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I am a Widow, which is very hard with my friends not encluding me as I am single, not nice being the gooseberry all the time. I like to chat with different people after being in the retail business for 38 years & meeting different customers, I don't get the chance know as being retired 5 years I spend most days on my own. I like food & a odd glass of g&t, but don't find I go out much to enjoy it. I like holidays, home & away, cruises, did do caravaning with my late Husband. Enjoy a good book, watching TV & go out most Sundays with my sister in law & her partner. I enjoyed life before but its a loanly place once your out cast for being made single again, but try not to let it beat me. I would like to may be meet someone one day, just for a coffee, pub meal & a drink, so I stay as positive as I can. Thank you for taking time to read this, may be we can chat some time. -
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7th Sep 2020StuPot60Hubby? commented on:
CyclingHi, I would love to ride a bike but have problems with my ears, no sence of balance. Do they still have places you can go to lern how to ride. I live in Wolves & if anyone can help with info I would be greatful (not got bike) thank you, xViewDate:
7th Sep 2020StuPot60Hubby? commented on:
Scared and LonelyNot been available for a few days, I have been busy cutting lawns, digging boarders, rose beds etc in garden. Then house work, washing, ironing, etc the list goes on, just feel I have no time for myself. I must admit I did go to have my hair coloured & cut, but still feeling low. It's just the four walls & the garden I am getting fed up of. None of my friends have bothered, they are worried as I am a Widow so single again that there Husbands may stray ( that as really made me feel good, NOT) . I see my family some days, but once 17-00 arrives its a lonely long evening & night by myself. I feel I want to escape & get out but I am not the type to go in a pub on my own or even be on my own. I was 24/7 with my late Husband, I was his carer for nearly 30 years, so never been by myself. I have had a few jobs in the garden done, new sheds, fence etc, then new garage roof & I had new roof on Bungalow but the 5 jobs I have had done have not been finished & the so called workmen have disappear, plus when I phone they say they will get in touch but don't. I feel a right mug as they have taken a lot of money off me. This as started to get me down, not having a man around to fight my battle is hard. I cry myself to sleep many a night & just lately do more crying through the day, it's not helping as it's getting closer to the 1st year of my late Husbands passing. I go to bed some night just feeling that I don't want to wake up, there is nothing to look forward to. I have my Bereavement meetings on zoom plus spoken to my gp, its not getting any easier, they say it does I have no faith in that. I do know I would not do anything, but I need to escape the four walls, but how when shy & not confident?ViewDate:
4th Sep 2020StuPot60Hubby? commented on:
Cowboy Builders - been ripped off!Hi Maltloaf, Thankx for your in put but I feel that at my younger age I should of known better, I was always telling my 62 year old Sister to be careful then I do the opposite. What I miss is a man around to stop things like this happening, my Brother in Law came a few times but due to work he left me 2 it. I did have MUG written on my forehead & I have 5 jobs that they started finished, but other company's will not touch it. I also want my living room re papered, but my trust in trades persons as gone. Thank you for our chat, chat again soon as I have CAB on my case at the moment. Take care xViewDate:
4th Sep 2020StuPot60Hubby? commented on:
Scared and LonelyLock down as been really bad for a lot of us, I found it really hard after the loss of my Husband in the October of 2019. I had family, Sisters etc, but due to shielding for 16 weeks I was pulling my hair out as I had no one in the home with me. This also made me feel quite depressed & not able to greave for my Husband the way I expected (having my Sisters hug me when I cryed etc). I still feel after 10 months that my greaf is still not getting any better even though I try each day to not cry, it's not easy. It did not help that I wanted my Mom & I could not have her as I was still greaving her loss from December 2018. I find reading your chats give me something to look forward to, but I find time is not always there, I am not just the house keeper doing daily jobs, but also the gardener, painter, window cleaner etc, it's not easy. I belive if I read your posts it helps me to understand I am not on my own feeling low, down, un loved etc & it as started to help. I don't know if reading this I have helped anyone, but I feel we can all come together with support for each other just trying to understand what others are going through. Thank you for reading my post xViewDate:
2nd Sep 2020StuPot60Hubby? commented on:
Scared and LonelyWhat shall we talk about, not your feelings but something that can help you feel different about how your feeling. I am in a lonely place after the loss of my Husband last October, then lock down, no family really to fall back on as they have their own family lives & don't want me hanging round their necks all the time. Do you have hobbies that you want to start enjoying again, like your chior? I think you could try that again & fall back into a social life with the people in the chior, coffee etc. I think life is much to short to not get yourself back out there.ViewDate:
2nd Sep 2020StuPot60Hubby? commented on:
PostsJust keep going round & round, not connecting to anything, not very good with tec, my late Husband did it all. -
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