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Morning from a silver-surfing Yorkshire lass who is spending too many days not speaking to anyone - but the walls.

Woke up this morning; to the sound of rain pattering on my window - thinking about another long day in splendid isolation. Hence my exploration into online chat forums.


Have I come to the right place for some interesting conversations? I shall be 64 next month. Have recently semi-retired.


My children are now out in the world and I wouldn't dream of bothering them. But life seems so very different now (from the last 20 years as a teacher) and I'm not used to uncertainty.


Things to chat about - I love reading, acquired an allotment last year which has been great, and I absolutely love walking (but not in the rain). Hoping to make some new friends.


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Wol54
24th Feb 2021 23:26:29
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Hello? I'm also new to this site, retired, loving retirement, hating lockdown. Happy to chat anytime ( literally...I'm a very bad sleeper!)
Best wishes from Lancashire
LesleyJ57
13th Feb 2021 18:13:32
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Hi Lottiebell,I am new to this group and am hoping for people to chat with,like you I am 64 this yr and my children are grown up,hope to hear back from you
glyn52
11th Feb 2021 11:44:01
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Hi Lottiebell, When is your Birthday? I will be 69 end of Feb. Where does time go? I think we are all getting bored with this lockdown now. Sooner or later we have to get back to some normality.

Another teacher online. Wrote to Donna as she is an ex Teacher too.

Bet your glad you have your allotment. At least you have somewhere to go.

Take care. Keep well.
Caroleharper2
8th Feb 2021 15:30:48
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Hi Lottiebell
You have an allotment.... Bliss
I admire your spirit. I love gardening, not particularly good at it but I try and when something turns out well, such excitement!
I do seem to have over eager green fingers where Tomatoes are concerned however!
Do you have a gardening club? I would like to attend a meeting at our local one this year COVID Allowing and glean some tips.
And reading.... I have quite a broad base of likes..... Harry Potter through to Michelle Obama’s autobiography!!
Walking is a real love too. Headlands and hills and beaches.
Cornwall And The Lakes are my favourites.
Yep, Lockdown is a pain but it’s giving me the opportunity to do all the jobs I need to do, so that hopefully I can escape once they lift the starting gate!
LesleyJ57
7th Feb 2021 11:51:03 (Last activity: 7th Feb 2021 13:57:18)
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Hi Lottiebell,I am new to this site as well and am hoping to make new friends to chat with due to me having to stay in most days because of the corona virus,I am 63yrs old have been divorced for over 20yrs now,have 3 children all grown up,I like reading ,listening to music and did like going out for days,not any more ,hope to hear back from you
Response from Daya made on 7th Feb 2021 13:55:45
Hi Lottiebell, I am new too and looking for people to chat with, 67, grown up kids and husband but so looking forward to”escape”, my vaccine won’t be long now I hope, life has changed beyond recognition
Response from Daya made on 7th Feb 2021 13:57:18
Think that reply was meant for Lesley but hey ho, happy to talk to anyone.
glyn52
5th Feb 2021 12:49:43 (Last activity: 7th Feb 2021 11:07:08)
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Hi, from one Yorkshire lass to another who now live in Essex. Iam too on my own and fed up with this lockdown. I love to go swimming. Can’t. Love to go out for meals can’t. Have the odd delivery.

Iam too retired and have been for eight years. I too miss the company. Not as fit as I was. Hopefully soon we can get to some normality again,

Take care. Keep well. Keep safe.
Response from Daya made on 5th Feb 2021 13:08:28
Hi x fed up too with this lockdown, I miss the meals out too. Married and have family but I think lockdown teaches you, friendship wise who you want to stay in touch with and who you don’t. I am assessing that and looking forward to making new friends, this seems as good a place as any to start.
I too am from the north but maybe further north than you, Whitley bay, also retired 8 years.
Looking forward to speaking to you.
Response from glyn52 made on 7th Feb 2021 11:07:08
Hi, Thanks for your reply. I was born in Bradford. W.Yorkshire in the 50’s. Moved to Guiseley then married moved to Ilkley. Now in Danbury, Essex. Snowing at the moment which is nice but I won’t be having a snowball fight . Heard you have had it bad this last week. I don’t think I could live up North again become a softie as I don’t like the cold.

Keep in touch and keep well and safe.

Glyn
Not2grey
5th Feb 2021 14:03:11
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Hi there fellow Tyke . I used to have an allotment but had to give it up as whist I was out at work my Grandad ( going back a few year ) used to give the veg and fruit I had grown to his girlfriends .!! I can laugh about it now.
Hope you enjoy being part of the silver surfer community .
Maz99
4th Feb 2021 00:10:07 (Last activity: 5th Feb 2021 12:53:38)
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It’s a very strange time. I retired about 5 years ago and volunteer as an usher at our local theatre which I love.
I am finding it pretty tough, although have my husband for company, I love talking to people and I am normally busy.


We have been to Yorkshire a few times, but live in the South West so quite away for us to travel, but will definately be returning..
Response from glyn52 made on 5th Feb 2021 12:53:38
Hi,

I too love the theatre but haven’t been since my ex died who was my ex husband. Iam a Northerner but live in the South East now. Retired, and miss company due to lockdown.

Hopefully we can get back to some normality.
Daya
5th Feb 2021 09:50:27 (Last activity: 5th Feb 2021 09:58:43)
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Hello, I am from the north east, 67, retired teacher too, looking to chat and find more ways to fill the days!
Response from Sally - Silversurfer's Editor made on 5th Feb 2021 09:58:43
Hi Daya,

Welcome and many thanks for your first comment in our Forum.

If you already know your way around, then we will leave you to it.

If you are looking for some lively discussions, head on over to the Forum homepage to see what's trending right now and feel free to join in the discussions, with all our friendly members, perhaps ask a question or even start your own post.

eastwood
3rd Feb 2021 13:46:10 (Last activity: 3rd Feb 2021 13:51:48)
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Hi Lottiebell
I too live in Yorkshire. I recently cut my hours down at work and am planning to finish on a permanent basis next year (unless life throws me a curve ball). I enjoy reading and hope to be able to read more once I finish work. I like any genre but I must say Romance novels are at the bottom of my list. I have just bought one of the books on the Silver Surfers list Fifty-fifty by Steve Cavanagh.
Like you I enjoy walking normally either with friends or the local walking group. I have a reasonable sized garden, I have a had a go at growing most things in. This year I plan to grow cut flowers with just a few vegetables, any tips?
Response from Sally - Silversurfer's Editor made on 3rd Feb 2021 13:51:48
Hi eastwood,

Welcome and many thanks for your first comment in our Forum.

If you already know your way around, then we will leave you to it.

If you are looking for some lively discussions, head on over to the Forum homepage to see what's trending right now and feel free to join in the discussions, with all our friendly members, perhaps ask a question or even start your own post.

PurpleHat
29th Jan 2021 16:41:05
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Hello Lottiebell, I have just posted a reply to you elsewhere and now found this. I am somewhat older lady and now live in rural isolation in Wales with my daughter and her Welsh husband. Originally from Sussex.
My lovely daughter in law is a Yorkshire lass, My late husband and I often holidayed in the Lakes and Dales with our small caravan. Great countryside, great people!..We used to walk a lot.
I do not read so much now, I used to devour books and get completely lost in one!. I paint in oils a bit from my own photos, I have a lovely one of sheep begging sandwiches from some children picnicking out with a teacher in Edale..
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