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Why do people just disappear? Where do they go? I wanted people to talk to and got several replies but after a couple of messages they just went!! Is this a case of the x files or just plain rudeness?

Please, if you start talking to someone but for whatever reason, you can’t carry on, please tell them I suffer from depression and when I’m feeling low it would be nice to be able to tell someone and maybe they feel low too and appreciate a message.

Please think before you ignore. Thank you

Created By on 13/08/2021

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18th Aug 2021 21:09:04
Thanks for voting!
I’ve just read your post and I’m so sorry that you feel sidelined and sad.
I’m very fortunate in that I don’t suffer from depression, but I still don’t like it when people simply disappear just when I thought I might be making a friend.
Persevere. Not everyone is fickle. It’s hard, but dig in. I’m happy to chat. X

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