Just joined so I'm introducing myself.
Watch this postI will be 67 next month and retired from the many different jobs in my working life. I guess that I didn’t ever find my calling. I went to university at age 59 but when it was over it was too late to launch a new career. I wanted to lecture but students don’t want to listen to old fogies, so sadly I put aside that idea and settled into life as an eccentric dog owner.
I live in a beautiful Lancashire valley surrounded by hills that demand they be walked/climbed, how could I refuse?
I would like to do a bit of cycle touring but a recent diagnosis of spondylosis and some hip pain means that I may not be doing a world tour anytime soon!
I’m keen to make some friends as I have been on my own for a very long time now, my daughters don’t bother much with me and I don’t have a partner.I didn’t expect to be so isolated at this time in my life, isn’t it strange the way family and friends seem to forget us when we get past 60?
I will pop in regularly and hope to strike up some friendships.
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Im very lucky in that i do have a great family who contact me daily and lots friends who I speak to regularly. Always good to make new friends though.
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Such a surreal time right now, glad its an opportunity for the earth to heal however the cost in lost lives is very high and that's a very sad part of all of this.
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Enjoyable
In this lock down . I’m 3 weeks tommorow
On lock down .
Be nice to speak to some folk same age
I’ve got family who FaceTime
Me everyday
So I think I’m pretty lucky
I’ve got a Bichon dog prince 5
Who at the moment is my lifesaver
I watch tv, read Do housework
Normally be out walking
Sitting having a coffee
That I’m sadly addicted to
So anyone feel free to chat .
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Where you live sounds very nice I am in Kent right opposite a fruit farm so a different kind of rural.
I know this is a bit stilted but it is a first time for me not chatting face to face with a cuppa.
I am 69, retired from all sorts of jobs but not been to university. also looking for friends and maybe can meet up after this lockdown is done
Think of it as time out and see what new activities you can do. Be thankful for what you have right now 🙂
All you have to do is dive in, water is warmish for this time of year.
Loads of threads for you to air your views and/or rants or advice.
Just trawl through the Forum Boards and Topics, maybe you will find something of interest. Humour, music, gardening, politics,...
Lionel
Hope you are keeping safe I just joined as I was finding it
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Melina
But in this time of self-isolation, the stark realities of having no "support system" are starting to dawn on me. Not feeling sorry for myself, just trying to be realistic. I had an enjoyable life before the current Covid-19 crisis. Overnight it just disappeared (just as it has for many others, I suspect).
Like celtwich, I too went to university late and therefore didn't get a career out of it. I didn't expect to be isolated either, but the coronavirus apparently has other ideas.
Anyway, hello to everyone and don't hesitate to reply.
I hope you enjoy being part of our community.
Melina
I hope you enjoy being part of our community.
Melina
I hope you enjoy being part of our community.
Melina
Lovely and warm in Arizona, we are still reeling from storms and enough rain to fill another planet...a dry one!