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Hello - looking for like minded friends to chat with

Hey, just new to the group, I’m 50, female, and new to a town where I know no one... just looking for people to chat to


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FranM38
2 days ago (Last activity: 20th Apr 2021 21:00:13)
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Hi Im new too and looking for people to chat too. Wondering if anyone is ever on this site.
Response from Bald123 made 22 hours ago
Yes I am here and lots more friendly people as well. I live in Devon
Response from FranM38 made 22 hours ago
Hi I an in Plymouth. would love to chat with you
Response from FranM38 made 35 minutes ago > @Bald123
Hi Bald123, I am from Plymouth devon. Nice to meet you. Would love to chat.
Sll607
1 days ago (Last activity: 19th Apr 2021 22:39:05)
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57 f here. Lonely and want to chat, male or female. Let's talk !
Response from Bald123 made 22 hours ago
Hello where are you living-I am in sunny Devon in Barnstable
loungingsofa70
1 days ago
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Hi I live in Tewkesbury Glos. but came up to stay in Ryll.last Septemberwhen there was a break in the pandemic, Stayed at the Prmiere inn on the seafront. However it had to be said that the whole place was dead. Went to Llandudno for the day also, very crowded . Wanted to go by railway to the top of the Great Orm but it was closed had to bus up there. No life in Rhyll. I bet it's a bit more crowded now though.
SLKchick
22nd Mar 2021 15:31:51 (Last activity: 17th Apr 2021 14:50:20)
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Hi Rhyll,

I've just joined today.

Like you, i'm loooking for someone to talk too.
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Response from LesleyJ57 made on 23rd Mar 2021 17:10:01
Hi SLKchick,welcome to the group hope you are ok?
Response from SLKchick made on 23rd Mar 2021 17:32:05 > @LesleyJ57
Hi LesleyJ57,

Lovely to hear from you, thank you.

I’ wasn’t sure if I’d sent the email correctly, so glad I did.

I would love to chat with you or other women.

This lockdown has been hard and I have really missed being able to speak with someone.

My children are great and kept in touch regularly, but I so wanted to speak to someone of a similar age. I’m 62. Also I would prefer a woman because we have similar issues.. empty nest, gaining weight, self confidence, etc.

I look for to hearing from you again soon.

SLKchick
Response from JudyM46 made on 24th Mar 2021 09:39:08 > @SLKchick
Hi there, we’re I love in NZ, we were only locked down 4 weeks, no Covid here thank goodness, I really feel for others countries who have been hit hard.
Response from LesleyJ57 made on 24th Mar 2021 15:42:28 > @SLKchick
Hi SLKchick thank you for replying,I am 63 yrs old have 3 grown up children,my daughter came back home to be my carer just before the lockdown last yr as I have oesteo arthritus in both knees and cant get around much,I have been divorced for 23 yrs my x husband didnt bother with my children when he left so I have been mam and dad to them on my own it has been very hard at times but I got there in the end,I have found this lockdown very difficult as I cant get out as much as I did before I just want us all to get back to normal !!! Hope to hear from you
Response from barbj56 made on 28th Mar 2021 21:42:05 > @JudyM46
Your PM seems amazing! She got it under control for you didn't she.
Here in Canada we seem to be going through a 3rd wave and although it's nowhere as bad as other places the isolation and loneliness is starting to wear thin! As worried as I am about the vaccines I can hardly wait to get it!
Response from barbj56 made on 28th Mar 2021 21:44:10 > @SLKchick
Hi
Where are you from? I definitely understand the need to chat with someone your own age.
My kids are great but they don't get it do they!! I am 64 and feel I could have written your letter as all those things apply to me also!
Response from JudyM46 made on 29th Mar 2021 00:09:57 > @barbj56
Yes, we have been fortunate and were about to keep a lot safer than other countries. Don’t believe all you read about our wonderful PM, she loves the control and we are all tired of it. So many business have gone down the tube, because of the over zealous government.
Response from SLKchick made on 29th Mar 2021 10:04:38 > @barbj56
Hi Barbj56,

It’s lovely to speak with someone a similar age.

There are things which with don’t always want to discuss with your children. I think they just see us as mums and not individuals.

I live in South Derbyshire. Where do you live?

I’m so ready for this lockdown to end! I think that it had affected everybody, in one way or another.

Don’t know about you, but we are ready to get away.

Mind you, it’s sunny here today and everything looks better sun kissed.

Enjoy you day

SLK
Response from SLKchick made on 29th Mar 2021 10:12:39 > @LesleyJ57
Hi LesleyJ57,

Sorry to hear that you suffer so much with your health, but it sounds like you are a strong woman, raising the children on your own. That is no easy task.

I was divorced before I met my current husband. Like you I had to raise my children alone.

Luckily I have been married to Gary for 28 years and he is a wonderful husband and step father.

It is difficult to find the positives in life, especially when you suffer as you do.

Sometimes, I think that you need to take it just a day/hour at a time.

Wishing you well

SLK
Response from barbj56 made on 29th Mar 2021 23:59:45 > @SLKchick
Hi SLK

I live in North Vancouver, BC in Canada but grew up in England, born in Lancashire, went to school in Staffordshire and have relatives up in Cumbria.
Yes, I know what you mean.. we are back in another lock down as we seem to be going through a third wave. I know speaking to my cousins in England that your vaccination is going much faster than ours. I turn 65 in June and when my daughter recently asked me what I wanted to do for my birthday I said to get my shot!! I have some hesitancy about it but I want to get on with life so I am ready to roll up my sleeve!!
I think the only part of Derbyshire I ever went to was the Peak DIstrict. It was lovely there.
I live in a lovely little community called Deep Cove. It's often the setting for sappy romantic tv films!! I often forget it's the ocean we're on and not a lake as we feel completely surrounded by mountains, which were freshly covered in snow this morning, but not down below!!

I was widowed 5 years ago so I moved to an apartment near my oldest son, They have 3 children so it's great to be so close to them, although they are always so busy even during Covid!!

Like you I can't wait to get away. I ventured on holiday solo three summers ago and went to Ireland on a coach trip before visiting my family in Cumbria. I had such a wonderful time seeing Ireland especially seeing my DNA is more Irish than English!!

The next summer I went on holiday to Italy and Greece on a coach trip again with a friend I made on the Irish trip. It was amazing and we looked forward to planning on meeting up again and going somewhere else but of course we know what happened last year!! I actually have a credit from Air Transat burning holes in my pocket as I wait to be able to come over to the UK again! Last year some high school friends and I were going to meet up for a week in the Yorkshire Dales which I was really looking forward to. I love to travel so can't wait to start again.

Where do you like to go to when you can?

We seem to be turning the corner too and moving into Spring. My daughter lives near the Rockies and still has snow on the ground but she says it is starting to melt fast!

Hope this finds you well
Barbara
Response from SLKchick made on 30th Mar 2021 10:50:24 > @barbj56
Hi Barbara,

You said you like the Peak District, well I’m about a 30 mins drive away. We used to go up a lot when we had a 4x4. My husband used to like going off the road on to rougher ground.

Sounds like you love to travel.

We live Canada, have been a few times. Usually go in the wintertime as I’m not a fan of the heat. We fly into Boston, pick up a SUV and drive up.

We almost emigrated there. We got as far as the interview stage but I said to my husband that I couldn’t leave the children and grandchildren. I would have loved to live there.

It sounds beautiful where you are.

Hopefully soon we will all be able to travel.

Kindest regards

SLK
Response from LesleyJ57 made on 30th Mar 2021 18:10:30 > @SLKchick
Hi SLK, thank you for replying hope you are well? The pain I am in is every day with my arthritus I am on a waiting list for knee replacements and until I have them done nothing will help,with the corona virus all ops have been put on hold so I dont know when they will get done,I just take each day as it comes that is all I can do,although saying that I do get really depressed as each day its the same thing over and over,I did meet someone else 2 yrs after I divorced we was together for 8 yrs then we split up I was on my own for 11 yrs then we met up again and got back together but we only lasted 2 yrs we split for the last time just over a yr ago it just wasnt the same,now I doubt I will ever meet anyone again, hope to hear from you soon
Response from Zazz made on 7th Apr 2021 10:59:23 > @SLKchick
Hello also new to site happy to chat
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Zazz
7th Apr 2021 10:55:28 (Last activity: 16th Apr 2021 21:54:00)
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Hello I am also new to the site, posted a chat but doesn’t seem to be on the forum! I am now living in Somerset after retiring. Looking to make new friends as now on my own. Outdoors type of person always willing to have a go at most things.
Response from FranM38 made 3 days ago
Hi Zazz,
Im new to, I live now in Devon but I was born and brought up in Taunton, Somerset.

Love to chat with you.
Jenny1812
12th Apr 2021 10:41:47
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Hi I'm new on the group would love to chat with people from all over the world. I am originally from the UK Leicestershire with family still there. I live in South Africa, have worked in Saudi Arabia
as a nurse. I am now retired and living with my husband in a beautiful rural area.
JudyM46
24th Mar 2021 09:36:55 (Last activity: 5th Apr 2021 21:07:53)
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Hi, I new to the group, recently widowed and looking to chat. I live in New Zealand.
Response from Niftychat made on 28th Mar 2021 20:59:56
Hi, I am currently nursing my husband at home, but he is on the pathway which will not be too long now. I will struggle afterwards, as due to my previous jobs I have been unable to form friendships with other women. Now I suppose would be a good time to be able to try and forge ahead with others in the same position.
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Response from JudyM46 made on 29th Mar 2021 00:06:01 > @Niftychat
Hi there Niftychat, I am just two months out from what you are experiencing now. I nursed my husband till the end, it’s still so very raw. I’m taking it one day at a time. Keeping myself busy, but I am feeling very lonely at times. I have a wee dog, and he keeps me going and we go out walkies every day. I’m happy to chat as I know what you are going through, take care. Xx
Response from Niftychat made on 4th Apr 2021 23:21:10 > @JudyM46
Hi Judy, well that post I made a few days ago has now changed, my husband lost his fight 4 days ago. I had known it would happen three months ago and made the decision to leave Spain and get him to his family in Wales. I will be returning to Spain hopefully later this month. Then I am really at a loss, as I don't have any friends there yet. So a penpal would be great for me. I have also been thinking of getting a dog as they are such good company, but also I would like to go on some escorted holidays, as you can go alone on those... Who knows, ideas are one thing, but putting into practice quite another x
Response from JudyM46 made on 5th Apr 2021 05:43:12
Hi Niftychat, so sorry for your loss, it’s a huge adjustment and a big hole in your life. Like me no doubt you will be fine. I am nearly three months out and am coping very well. I have fixed the lawnmower, renewed all the garden hose fittings, washed the outside of the house washed all the windows and cleaned up the garden, all had been neglected whiles my husband was ill. Just keeping busy is the answer for me anyway. Do you have family in Spain? They can be a comfort. Dogs are wonderful company, I have a King Charles Cavalier Spaniel, they are little love sponges and great company.
I also attend yoga classes and have coffee dates with friends. You will find you adapt to change and start a new chapter in life. Take care and feel free to chat anytime.
Annyn46
16th Mar 2021 02:46:18 (Last activity: 4th Apr 2021 23:42:11)
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Hi everyone I’m new here .Have just found this site. Need to get something off my chest at these difficult times .I came to live with my family. .As did the first lockdown for 4 months not seeing my family friends. Being an out going lady and very social .I found it very difficult as had just moved.as well. Not seeing anyone for 4 months. So it seemed a good idea to move in with family. I’ve a grandchild whose a teenager . As much as I ask can my grandchild to wash your hands when coming home from school .As I’m at risk. In my 70s .. The answer is a No .I don’t hug or touch . I help in the home a lot and do the washing ironing cook wash up .Help. there is just the 3 of us here . As teenagers do get close at school regardless of the safety issue. Because of the lack of care to me in this way, I feel very vulnerable. My Grandchild is highly intelligent but with a terrible temper, . I’ve tried talking about this . I’m told not to fuss . . In no uncertain terms . I’m unable to talk to anyone about this ? So forgive my first comment on here about me x
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Response from Annyn46 made on 16th Mar 2021 09:18:03 > @Sally - Silversurfer's Editor
Thank you Sally I wasn’t thinking when I put all this on your amazing site found it by chance .Having no one to talk things over with . No I haven’t looked what’s available but will do so . I’m still able to find my way round most things still. Thankfully xx I will return to write maybe answer a few messages when if I can be of help or just pen friending. Thank you Best wishes Annyn46
Response from Niftychat made on 4th Apr 2021 23:42:11 > @Annyn46
Hi Annyn, lovely idea to move in with family throughout Covid, but I think everyone worldwide are getting frustrated now. We as humans from democratic countries, are not used to being restricted. Teenagers are definitely fed up with Covid, so in some ways social media and peer pressure from friends may not be helping him. You should have had your vaccine now shouldn't you? That will give you some piece of mind.
Keep strong things can only get better x
Cessna
29th Mar 2021 09:59:18 (Last activity: 30th Mar 2021 08:31:36)
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Hi - My name is Brian living near Bromley Kent semi retired last 10 years with plenty of time on my hands. Left school aged 14 to work with an airline at Croydon airport. Served N/S Signal Corps Catterick and Singapore, sold motorcycles, office machines, Took up flying. now living almost alone.
Response from Sunshine2021 made on 29th Mar 2021 15:38:53
Hi Brian, I wanna chat. hit me up at [email protected] I have been too just recently and haven't made much contact yet either. Let's communicate.

Kindly yours,

Linda
Response from Cessna made on 30th Mar 2021 08:31:36 > @Sunshine2021
Hi Linda - I'm guessing you are in the States. Was previously on Dig Spy but they are closing down their chat board so here I am.
barbj56
28th Mar 2021 21:39:37
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I'm new to the group too and would love to chat with people
I'm from Canada
Jimin79
26th Mar 2021 17:12:01 (Last activity: 26th Mar 2021 19:27:45)
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Applejack
23rd Mar 2021 11:38:24
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Hi everyone.
Just joined and I'm hoping to have some interesting topics to talk about.
Anyone out there?
LesleyJ57
12th Mar 2021 15:44:31 (Last activity: 22nd Mar 2021 15:29:25)
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Hi everyone I have been a member of Silversurfers a while now ,just wanting to make friends and have a chat to,up to now nobody has replied to me ,hope some one does soon,thank you
Response from sherlock52 made on 14th Mar 2021 10:38:09
Hi Lesley I feel the same joined just to have a chat no more no less I enjoy talking to others about life and hobbies so yes please reply
Response from LesleyJ57 made on 15th Mar 2021 15:10:56 > @sherlock52
Hi sherlock52, thank you for messaging me hope you are keeping well with all that is going on right now(covid) a little about myself I am 63 yrs old divorced 3 grown up children,I love reading and listening to music and days out when I can, how about you what are your hobbies etc?
Response from sherlock52 made on 15th Mar 2021 16:57:11 > @LesleyJ57
Hi Lesley many thanks for reply sorry for delay new to this : I an 68 yrs old married with 3 grown up children enjoy wood work, days out, fishing and above all chatting about life you will never find me being rude and i will always be respectful
Response from LesleyJ57 made on 15th Mar 2021 18:15:49 > @sherlock52
Hi sherlock52 thanks for your reply, my dad used to love going fishing yrs ago especially
deepsea fishing but he is 84 now and doesnt get out much due to ill health and the covid as he is vunerable,my mam passed away nearly 2 yrs ago ,they were married for 63 yrs we all miss her very much it was difficult for me yesterday with it been mothers day
Response from sherlock52 made on 16th Mar 2021 10:11:06 > @LesleyJ57
Hi Lesley hope your feeling ok and with the weather improving slightly we can do a bit more I am making latice work fencing around the garden and it's not a small garden, hope your family are ok and we can have visits just now, I am just getting use to this site so do not always see messages but thanks for reply and hope we can keep chatting Bob
Response from LesleyJ57 made on 16th Mar 2021 14:19:30 > @sherlock52
Good afternoon sherlock, hope you are ok today,I like lattice fencing it looks really nice,my family are well thank you ,hope yours are? Is your wife on here as well? I hope she doesnt mind us chatting to each other.What is the weather like where you are ? it is sunny here but keeps raining now and again
Response from sherlock52 made on 16th Mar 2021 15:06:23 > @LesleyJ57
Hi Lesley yes all well here a bit breezy but not too bad no the wife not on here does not do computer sites she likes reading and knitting and no she does not mind me chatting and making new friends we moved from the midlands about 5 yrs ago and now live in Lincolnshire and enjoy all it has to offer a lot of peace and quite Bob
Response from LesleyJ57 made on 16th Mar 2021 18:11:29 > @sherlock52
I am pleased your wife doesnt mind, have you got anyone else on here to chat to? I live in Hull East Yorkshire have done all my life,my daughter lives with me as my carer as I have oesteo arthritus in both my knees and cant get around much on my own, she came back to live with me a yr ago and brought her dog with her ,he is a rescue dog from Romania,have you got any pets?
Response from sherlock52 made on 17th Mar 2021 16:41:46 > @LesleyJ57
Hi Lesley you live across the Humber to me I live close to Cleethorpes my wife has oesteo arthritus in one knee and she struggles with walking I had a accident at work on left leg so life slowed down a lot my only pet is a bearded dragon and fish in our pond
Response from LesleyJ57 made on 18th Mar 2021 11:45:09 > @sherlock52
Good morning sherlock hope you are both ok today,I am in pain every day with my arthritus I am on a waiting list to have them done but what with the corona virus it has been put back,but saying that I hate operations but I am sure I will feel better when they are done ,the question is when?
Response from PaulR95 made on 21st Mar 2021 21:45:53
Hello. Seems like in these times of the pandemic we all could use someone to chat and spend some time together.
Response from LesleyJ57 made on 22nd Mar 2021 15:29:25 > @PaulR95
Hello.you are right there ,I must admit I am really fed up with the pandemic now ,I just want us all to get back to some normality,hope to hear back from you
PaulR95
21st Mar 2021 21:49:31 (Last activity: 22nd Mar 2021 11:18:10)
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Hello. Think we are both looking for some chat to brighten our days . I am in the US but would love to chat.
Response from MsJones made on 22nd Mar 2021 11:18:10
Hello PaulR95,

Are you a piper? It's a great photo you have there.

I guess many of us have learned how adaptable we are in this past year. Many of us have learned new ways to connect. I have missed gathering with other people to listen to live musicians. Traditional music, rock, ballads, jazz - any kind of music. Hopefully it won't be too many months into the future that we can hear and cheer for singers and musicians and smile with the people around us.
PaulR95
21st Mar 2021 21:50:50 (Last activity: 22nd Mar 2021 07:34:41)
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Hello. Think we both looking for some chat to liven things up.
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fudgeed13
31st Jan 2021 15:04:16 (Last activity: 21st Mar 2021 21:47:20)
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hi im angie from manchester feel free to chat any time
Response from Ollie3 made on 7th Feb 2021 18:38:27
Hi Angie hope you are doing ok. Just wanted to introduce myself, I'm Caroline and I live in Essex. I had forgotten all about this website until today and thought it would be nice to connect with new people so hope to speak to you again soon.
Response from MsJones made on 16th Feb 2021 12:00:22
Hello Angie and Caroline,

It is snowy and cold here in the U.S. as I sit here drinking my morning coffee. I will start work in a an hour, working from home due to the pandemic. I am grateful to have a job.
I don't know how to reply to both of you at once.
Would love to connect and here how you are doing these days. I check the site most days lately. Take good care of yourselves.
Response from Ollie3 made on 1st Mar 2021 21:18:32 > @MsJones
We have been enjoying very mild weather, did have some snow but it didn't amount to much and it didn't last long. Which part of the U.S are you from? Know what you mean about being grateful to have a job, I've been going to work throughout as I'm in healthcare but I've felt it's my bit of normality.
Response from Samella made on 7th Mar 2021 10:16:58 > @Ollie3
Good Morning to you Both I am new on here so don't really know what I am doing.
I am in Essex and would love to chat.
Response from Ollie3 made on 8th Mar 2021 20:37:10 > @Samella
Hi there! its always a nice surprise when you see someone has replied.
Response from MsJones made on 8th Mar 2021 23:16:57 > @Ollie3
I live and work in Virginia. I do think my job continuing is a blessing financially and also mentally. I keep to similar habits and routines as I would have going into the office. I miss my co workers though. It does seem that we will be able to gather in groups in a few months. I hope you take good care of yourself Ollie3.
Response from PaulR95 made on 21st Mar 2021 21:47:20
Hello. I live in the US and would enjoy chatting every once in a while.
Chepee
21st Mar 2021 04:08:05 (Last activity: 21st Mar 2021 20:55:01)
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Hi there
Response from Iss made on 21st Mar 2021 20:55:01
Hi Chepee, nice to meet you.
Tyronie65
15th Mar 2021 11:13:31
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Hi Rhyll I just entered chat yesterday attempting to navigate --any suggestions
Sperrin
14th Mar 2021 18:26:26
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Hello
I am new to the site and keen to chat with spontaneity on any topic to meet friends and and engage with the life experiences of others. I have been enjoying the pursuits of the third age and value what life has given so far .
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