send you a couple of pics hopefully when the summer turns up. Hope you find someone good to do yours. ChrisViewDate:
7th Mar 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipHi Jackie, It's really nice talking I am in the middle of tidying my garden after missing last year,making it more low maintenance still able to do it so now is the time to start. Don't offer to everyone but if you lived closer I would see what I could do in your garden for you. Don't like it when people take advantage of other and don't do a good job, perhaps that should be a new hobby or job for me. It would be nice to see a picture of who I talk to, or talk via email if the suits you whatever. Raining here a moment so no work till it warms up a bit. ChrisViewDate:
5th Mar 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipHi Jaccards, I think that is the normal for a lot of people in the world I would never dream of making big decisions without including my wife, so I do understand exactly what is going on in your head plus I sometimes think for me it's easier without children. Like I would say to anybody if you need to chat, let of steam or just ask feel free to message me.ViewDate:
4th Mar 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipThank you I didn't know if maybe people would take it the wrong way, not really good at explaining myself in words.ViewDate:
4th Mar 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipHi Leita, My wife died in 2022 after 16 years together, it was a shock when we got the news after the tests lots of them. But we new from then that it was only a matter of how long, My wife worked in the NHS for 37 years in radiotherapy in Ocology so she new what to expect and being in the hospital where she worked for 14 years was good and bad. I must say the hard time for me is not having that person by my side almost 24/7 because of covid I know it's early but I really need company to share my life with, sorry that's just the way I am, please don't judge as am only saying how it is my wife will always be my wife.ViewDate:
4th Mar 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipThank you for inviting me in to comment and I will soon.ViewDate:
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2nd Mar 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipEarly days with the hospice and trying to get out and about sure it will come in time just hard at moment, because most of my married life was spent with my wife we did almost everything together, so it is so strange trying to change.ViewDate:
2nd Mar 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipJanet, Thanks for your message, I have a sister that lives close and checks in on me on the phone a few times a week, apart from that no one really,. Due to a muscle weakness in my right side I haven't worked for a few years, so spent a lot of time at home although I do drive. I have just started getting support from the local hospice where my wife passed away. I do find it hard to meet people but trying to adjust but it's very difficult. Thank you again Chris xViewDate:
1st Mar 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipThank you very much for your reply and comment, I am really finding it difficult as I have never really shared before and we never had any children, so it's really just me. But everybody says one step at a time, thank you again.ViewDate:
1st Mar 2023Chris564 commented on:
New MemberNew here today looking to chat and find penpals, 64 yo widower living in the south of England, lost after losing my wife last year.ViewDate:
1st Mar 2023Chris564 commented on:
Looking or frienshipNew here today Widowed last year at the age of 64 finding it hard to move forward. Would like to chat if you find the time. Am on the South Coast of England.