Canada, Ontario, Toronto
Watch this postHi, Just joined SS. I am 52. Not from UK or Europe. Is there anyone here who is from North America? I work full time, am busy mostly, but sometimes feel very lonely.
Found out recently that my spouse of three decades does not love me, has cheated on me several times. We live together, but don't share a bed.
I can't believe how my life panned out. I am smart and quite independent. However, I am not an extrovert. Anyone here who is similarly married yet single, looking for company for a hurt soul, all over again?
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I'm wearing the other shoe to you! I've been married for 46 years - hated my wife for 30, stayed for the kids. Never cheated, although I'm sure my wife thinks I do/have done.
Separate beds for the last 20 years. I am so lonely and desperate for physical companionship. Not a 'leg over' just some friendship from the opposite sex and some closeness.
Here I am driveling on about me when it's you that I came to reply to. I'm coming round to the opinion of Pente - why not leave - have some fun for me!
Hey, we could run away together LOL
Take care, hope this helps, write soon
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But here’s the real scoop if you stay or go you have to jump on your own band wagon he will either join you or walk away because he doesn’t get it or want to see you happy. Either way you are better off for it. Don’t let him run your happiness. You run it. Keep yourself busy and maybe take love out of the equation and enjoy your new roommate. Ohhhhhh You Are So Worth It!!!! Mantra- Today I’m going to have fun for me.