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Another new member saying hello!

Good day all….just signed in and wanted to introduce myself. I am an expat returning from Western Canada after nearly thirty years and having recently lost my wife and best friend, I now find it necessary to come home and settle down to complete my retirement.


At the moment living in Switzerland with my daughter and son -in-law and due to take up residence in the Bicester area over the summer. Really hope to go back to my childhood passions of all things English countryside and relive my fishing days.


Interested to hear if anyone else has had a similar experience….looking forward to receiving any response at all!


Created By on 23/06/2022

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shindy
20th Oct 2023 17:33:09
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Hello but why would you want to come back from Canada. I love bc have relatives there.
CaroB4
22nd Sep 2023 17:37:17
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Wonderng if you are back in UK now Graham and how it all went! Seems to be a few people retuning "home" after a lifetime away...will be interesting to know how you all find things now...so much has changed.
In a similar situation insofar as living in an area my late husband originated fr0m - nice and rural until you are alone! My two dogs keep me sane...whilst I ponder a move north to where I originated from - and happy to chat with anyone in similar situation. Sometimes as we get older and have more problems the family not so keen to have us around!! Not very encouraging! So - hope to make new friends and support each other!
Ausjulz17
27th Jun 2022 09:43:02 (Last activity: 10th Jul 2022 13:05:03)
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Wow. What a story. I'm in Australia and lost my husband in 2016 and have been having my strings pulled towards home. It'll be good to hear how you go. It's a big decision for me but there are things there that I miss the older I get. Hope to get some updates. Julie
Response from Ch126 Original Poster made on 10th Jul 2022 13:05:03
Hi Julie,
Sorry its taken so long to get back to you, I have had a pretty trying time finding my way around this site, however with the assistance of “georgesmum the fog is now clearing. Unfortunately I am now getting really close to my move to England(Wednesday) with things and stuff being pack and other stuff unfindable but once I get organised I”ll answer your post properly….please bear with me.
Graham
Henderson447
27th Jun 2022 10:27:45 (Last activity: 27th Jun 2022 14:00:08)
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Happy new week to you
Response from Sally - Silversurfer's Editor made on 27th Jun 2022 14:00:08
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georgesmum
25th Jun 2022 15:42:44 (Last activity: 26th Jun 2022 15:05:30)
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Welcome to the site, hopefully your move to the beautiful county of Oxfordshire will go smoothly! Good luck.
Response from Ch126 Original Poster made on 25th Jun 2022 16:00:17
Thank you Georgesmum, you are my first contact…..it’s really great knowing that there is someone else out there, I really was hoping to have a bit more of a chat but; hey ho. Should you have anymore input I”d love to chat. Would you be living in the Oxon area?
Response from Valla46 made on 25th Jun 2022 18:33:13 > @Ch126
Hi there. I had a message from georgesmum as well, so welcome and hope your move to Bicester goes smoothly. Glad gm knows where it is, ‘cos I didn’t. I’m in Suffolk.

It must be a huge decision to move back from Canada to Europe after all those years! I lived in Washington state for two years when I first got married over fifty years ago, and that was a big wrench to leave and come back to England. Mind you, that all seems like a dream now. Wonder what would have happened if I’d stayed.

I assume you have family or friends in Bicester to make you welcome. Let me know how you get on.

Valla
Response from georgesmum made on 26th Jun 2022 15:05:30 > @Ch126
Hello again,
I trust you’re starting to find your way around the site? I’ve been popping in and out for years and still keep getting lost or losing “posts” so there’s not much hope for me!

Are you still visiting your family in Switzerland? A beautiful country which I’ve visited on a couple of occasions.....I will never forget my first visit to Lucerne when I was in my early 20’s. Hopefully you’ll get plenty of sightseeing done before you leave for the UK.

To answer your question as to my whereabouts....no I don’t live in Oxfordshire but I retired to the South Wales borders on my retirement, having been born and bred in West Midlands.
Anyway, happy to chat away about nothing in particular!

Take care
Sandra

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