Seeking conversation
Watch this postI am a 65-year-old man who is realizing that after 30 years as a contributing professional - even partial retirement took away a large part of my connections being single things from casual intimacy going out to dinner chatting online has been altered.
I am realizing I need this connection I miss more of the female connection- not necessarily sexually but the intimacy of listening, talking laughing.
This is my first try at seeking this missing piece. I have my family grandkids business
Thanks for giving my post a look!!
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I find that life can change on a daily basis and the connections you have when working are shut down because those people you used to connect with are still busy working and so for you a new life has to unfold. You need to have new and different adventures now but this will not come to you. You need to join as many clubs or activities as you can. i.e. dancing, tennis, squash, walking etc, not easy and sometimes it's hard to make the effort but friendships do not just appear. Starting here is a brilliant way to connect. I am enjoying writing this post now as it is making me feel connected to someone new. I have lots of interests and am very busy but still feel I am missing out on life at times. Hoe to chat again soon. Take care.
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I am a 70 year old lady
No pets, I love music, I have a senior ladies choir
I started a few organizations, I am politically involved, i lead a full life
I am preparing to move to a new seniors home, that is quite exciting..
I am blessed that my sister recently moved her with her husband, I have an older brother who is not well
I work hard to be positive and upbeat, I don’t care to be around people who complain and are negative, life is just too short
I would love to chat with someone with similar interests
I hope you all have a wonderful day
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How are you? I am new to this site, but saw your lovely post and thought I would say hello and hope you are having a good day. I am really only looking for a pen pal, not really a romantic relationship.
I am 55 and live in California.
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