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Hello - looking for like minded friends to chat with

Hey, just new to the group, I’m 50, female, and new to a town where I know no one... just looking for people to chat to


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Wodsha
5th Aug 2022 14:55:28
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Hi i don’t know where you live but you could try a club called Meet-up best of luck.

Percy
Response from Wodsha made on 5th Aug 2022 18:04:10
Hi
Meet-up is a social club world elder I belong to it they organise whatever the members want I live in Chichester in West Sussex. We have had people from other countries visit us some of them are students who already belong to it.

Best wishes
Percy
Response from Wodsha made on 6th Aug 2022 09:16:08
Hi Alice,
I am 84 and I go to the gym three times a week and the rest of the week i go walking i do have a walker which I use i can walk without it but it is nice to sit down when you want to.

Percy
Response from Wodsha made on 7th Aug 2022 19:24:33
Hi Alice
Thank you for your message i am quite fit i don’t talk about my family as they are nonexistent i live on my own,not sure if you got my last message but If you haven’t my phone number is 01243792457 I am always in in the evenings.

Love

Percy xx
Response from CaroB4 made on 21st Oct 2022 17:10:48 > @Wodsha
Interested to hear about Meet-up...is it a website access club...it sounds interesting!
Response from Wodsha made on 21st Oct 2022 17:54:13
Hi Carl,
I live in Chichester West Sussex meet-up is a club that anyone can join you should be able to find out about it at the Library they do organise meals out and maybe other things they do have meet-ups in a lot of other countries you should be able to find out where the nearest one is to you.

Best of luck

Love percy xx
SmilesLots
1 days ago
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Hi RhyLL,

Where do you live?
Steffiegal
3 days ago
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hi starshine,
I've made a point to forget my age. I'm from Aberdeen so please feel free to fee sorry for me....giggles.

Steff
Starshine66
4 days ago
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Hi everyone, I’m new here. Looking to make new friends and chat. I’m 58 and in Wales
Cah iow
21st Oct 2024 18:41:48
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Cah iow
20th Oct 2024 16:29:35
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Anyone want to chat to a 65 going on 21 widow from down south ?
Planter75
25th Aug 2024 22:22:13 (Last activity: 19th Oct 2024 21:01:12)
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Hi Guys. I’m female, 76, looking for a special, none smoking man within a 20 mile radius of Chesterfield for friendship and possibly more.
Response from Dennis71 made on 7th Oct 2024 03:49:32
Hi Planter,

I’m male, 71. I live in Kansas, The Land of Oz. I’m far from Chesterfield, but at least I don’t smoke. I hope you had a nice weekend.

Dennis
Response from Ucancallmedr made on 11th Oct 2024 01:38:52 > @Dennis71
Hi Dennis, I am new too. F, 68.
Response from Dennis71 made on 18th Oct 2024 11:26:22 > @Ucancallmedr
Hi dr,

How very nice to meet you. The weather is cool in Kansas. I’ve been using the wood stove to heat the house. I haven’t turned the propane on yet. The cats love to sit in front of the fire. I hope you have a wonderful weekend.

Dennis
Response from Rockmegentle made on 18th Oct 2024 18:13:24 > @Dennis71
I don't smoke but I'm all the way in Florida
Response from Cah iow made on 19th Oct 2024 21:01:12
Hello grand Peter how is Scotland this evening?
Nikkisue
3rd Sep 2024 03:57:42 (Last activity: 14th Oct 2024 20:38:58)
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Anyone out there?
Response from FELINEFRIEND made on 3rd Sep 2024 16:29:42
Hi their
I'm Ann from west Midlands,are you having a good day today
I'm looking forward to the autumn season and abundance of colours in the countryside
Let me know if you want to chat
Ann
Response from FifiMac made on 8th Sep 2024 15:13:18
Hi Nikkiesue, happy to chat anytime am new here so looking for new friends also.
Response from Dennis71 made on 11th Sep 2024 22:17:57 > @FELINEFRIEND
Hi Feline Friend…I’m 71 and live with my two best friends—my Star and my Luna. The three of us live with my rescue Great Pyrenee dog Happy. We live in an old farmhouse on an acreage in the middle of nowhere in Kansas. Nice to meet you!
Response from FELINEFRIEND made on 12th Sep 2024 15:48:10 > @Dennis71
Hi Dennis
Thanks for your message
I live with my husband and our 3 cats in the west midlands in England.
It's not very warm here at the moment,it's now 14 degrees which is a tad cool for September
I have a penpal from the USA she lives in Cleveland, Ohio, she tells me it's been very hot their the past couple of months.
What kind of things do you grow on your farm.
I love gardening and flowers but being in a small townhouse we don't have a very big garden so grow a lot in pots.
I bet your dog is beautiful,I love Pyrenean mountain dogs.
I'm looking after my neighbours 2 cats for a couple of weeks now they are on holiday,I tend to look after most of the neighbours cat's during the holidays, they know I like animals
Well hope you have a good weekend, take care,ann
Response from Dennis71 made on 13th Sep 2024 01:05:53 > @FELINEFRIEND
Hi Again FelineFriend,

I live on 10 acres, and grow a huge garden. My tomatoes did very well this year. I give most of them away, and have run out of friends that want them. My wife passed on March 4th, 2023. This is not such a good place to live alone. It was wonderful when there were two of us, and I wasn’t prepared to be by myself.

It has been hot, and very dry here in Kansas for many weeks. The real farmers worry about their corn and soybean yields. I wish you could mail some of that cool weather to Kansas. I’ll trade you some tomatoes for it.
Response from FELINEFRIEND made on 13th Sep 2024 17:25:15 > @Dennis71
Hi Dennis
Hello from a chilly blighty today,it's actually been sunny today but a maximum of 14 degrees and some rural areas had frost this morning
Our tomatoes have been rubbish this year,not enough sunshine to make them grow or ripen same as the blueberries.
I'm really sorry to hear your wife passed away last year,it can't be very nice living in a very rural area on your own.
Do you have any family who visit you
There's only 2 of us,we don't have children and no close relatives apart from my almost 95year old mom whom I spend a lot of time looking after, I've been with her most of today.
I'm looking after my neighbours 2 cats for two weeks that's keeping me busy also
My husband works full time in a garden centre but I don't work now as I look after mom a lot of the time
I hope you have a good weekend and send some warm sunshine our way please
Bye for now,Ann
Response from Dennis71 made on 13th Sep 2024 23:49:33 > @FELINEFRIEND
Hi again,

Please forgive me for writing again. John Prine wrote in a song, “Everybody needs somebody that they can talk to.” As I age alone on this farm his words are so prophetic it sends shivers down my spine. Yes, I have four grown children, twelve grandchildren and three great grandchildren. They are scattered to the winds, but I do communicate regularly with several of them. I have four brothers and two sisters still living. We are all elderly, and suffer from various ailments. Cancer (which took my lovely Alisa) has invaded two of my brothers. A third is on dialysis and the fourth has had heart surgery, although he has recovered well. I’m lucky in that a hip replacement has been my only ailment. Father Time has worked his magic on my immediate family. It is our turn. Or soon will be.

As I sit on this porch with not a car or person in sight I realize how living in this isolated spot in the world has governed my relationships with my family. While Alisa was alive it wasn’t a big deal. She loved the isolation, and she loved taking care of the house and the porches. I built her a teahouse for our twentieth anniversary. We sat out there many summer nights with a glass of wine and listened to music. The teahouse has been empty since she died. I haven’t painted the porch floors since she died. I haven’t cared enough to do it. The barn swallows tried to build nests and left splotches of mud on the porch ceiling. Alisa would never stand for such things, and would insist on cleaning the mud off. I can’t bring myself to care.

Thanks for talking to me. Everybody needs somebody that they can talk to.

Dennis
Response from Suzz1 made on 14th Sep 2024 01:30:50 > @Dennis71
Hi I live in Missouri, small world.
I live with my 44 year old daughter and her dog and cat.
I’m ready for fall.
Response from Mark Dee made on 21st Sep 2024 21:42:46 > @FELINEFRIEND
Hi. Mark from Northamptonshire here.
Response from KimP4 made on 24th Sep 2024 20:51:37 > @Dennis71
Dennis , your words brought such a sad picture to. me. When we lose someone we have lived with for so long, it just changes our whole outlook on life and can feel there is no future for us anymore. I'm no psychiatrist but maybe you could set a day to do those jobs that your Alisa would have done, You will feel better, I have been through something similar. My husband was diagnosed with dementia, he went into care in April. Trying to go on living in our home felt wrong, but I had to learn to do the jobs he would have done - the 'man' jobs and it honestly made me feel so much better. Something to tackle and challenge me. Anyway I hope things improve in your life. Stay strong. KimP
Response from Dennis71 made on 25th Sep 2024 03:20:55 > @KimP4
Thank you Kim. I’m sorry about your husband’s condition, and I commend you for your positive outlook. I can’t find a lot of things to be positive about. I suppose depression is part of it. And being isolated doesn’t help. I promised Alisa I would care for our kitties, Star and Luna. And I have a Great Pyrenee named Happy who is 12 years old and needs me. The three of them are my family now….the family I live with. It’s funny you mentioned I should take a day “to do those jobs Alisa would have done.” I thought the same thing after I wrote the letter on the 13th of Sep. I asked myself why I insisted on wallowing in self-pity. I painted the west porch floor last Friday, and am starting to repair the east porch floor this week. Maybe tomorrow I’ll tackle the barn swallow nests.

The saddest part of my life is the teahouse. It was an “every summer evening adventure” for Alisa and I for many years. We both loved music. We took our phones and Bluetooth speakers out there every night, often listening and talking until midnight. Everything just feels so empty now. Everything is quiet. No one knows or cares about how Alisa and I spent our summer evenings. Except me. I’m considering moving to get away from the memories.

Thank you for talking.

Dennis
Response from Dennis71 made on 27th Sep 2024 23:35:24 > @Suzz1
Hi Suzz1…I have a granddaughter living in Missouri. And a great-granddaughter. She and her husband live on a farm in the southwestern part of the state. Fall is coming. The nights are getting cool. I hope the trees are pretty in your area. I used to love seeing the trees in Arkansas in the fall. Fiery red. And beautiful.
Response from Lizanne41 made on 14th Oct 2024 20:38:58 > @Mark Dee
Hi, Mark!

I live in Northamptonshire, too. Would you like to chat?
Ucancallmedr
11th Oct 2024 01:37:27
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Welcome-- I am new as well. F. 68
shail
6th Oct 2024 17:52:00
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GrantH
27th Sep 2024 20:00:33
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Always happy to chat and share. Fills in the long days and evenings with a little lightness.
Dave202
21st Sep 2024 12:36:13 (Last activity: 21st Sep 2024 21:41:14)
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Hi to you all. New to the forum wishing you all a good day 🙂
Response from Mark Dee made on 21st Sep 2024 21:41:14
Hi Dave. Nice to see you here.
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18th Sep 2024 19:35:39 (Last activity: 21st Sep 2024 04:59:12)
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Response from Dadeda made on 21st Sep 2024 04:59:12
Hi Country man55

New also, trying to understand how it works. Chat some time?
MariD
20th Sep 2024 23:01:54
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Hello Rhyll, how are you today?
Suzz1
14th Sep 2024 01:27:32 (Last activity: 19th Sep 2024 05:54:17)
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Hi, I’m new also. I’m getting ready to have knee surgery so thought I would give online chatting a try.
Response from Dennis71 made on 19th Sep 2024 05:54:17
Good luck with your knee surgery tomorrow…you can do it!
50sgal
16th Sep 2024 08:00:22
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Steffiegal
14th Sep 2024 23:08:41
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Hi Rhyll.....how does one pronounce that name? is it welsh (just wondered)...or does your husband or old friends have a shortened version like..."oi you or thingy" HAHAHAHAHA.....no sorry, that made to me. I hope you're not too sensible but if you are you can just give me the bums rush......heeeeee....
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