How Do Single Retired People Not Become Isolated And Alone?
Watch this postI'm basically a recluse. I'm a nice enough guy but I got no friends or relations. I could be gregarious if I knew where to turn it on. The last person to share a coffee with me in my house was may 2013. What do other people do to meet people ???
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I hate being still although I can barely get accross the room. I find the brain must be engaged in something if I'm not to die of bordom. So I paint or read.....I hate the TV except for the occasional soap or drama or good film that is not innadated with violence and cruellty. I have no suggestions but hope someone else can be more constructive..... but here to chat to whenever you like.
oh your an artest how wonderful I would love to see some of your artwork not sure where on here it would go as I am new. I have great respect for artest poets musicians. I have an open mind though I like van gogh's starry starry night, and also the song is beautiful, there are many theories about his death I read one recently that he was shot by accident by a young boy but he didn't tell the police as he wanted to protect the little boy. I guess we will never know will we... and beethovens 5th symphony was played for a group of ladies with cancer and some notes in this music killed some of the cancer cells apparently .http://hyperboreanvibrations.blogspot.co.uk/2011/03/fifth-symphony-by-beethoven-destroys.html
If you like dogs, get one and take it for walks, chat to fellow dog owners.
Walk down the street and say hello to people, they usually respond.
i haven't got many friends, but I've got loads of acquaintances.
walker. Or just go out for early morning walks and say Good Morning to every one you see.
I sit beside the fire and think of people long ago,
of people who will see a world that I will never know.
And all the while I sit and think of how it was before,
I listen for returning feet and voices at the door.
The sad, but indubitable truth is that the 'returning feet' (friends/family) may never arrive at your door.
The world will not beat a path to our doors, we have to go out to be noticed, or no-one will even know that we exist.
There are hundreds of thousands of lonely older people, abandoned by family, dropped down the memory hole of life, forgotten by former workmates, colleagues, neighbours and the system.
Here are a few pragmatic suggestions,
1 buy a bike, cyclists are very friendly people.
2 pop into your local pub, or WMC
3 brew some beer and invite the neighbours round
4 Host a barbeque
5 ask your local council what's going on for older men
6 go to church
7 do a college course
8 join ISIS (only joking!)
But, please do something, anything, but just get out there, smile, talk to people, laugh...go on, give it a go.
2. I hate pubs
3. Im not brewing beer, puts the pounds on ya, and I have no neighbours who would come in ... theyre all foreigners with loads of their own mates, and quite a few of the houses around me are muslim
4 I dont eat meat and conditions of 3 apply
5. waste of time going to the council and the library ... I tried... U3A is about all they suggest, and I found that elitist
6, I am not religious
7. I have a serious ptsd problem with places of education. I've never lasted in a course yet.
8. I;m far too nice